There is a huge taboo on men, and exploring their feminine side. Society for the most part, outright shuns it, causing men to remain macho and emotionless, and women to appear weak. There is a variety of insults out there that include using feminine attributes to shame a man. “ You throw like a girl,” or he is called a pussy if he shows emotions, this is simply considered normal in society. It reinforces the idea that the female gender is the weaker sex, implying that the male gender is superior, and then we wonder why our relationships suck, and why the state of the world is so scary. Lesson 11 touched on how difficult it is for men to admit to their partner that they are submissive, and how it’s even more difficult for them to admit they want to explore their feminine side.
Once a woman is comfortable with the idea that he wants to be her submissive, and has perhaps already begun to understand her power and his ego, it’s time to understand what drives him. So when she finds him wearing her panties, she doesn’t have to get upset or weirded out. It only feels like that’s how she should feel, because society has it ingrained into everyone that it’s not normal. Yet to him, it is his normal. It’s the normal he wants to express. So it’s more important to question, what is normal? Everyone is unique, everyone has their own preferences, and they typically don’t choose them. Some people are gifted with the ability to be able to choose, we call them bi sexuals and switches. Others are straight, others are gay, others want to change genders because they feel like they are in the wrong body. Some are dominant, some are submissive,some are both, some are vanilla, and further still, some don’t have a clue what they want. None of them are wrong. It’s a vast sexuality spectrum, and each of us has a place on that spectrum. Some men are submissive, masculine and gay. Some men are submissive, feminine and straight as an arrow. There are also feminine dominant men gay or straight or bi men . Masculine submissive gay or straight or bi females. Lets not forget the a-sexual people too! Or the demi and the pansexuals… You get the idea. There is a vast variety of people on this planet, there is no walk of life that isn’t being explored by someone. We each have a sexual orientation, a D/s or no D/s preference, and a place on the masculine and feminine spectrum. As long as they are not causing harm to others, it’s not wrong, it’s not even necessarily weird, not to a partner that is like minded. Maybe it’s weird to society, but it has little to do with what society thinks anyway. For them, it’s normal, and that’s an important way to look at it, because it enables a couple to understand each other without judgement. Which then allows for open communication and taking the relationship deeper through vulnerability, and all of the other lessons. We all want someone that understands and accepts us at our deepest core.
Now that, that is out of the way, let’s understand his feminine side, and the benefits it can bring both partners. Many women journeying into an FLR will discover certain things about their submissive partner. Perhaps even when not in an FLR, she may catch him trying on her underwear, or notice a pair gone missing. It is far from uncommon for a male to be curious about women, how they dress, and what it feels like for a woman. Her beauty alone captivates men, and more often than not, it intrigues him, he wants to understand why she is so captivating, why her beauty causes him to feel so good, and aroused. So naturally his curiousity driven by his arousal, drifts toward her panties, and female clothing, and if he’s really adventurous he may try her high heels on, or paint his nails when no one is looking. Much of this exploration is often done by males not in a relationship at all, and may not even understand that they’re submissive. It is a natural curiosity many males have, and their arousal fuels them to explore it. This becomes enhanced during an FLR, when his ego is diminishing, his draw to his feminine side often increases.
Not all submissive men are interested in exploring their feminine side, they simply desire to submit, and generally have a higher tolerance for pain and may enjoy fetishes more in that direction. Which will be discussed about in a later lesson. Typically a submissive male that does want to explore his feminine side, is more gentle, less about pain, and more about intimacy, sensuality, and understanding her. His submissive desire will absolutely love it, it will invigorate him, it will make him feel more alive, and in touch with his body. Many women at first, may be turned off by the idea of him wearing feminine clothes, they may think it’s weird, maybe even humorous. Much of what we see on the internet shows feminized men as a way of degrading them and telling them they’re not real men. While it is true that the degradation aspects plays onto his ego and helps to diminish it, it shouldn’t be seen as a weakness, or that he isn’t a real man. This can be played into as a way of humiliation play, but at the end of the day, she should be supportive of it, and have fun with it, with love.
