There is a huge disconnect between Fantasy vs. reality.
Lots of guys jerk off to pics and videos and thoughts of having a beautiful woman lock them up, endlessly teasing and denying, pegging them, etc.
Reality is so far from fantasy. When you are locked up, you can’t jerk off, that’s kinda the point!
You don’t get to dictate when or how you get teased and denied, or even if you get pegged. Your keyholder does. Fantasy is a wonderful thing, but you must also try to remain grounded in reality.
The reality is: you gave your keyholder complete control of your sex, and your orgasm. They decide what to do with it, and when. You must accept this concept fully.
You must completely change your way of thinking, (it’s not that hard after a few weeks in denial) to put all of her needs before yours.
Fantasy tells you that this means you will drop to your knees and lick her to orgasm whenever she wants. While this can happen, you must look at reality as well.
Reality is the big football game you were excited about is coming on, she tells you to wash the dishes before you watch TV.
You were going out with co workers for some drinks, she asks you if the lawn has been mowed yet.
If you are serious about chastity and FLR, you won’t even bat an eye when she makes these requests. They will no longer be requests, just the way it is.
It’s not her being lazy, or controlling, or “bitchy”. It will be her taking control, and you following behind. It takes strength and trust and love for a true FLR relationship to work. It’s not for the weak.
Lots of guys jerk off to pics and videos and thoughts of having a beautiful woman lock them up, endlessly teasing and denying, pegging them, etc.
Reality is so far from fantasy. When you are locked up, you can’t jerk off, that’s kinda the point!
You don’t get to dictate when or how you get teased and denied, or even if you get pegged. Your keyholder does. Fantasy is a wonderful thing, but you must also try to remain grounded in reality.
The reality is: you gave your keyholder complete control of your sex, and your orgasm. They decide what to do with it, and when. You must accept this concept fully.
You must completely change your way of thinking, (it’s not that hard after a few weeks in denial) to put all of her needs before yours.
Fantasy tells you that this means you will drop to your knees and lick her to orgasm whenever she wants. While this can happen, you must look at reality as well.
Reality is the big football game you were excited about is coming on, she tells you to wash the dishes before you watch TV.
You were going out with co workers for some drinks, she asks you if the lawn has been mowed yet.
If you are serious about chastity and FLR, you won’t even bat an eye when she makes these requests. They will no longer be requests, just the way it is.
It’s not her being lazy, or controlling, or “bitchy”. It will be her taking control, and you following behind. It takes strength and trust and love for a true FLR relationship to work. It’s not for the weak.
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