If he doesn’t already, your man will soon start viewing your body as his temple. Imperfect as you may feel it is, a properly motivated male will want to worship every inch of it and consider himself lucky to be allowed any contact with it. This is one of the defining characteristics of a FLR, and it’s something you should take advantage of at every opportunity.
Your first step should be to put yourself in his place, and realize that your body is now a delicious smorgasboard where different parts are better than others, depending on what type of man he is. Your pussy is the holy grail, then comes your ass, then your breasts, your thighs, etc. - you get the picture. Maybe the order is a little different for your man, but the general idea holds true for most teased and denied men. Then there are some special areas that hold a special psychological significance which can be powerful kink triggers - your feet, asshole, armpits etc. Once you’re comfortable in your new role, you should try not to be shy about using these parts of your anatomy to your advantage too. Trust me, he will love it.
But we’re getting ahead of ourselves. Let’s start with the basics and leave sex out of it for now. If there is anything non-sexual that you (would) enjoy him doing to your body, then go to town.
Here are a few suggestions:
Your first step should be to put yourself in his place, and realize that your body is now a delicious smorgasboard where different parts are better than others, depending on what type of man he is. Your pussy is the holy grail, then comes your ass, then your breasts, your thighs, etc. - you get the picture. Maybe the order is a little different for your man, but the general idea holds true for most teased and denied men. Then there are some special areas that hold a special psychological significance which can be powerful kink triggers - your feet, asshole, armpits etc. Once you’re comfortable in your new role, you should try not to be shy about using these parts of your anatomy to your advantage too. Trust me, he will love it.
But we’re getting ahead of ourselves. Let’s start with the basics and leave sex out of it for now. If there is anything non-sexual that you (would) enjoy him doing to your body, then go to town.
Here are a few suggestions:
- Giving you massages of all kinds, several times a day
- Applying lotions, oils and other products to some part of your body
- Giving you pedicures or manicures (remember, he can be trained)
- Washing and caring for your hair
Some women also enjoy things like being bathed, being dried and waited on hand and foot while enjoying such activities. Do what feels right for you, and don’t feel obligated to indulge his need for physical contact if you’re not in the mood.
Moving on to more sensous, sexual and plain kinky types of body worship, there is ample room to get creative. If you’ve denied and teased him properly, he will relish this type of play. Have him give you sensous body massages, have him please you orally whenever you feel like it, or tease him with something more humiliating like licking your feet or asshole. I find these activities are especially rewarding for him when it is clear that you are just using him as a tool, for secondary entertainment. For example, put his mouth between your legs while you are watching your favourite TV show. Have him suck your toes while you are on the phone or reading a book. Get creative. These activities should be pleasant or neutral to you, and should require no effort from you. It’s a cheap way of giving him a treat.
As a side note, you should also use your new freedoms (more time, more money, an encouraging man) to perform your own body worship, and to pamper yourself.
Upgrade your wardrobe, get regular manicures and pedicures, use high-quality lotions and hair products, purchase and wear lots of pretty underwear (and throw out anything that doesn’t look new-ish), keep your body in shape. All of these things will reinforce his feeling that you are a feminine goddess, worthy of every penny spent on products and treatments, not to mention his own neverending attention. Put simply, it will make you even more tempting to him and he’ll love the fact that you are being more self-sentered. Last, but not least, it’ll make you feel good.
Upgrade your wardrobe, get regular manicures and pedicures, use high-quality lotions and hair products, purchase and wear lots of pretty underwear (and throw out anything that doesn’t look new-ish), keep your body in shape. All of these things will reinforce his feeling that you are a feminine goddess, worthy of every penny spent on products and treatments, not to mention his own neverending attention. Put simply, it will make you even more tempting to him and he’ll love the fact that you are being more self-sentered. Last, but not least, it’ll make you feel good.
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