“I encourage dominant women to inflict some pain on their submissive and to expand his threshold for pain. This is a must in the process of allowing the woman’s sexual power and dominance to come to the forefront and to help to bring out more of the submissive nature in the male. However, a D/s relationship is about love and caring and thus the dominant female cares about her submissive and she is there to heal the wounds that she inflicts. A true dominant has a slight sadistic nature to her and she enjoys to see men squirm and to be uncomfortable. She does this to force him to surrender areas of himself over to her. Once the male submissive does this, she is then ready to comfort and love him. That is the essence of D&S.”
-Elise Sutton
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