I believe that when men express their submissive nature, it’s as we tend to imagine the birth of a star – rare, powerful, extraordinary.
Male submission. In a culture that defines masculinity in terms of dominance, a man who offers himself up to a woman, giving her the gift of his submission, of himself, opening himself up to her in mind, body and soul, so as to be true to his own authentic sense of himself, so as to tend his inner/erotic fire so that he can then attend to his Lady’s … well, he becomes a kind of counterculture maverick, a social change agent subverting and disrupting the status quo, expanding the possibilities for how one can embody and enact a different expression of masculinity; he participates in the creation of new paradigms for what it can mean to be a man. In the very act of kneeling, symbolically or literally, he is helping to kick down the doors and smash through the windows of the prison asylum created by socially constructed gender roles.
All of that is to say this: male submission, beautiful, deliciously erotic and mmm, is also pretty badass!
Male submission. In a culture that defines masculinity in terms of dominance, a man who offers himself up to a woman, giving her the gift of his submission, of himself, opening himself up to her in mind, body and soul, so as to be true to his own authentic sense of himself, so as to tend his inner/erotic fire so that he can then attend to his Lady’s … well, he becomes a kind of counterculture maverick, a social change agent subverting and disrupting the status quo, expanding the possibilities for how one can embody and enact a different expression of masculinity; he participates in the creation of new paradigms for what it can mean to be a man. In the very act of kneeling, symbolically or literally, he is helping to kick down the doors and smash through the windows of the prison asylum created by socially constructed gender roles.
All of that is to say this: male submission, beautiful, deliciously erotic and mmm, is also pretty badass!
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