Once a woman accepts that he has a feminine side, she can have all sorts of fun with it. She can choose outfits for him to wear, accessorize him however she likes, and the more she does this, the more he will enjoy participating, her acceptance of his feminine side can really help him embrace it and be comfortable with it, and bring himself closer to her. It will also help her feel much more relaxed, able to be her own feminine self without any fears or worries about him. It can really bring him in touch with her body, and his own, and can create a totally different kind of chemistry that is only formed when both can totally let go with each other. He can begin to anticipate her needs simply because he understands through his own feminine side, what those needs may be.
As a submissive male begins to explore his feminine side, many new doors open to him. His body becomes a playground. He begins to understand women, and why they are the way they are, why fashion is so interesting, why color matching is so important, why being clean and organized is essential. He begins to understand the fascination with looking cute, and all these understandings bring him many epiphanies about women, and about himself and his own masculinity. He will discover that feeling feminine, and wearing feminine clothes, can actually give him a huge boost in his confidence as a man. Many men wear female clothes, such as panties and skin hugging female jeans under his normal every day clothes. There’s no way of telling how many men do this, but there are a lot of them out there. Men that do this, typically express themselves better, they’re less afraid to say things they may not have said before. They’ll have a higher risk tolerance, and a general sense of motivation, stronger than if he was simply wearing his normal male clothes. The reason for this, is because the female clothes bring him more in touch with his body. The jeans make him sense temperature changes much much easier, which also brings to him an understanding of why women can get cold so easily. These temperature changes make him hyper aware of his environment, making him understand why women are always sensitive to people staring at them, and always doing their own body scan, extremely self conscious of how she appears to others. It helps him understand why women are so worried about how they look, and his submissive desire, births, empathy for her. It makes him want to cherish her, and hold her, and tell her how beautiful she is, and kiss all of her insecurities away.
All of these realizations come from his feminine side bringing him in touch with his body. Simply from wearing a pair of female jeans. Not even including the panties he’s also wearing under those. The softness of the fabric, and the tightness of the panties, likely riding into his bum like a thong or cheeky style panties, arouse him. The softness on his skin, makes him feel like he’s almost naked, except for the senusal subtle sensations the panties give him. This triggers his arousal, but not in a way that makes him want to get off, but in a way that makes him want to explore deeper. They trigger a deeper sexual aspect of himself that makes him want to be more passionate and more intimate, he wants to feel it, deeper, he doesn’t want to kill it with an ejaculative orgasm. It binds with his submissive desire, and often leaves the genitals behind, giving him subtle orgasmic and feminine sensations throughout his entire body. Which is why it empowers his masculinity, he’s still a man, and he can use this new found state of feminine energy, and use it for his own purposes. It will make him more creative. It will make him have a higher endurance level. Many athletes including the boxer Muhammad Ali, refused to ejaculate for a week before a fight, letting his sexual energy build upward into his body, making it so he wouldn’t get fatigued during the fight, which is what made him the best fighter. Men exploring their feminine side, fast track this process, and discover so much more about themselves along the way.
The first thing many submissive men experience, even without exploring their feminine side, but simply through having fewer ejaculations, perhaps through chastity or honor system orgasm denial, is a heightened sense of emotions. When he explores his feminine side, his emotions are enhanced even greater, this includes the highs and the lows, so within the context of an FLR, if he is not receiving attention or gratitude mentioned in lesson 26 and lesson 25, he may feel a heighten sense of being let down, craving attention, which naturally spirals into horny desperation, and a sexually frustrated submissive. On the other end of the scale however, he will experience new highs on life, new adoration for his partner, more passion and intimacy, and overall feel better about himself, about life, about stress and about problems life brings. All from simply wearing panties and a pair of female jeans under his normal every day clothes. Who knew?
For men with an unexplored feminine side, the female form has forever been a mystery. He loves women, their beauty is beyond words, society has taken this to heart, and has thrown the female form at males in every possible way because society understands that most men are drawn to the female form, like a moth to the flame. Many never understand it. For those that do explore it, and discover it, his feminine side can bring about a balance within him. It can make him feel more complete and whole as a person, and because of that, he will be at his most happiest. He doesn’t even need to be in an FLR to discover this and many aren’t. For those that are in an FLR, this can be taken to even deeper levels. An FLR can help him explore his feminine side on a much deeper scale, enabling him to actually wear more risky female clothes, different outfits, and products, and feminine accessories. Which will bring him yet more revelations into what it means to be the mystery that the female has always represented.
