The amazing thing about harnessing the man’s sexual energy is that it affects all aspects of his life, it isn’t confined to the bedroom. Would you believe me if I told you that your man can actually become aroused and thoroughly enjoy doing the lion’s share of the housework while you lounge on the couch? Oh, it’s true.
If he’s responding as expected to being teased and denied, he’ll start wanting to make your life more pleasant, in any way he can. And housework isn’t exactly a source of great pleasure for most women, so if you want you should use him for that too. There’s really not much to it, besides telling him what you expect from him. You just need to be a little smart about it.
Most men don’t particularly like housework either, so the key is to create a mental association between housework and the sex/kink part of the relationship. In the beginning, he is likely to feel this quite strongly just thinking about the fact that you are making him do the housework too, in addition to everything else he must do for you. How wildly unfair, in a totally arousing way! But the novelty wears off and if left to his own ruminations for too long without any positive reinforcement, he may start to feel that this is a negative part of the FLR. Luckily, it is easy to keep this interesting in the long term, too.
What you need to do is give him small reminders of the kinkyness/unfairness of the arrangement, so that the mental connection between sex/kink and housework becomes strong.
Some women also enjoy feminization, which may involve him doing the housework in a maid’s outfit. If that’s your thing, and you don’t have kids to hide it from, then go nuts. This will certainly be a powerful kink connection.
The other thing to be sensitive about when it comes to housework is that it can take a lot of time, so it doesn’t always work to have him do everything, all the time. It depends on what type of job he has and how demanding it is. If you’ve been smart, you’ve agreed that the FLR won’t influence any of your careers, at least not in a negative way, so you’ll have to use your best judgment when it comes to the amount of housework you can have him do. I recommend that you don’t force him to do everything just because you feel that it’s your right, if he for example has a demanding job. Start slow and have him do more and more until you sense that he can’t reasonably do more. Remember, you want him to be happy with this arrangement in the long run, so don’t overdo it.
If he’s responding as expected to being teased and denied, he’ll start wanting to make your life more pleasant, in any way he can. And housework isn’t exactly a source of great pleasure for most women, so if you want you should use him for that too. There’s really not much to it, besides telling him what you expect from him. You just need to be a little smart about it.
Most men don’t particularly like housework either, so the key is to create a mental association between housework and the sex/kink part of the relationship. In the beginning, he is likely to feel this quite strongly just thinking about the fact that you are making him do the housework too, in addition to everything else he must do for you. How wildly unfair, in a totally arousing way! But the novelty wears off and if left to his own ruminations for too long without any positive reinforcement, he may start to feel that this is a negative part of the FLR. Luckily, it is easy to keep this interesting in the long term, too.
What you need to do is give him small reminders of the kinkyness/unfairness of the arrangement, so that the mental connection between sex/kink and housework becomes strong.
Here are a few suggestions:
- Verbally tease him about his role as a house maid (or whatever else gets him off)
- Give surprise inspections and find something to be displeased about, but done in a sexy way
- Squeeze his balls until he groans and tell him what a good little servant he is
- While doing something visibly relaxing, like just lounging on the counch, have him interrupt his work to bring you a snack or a glass of wine
Some women also enjoy feminization, which may involve him doing the housework in a maid’s outfit. If that’s your thing, and you don’t have kids to hide it from, then go nuts. This will certainly be a powerful kink connection.
The other thing to be sensitive about when it comes to housework is that it can take a lot of time, so it doesn’t always work to have him do everything, all the time. It depends on what type of job he has and how demanding it is. If you’ve been smart, you’ve agreed that the FLR won’t influence any of your careers, at least not in a negative way, so you’ll have to use your best judgment when it comes to the amount of housework you can have him do. I recommend that you don’t force him to do everything just because you feel that it’s your right, if he for example has a demanding job. Start slow and have him do more and more until you sense that he can’t reasonably do more. Remember, you want him to be happy with this arrangement in the long run, so don’t overdo it.
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