- Hold his hand. Take his hand as you cross the street. Lead him by the hand and walk in front of him.
- Order for him. You don’t need to order him around. Try ordering for him at a restaurant before he lets the server know what he wants.
- Dress him. Tell him what you want him to wear next time you go out together. Pick out clothes that look good on him and tell him so if he objects.
- Kiss him first. Pick a moment when it won’t lead to anything else. Just a quick, impulsive kiss, or a fondle, caress, tickle…
- Ask him to touch you and tell him how to do it right. Anything from rubbing your shoulders, warming your hands, or stroking your back. It’s up to you.
- Accept thanks and compliments from him. Don’t be modest or turn away positive comments. Reward him with a smile instead and thank him too.
None of these things are Earth shattering. But, you can get a feeling for being in power in your relationship. You can see how fun it is and start to want more. Also, as you take charge you begin to ask for more, expect more and then it’s just a step farther to telling him you’re going to try something new… like blindfolding him or not letting him touch you with his hands while you have your own way with him.
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