As she begins to have fun femininizing him, her way, his submissive desire will begin to spike off the charts bringing him deep into subspace as the balance between masculine and feminine within begins to lean more toward the feminine side for the first time in his life. His ego can’t handle it, it’s instantly over powered, humiliated, holding onto the precious masculine macho status quo but finding it cannot. The male ego can be broken quickly with feminization if that is what she wants, and asserts her power at the same time. But for now, lets stick to what feminizing him actually does for him. Perhaps she decides to paint his nails, he will discover, that color matters. Each color will make him feel a different way. Certain colors will make him feel more masculine, others will make him feel embarrassed, and others will cater to his submissive desire. Red may be embarrassing for him, where as pink may make him feel pretty, or cute, where as black may make him feel confident. Each color matters. Different feminine clothing articles can also change how he feels about himself. Jeans may make him feel better and more in touch with his body, but a skirt and stockings may make him feel girly and vulnerable, and extra submissive. The sensations of the open air below him, can make him feel possible even insecure, and she can play with that. A role reversal. Which may even lead to play with a strap on.
The more he explores his feminine side, and all the different aspects of fashion, style, colors, cute things, and so on, the more he will love it. Now this is where her dominance comes into play. Typically he will always want more, which is why on the internet, becoming a sissy is such a huge deal, and there are few women out there, that haven’t been approached by a male claiming or wishing to be made a sissy. She may not want her submissive to become a sissy, so she must limit how far he can explore his feminine side, and how. As long as she understands how powerful of an effect it has on him, she can use it to her advantage in so many ways, especially making him feel vulnerable and extra submissive. However, perhaps she does want to explore it fully, she can take it as far as turning him into a girlfriend, perhaps for certain times as play, or as a more normal dynamic. Like all things, there are different levels of feminization, and she can control all of it, it’s just important she understands his need to explore it, and allow it to where she’s comfortable with it.
For a submissive, his feminine side could be the ultimate key to his understanding, and his devotion to her. Exploring his feminine side can turn into an act of worship, and can bring him deep into sub space, which she will come to love. It can also lead to a very different kind of sexual dynamic within the relationship, because, while he may be 100% straight, he will be drawn more to what it means to be penetrated. Since he has a prostate, being penetrated is extremely pleasurable for him, and if she does decide to use a strap on, it can give her a huge rush of power, and make her very aroused at taking him with it. It can actually cement her dominance for her, and make her never want to give her power up, changing her mindset if there were any doubts before. She may even have an orgasm simply from the sensations of the strap on bouncing between thrusts as the rush of power can be that arousing, if not, it won’t take him long to bring her to orgasm afterward. It can create a very power bonding D/s moment in an FLR. For him, being taken with a strap on, will have similar effects, it will put him into a deep submissive state, one where he realizes he is being taken by her, and is at her mercy. This will cause him to surrender and relax and allow her power to overcome him. This can be ego breaking, and extremely emotional, and should be done with love and care. After the initial time, she may decide to take him regularly, in which it will reinforce the D/s dynamic within the relationship every time. He will discover the meaning of penetration, which will also make him realize what it means to be raped and will generate more empathy and understanding toward women, and what it means for them.
His feminine side can make him a better and a stronger man, even as a submissive to his partner. He may never even have to show feminine traits outside the house, but exploring that aspect of his being will change his perspective on the world entirely, with deeper respect for women, and a deeper love for his partner. It will prove to him that the idea of being a submissive male, or that anything feminine is not weak at all. It is simply unexplored and misunderstood. A man who has explored his feminine side, will have unlocked a whole lot of wisdom within himself. A man who understands himself, understands the world. We cannot change the world, but we can change ourselves, and that is the most powerful act a human being can do. Exploring his feminine side will change him drastically, for the better. True strength comes from vulnerability, when we don’t have to hide who we are, which is why a FLR can be one of the strongest relationships a man and a woman can ever have together.
