DEFINITION
Female-Led Relationships come in many forms and shapes. In many plain-vanilla relationships, the women end up deciding most matters as a consequence of their personalities, but these relationships don’t include any kink or formal recognition of the skewed power balance. On the other side of the spectrum you have so-called female supremacists, who feel that all females are superior to all males and rig their relationships accordingly.
This article is about something in between those two, but quite a lot closer to the first type. More specifically, I will concentrate on the type of relationship that has some of the following qualities:
As you can see there are many advantages for women who embrace this life, and there is very little effort required of you to enjoy all these benefits.
I could continue, but the bottom line is that a female who takes advantage of the many, many benefits a FLR can offer, can lead a very pleasant and fulfilled life, with an attentive and generous partner who is always eager to please. What’s not to like?
While it is easy to see why the woman would want such a life, it can seem puzzling that any man would want it. In fact, most women are introduced to the idea of a Female-Led Relationship by their husband/partner, which on the face of it seems even stranger.
Here are some of the benefits to the male in a FLR:
Most women find these responsibilities to be well worth it.
There are also a couple of potential drawbacks that can be difficult to mitigate:
It can be quite exciting to know that an outwardly macho man answers to your every wink when it’s just the two of you.
Ultimately, you’ll have to decide for yourself. Just know that the lack of an open mind here can be what stands between you and endless benefits.
Female-Led Relationships come in many forms and shapes. In many plain-vanilla relationships, the women end up deciding most matters as a consequence of their personalities, but these relationships don’t include any kink or formal recognition of the skewed power balance. On the other side of the spectrum you have so-called female supremacists, who feel that all females are superior to all males and rig their relationships accordingly.
- The female is the head of the household and makes most of the day-to-day decisions
- The needs of the female come first, and any selfishness on her part is tolerated and even encouraged
- There is an expressed recognition of the female’s position as head of the household, it’s not just “how we do things”
- The male is expected to pamper and satisfy the female in many different ways
- The male’s sexual drive is harnessed and controlled as the main source of motivation
- There is typically a certain amount of kink involved, but no more than the female is comfortable with
- Everything is consensual and the end-goal is to improve the life quality of both parties
As you can see there are many advantages for women who embrace this life, and there is very little effort required of you to enjoy all these benefits.
WHY DOES THE FEMALE WANT A FLR?
Let’s list a few of the benefits that a FLR can provide for the female:
Let’s list a few of the benefits that a FLR can provide for the female:
- A very pleasant life, with endless pampering and indulgences
- No more power-struggles in the home
- Less arguing in general, and especially around domestic work
- Improved sex life, both in terms of quantity and quality
- The ability to shape the behavior of the male more to your liking
- More financial freedom, if you choose to incorporate money in the FLR
I could continue, but the bottom line is that a female who takes advantage of the many, many benefits a FLR can offer, can lead a very pleasant and fulfilled life, with an attentive and generous partner who is always eager to please. What’s not to like?
WHY DOES THE MALE WANT A FLR?
While it is easy to see why the woman would want such a life, it can seem puzzling that any man would want it. In fact, most women are introduced to the idea of a Female-Led Relationship by their husband/partner, which on the face of it seems even stranger.
Here are some of the benefits to the male in a FLR:
- Offers a simple and easy-to-understand (if demanding) home-life
- No more power-struggles, less arguing
- A closer, more loving relationship with his partner
- A fulfilling and rewarding sex life, less pressure to be assertive in bed
- Increased sex drive, heightened energy level
- More kink
As you can see, a lot of the benefits are shared with the female, just from the opposite perspective. In general, an FLR is more physically demanding on a male than a plain-vanilla relationship, but a lot less mentally draining. It also provides an outlet for certain personality traits and fantasies that are typically frowned-upon for males in the western world. This is especially important for executives, entrepreneurs and others who are normally in a stressful position of power.
WHAT’S THE CATCH?Given the huge number of benefits that a FLR can offer a couple, there are remarkably few drawbacks. But there are some things you as the female needs to be aware of. For example, you will have some responsibilities:
WHAT’S THE CATCH?Given the huge number of benefits that a FLR can offer a couple, there are remarkably few drawbacks. But there are some things you as the female needs to be aware of. For example, you will have some responsibilities:
- Actually make a lot of the household decisions
- Follow up on any rules and limitations you decide for your male
- Come up with some sexually charged activities that you wouldn’t mind doing on a near-daily basis
Most women find these responsibilities to be well worth it.
There are also a couple of potential drawbacks that can be difficult to mitigate:
- You may need to adjust your sexual preferences slightly
- You may find a servile/submissive male less interesting and attractive than a dominant/assertive one
Of these, I consider the last one to be the only possibly valid reason to actively avoid an FLR, so let’s discuss it in some detail. Some women just can’t stand to be around men who aren’t dominant and assertive, or at least they aren’t attracted to such men. If this is you, and he has brought up the topic of FLR, then have a good talk with him and tell him that it’s best to just forget the whole thing and get back to being macho. Don’t give him a hard time for wanting to try something new.
If, however, you have a more nuanced attitude and are at least somewhat open to seeing a new side of your partner, there are a few things you should consider before making a decision based on this perceived drawback:
- What he’s suggesting is mostly a playful sexual arrangement, designed to make your sex life and home life simpler and more enjoyable for both of you - it’s not like he’s a different person all of a sudden. He is still the same wonderful man you fell in love with, you’re just seeing a new side of him.
- Men who have the courage to broach this subject tend to have high self-esteem and the fact that they aren’t afraid to play with gender roles in a controlled setting typically means they are very confident about their manliness.
- This whole arrangement is (as you’ll learn in a later article) predicated on harnessing his deep love and desire for the female body, yours in particular. Compare and contrast to blustering machismos and their insecurities.
- Submissive tendencies are quite common among some of the world’s most powerful men, suggesting that the traditional alpha/beta model of masculinity is overly simplistic.
- You can keep this part of him entirely to yourself - have him be as assertive as you like in public and at work.
It can be quite exciting to know that an outwardly macho man answers to your every wink when it’s just the two of you.
Ultimately, you’ll have to decide for yourself. Just know that the lack of an open mind here can be what stands between you and endless benefits.
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