You’re in Control when You Lock His Cock

Male chastity is guaranteed to improve your relationship if you do it right. The problem comes when the keyholder isn’t sure how to manage her man once his dick is locked up. If the locked male isn’t able to communicate with her it can also be an issue. A few important things to remember as the keyholder.

• You’re in control.The moment you cede control of his cock the game comes to an end. If you’ll unlock him anytime he wants then he’s not really in chastity. You have to accept that you now make the decisions with regards to his cock and orgasms.

• You need to tease and play with him. You can’t lock him up, throw away the key, and be done with it. Male chastity only works to benefit a relationship when you’re actively playing with him. That can mean a lot of things, but if you want to keep it simple then touch him often, dress a little more suggestively in the house than you normally would, and have him go down on your frequently.

• Make his orgasms random. Stay away from a regular release schedule. Ultimately, if he knows when he’s going to be released he will begin to tailor his behavior to make sure he’s good in the day or two leading up to his orgasm. If he never knows when he’s going to be released he’ll always be a good boy.

Primary Benefits of Male Chastity

1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.

2. Because he can’t even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.

3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend.

4. It will substantially increase his desire to orally service his wife or girlfriend.

5. If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.

6. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority.

7. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it positively incentives him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please.

8. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills.

9. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.

10. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with his penis.

11. It deepens his submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on.

12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.

13. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.

14. If his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you.