Every submissive male should serve his Mistress with a grateful heart.
Never let her doubt that you appreciate being her servant, her slave.
If you have unsatisfied fantasies, do not pester her for fulfillment. A good Mistress knows her malesub well. She will bring his dreams to life unless she finds them disgusting.
Dommes are persons, not clichés. They often enjoy pleasing others. In most F/m relationships Mistresses share lives only with men she likes.
As heterosexual women, they want men who inspire affection and love. As human beings, they have preferences and limitations.
You may have wishes that violate hers. You must accept this without resentment. In a happy, open Femdom power exchange she may let – even encourage – you to experiment with a Domme who likes your fetish.
As woman’s servitor, you have many chores and tasks. If laboring under her command is a burden, you are not a submissive man. You must to be honest with yourself and your Mistress
Working for Mistress fulfills submissive needs. A submale feels thankful as he cleans house, runs errands and cooks breakfast.
Servitude is a blessing not a curse.
Thankfulness is expressed in actions, not ritual.
If a Domme has ended lonely nights of bitter fantasizing, how can you not be thankful?
Learn to anticipate her wishes. Proactive service proves gratitude.
Being a good submale or slave is like being a good man. There are differences, the essentials are the same.
“The most important thing is that each couple must keep the lines of communications open, as honesty and openness are crucial in a female domination relationship. A woman needs to be open minded to explore new things as her submissive shares with her his deepest desires. It is all about negotiating and fulfillment. What touches his submissive nature? Find out what draws out his submission and do these things to him. Then take his submission and channel it into the service of you. Use your dominance to draw out more of his submission and than use that to get your needs met and fulfilled.
It is like a dance. Get a man aroused and submissive then have him serve you (massages, oral sex, chores, etc). Keep him aroused and denied most of the time or his servitude will wane. Allow him some sexual relief but make sure that he understands that you decide when and how. No more than once a week at the most for him and preferable only once every other week. You, on the other hand, should receive as many orgasms as you desire.
Are you starting to see why women love this lifestyle? Above all, relax and enjoy the journey. You will make mistakes and you will experience the mental struggles at times but the more you let yourself go and allow your dominance to flow out of you, the more you will love this lifestyle and you will wonder how you ever lived outside of a D&S relationship before.”
-Elise Sutton
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