Once a woman is comfortable with the idea that he wants to be her submissive, and has perhaps already begun to understand her power and his ego, it’s time to understand what drives him. So when she finds him wearing her panties, she doesn’t have to get upset or weirded out. It only feels like that’s how she should feel, because society has it ingrained into everyone that it’s not normal. Yet to him, it is his normal. It’s the normal he wants to express. So it’s more important to question, what is normal? Everyone is unique, everyone has their own preferences, and they typically don’t choose them. Some people are gifted with the ability to be able to choose, we call them bi sexuals and switches. Others are straight, others are gay, others want to change genders because they feel like they are in the wrong body. Some are dominant, some are submissive,some are both, some are vanilla, and further still, some don’t have a clue what they want. None of them are wrong. It’s a vast sexuality spectrum, and each of us has a place on that spectrum. Some men are submissive, masculine and gay. Some men are submissive, feminine and straight as an arrow. There are also feminine dominant men gay or straight or bi men . Masculine submissive gay or straight or bi females. Lets not forget the a-sexual people too! Or the demi and the pansexuals… You get the idea. There is a vast variety of people on this planet, there is no walk of life that isn’t being explored by someone. We each have a sexual orientation, a D/s or no D/s preference, and a place on the masculine and feminine spectrum. As long as they are not causing harm to others, it’s not wrong, it’s not even necessarily weird, not to a partner that is like minded. Maybe it’s weird to society, but it has little to do with what society thinks anyway. For them, it’s normal, and that’s an important way to look at it, because it enables a couple to understand each other without judgement. Which then allows for open communication and taking the relationship deeper through vulnerability, and all of the other lessons. We all want someone that understands and accepts us at our deepest core.
Now that, that is out of the way, let’s understand his feminine side, and the benefits it can bring both partners. Many women journeying into an FLR will discover certain things about their submissive partner. Perhaps even when not in an FLR, she may catch him trying on her underwear, or notice a pair gone missing. It is far from uncommon for a male to be curious about women, how they dress, and what it feels like for a woman. Her beauty alone captivates men, and more often than not, it intrigues him, he wants to understand why she is so captivating, why her beauty causes him to feel so good, and aroused. So naturally his curiousity driven by his arousal, drifts toward her panties, and female clothing, and if he’s really adventurous he may try her high heels on, or paint his nails when no one is looking. Much of this exploration is often done by males not in a relationship at all, and may not even understand that they’re submissive. It is a natural curiosity many males have, and their arousal fuels them to explore it. This becomes enhanced during an FLR, when his ego is diminishing, his draw to his feminine side often increases.
Not all submissive men are interested in exploring their feminine side, they simply desire to submit, and generally have a higher tolerance for pain and may enjoy fetishes more in that direction. Which will be discussed about in a later lesson. Typically a submissive male that does want to explore his feminine side, is more gentle, less about pain, and more about intimacy, sensuality, and understanding her. His submissive desire will absolutely love it, it will invigorate him, it will make him feel more alive, and in touch with his body. Many women at first, may be turned off by the idea of him wearing feminine clothes, they may think it’s weird, maybe even humorous. Much of what we see on the internet shows feminized men as a way of degrading them and telling them they’re not real men. While it is true that the degradation aspects plays onto his ego and helps to diminish it, it shouldn’t be seen as a weakness, or that he isn’t a real man. This can be played into as a way of humiliation play, but at the end of the day, she should be supportive of it, and have fun with it, with love.
Once a woman accepts that he has a feminine side, she can have all sorts of fun with it. She can choose outfits for him to wear, accessorize him however she likes, and the more she does this, the more he will enjoy participating, her acceptance of his feminine side can really help him embrace it and be comfortable with it, and bring himself closer to her. It will also help her feel much more relaxed, able to be her own feminine self without any fears or worries about him. It can really bring him in touch with her body, and his own, and can create a totally different kind of chemistry that is only formed when both can totally let go with each other. He can begin to anticipate her needs simply because he understands through his own feminine side, what those needs may be.
As a submissive male begins to explore his feminine side, many new doors open to him. His body becomes a playground. He begins to understand women, and why they are the way they are, why fashion is so interesting, why color matching is so important, why being clean and organized is essential. He begins to understand the fascination with looking cute, and all these understandings bring him many epiphanies about women, and about himself and his own masculinity. He will discover that feeling feminine, and wearing feminine clothes, can actually give him a huge boost in his confidence as a man. Many men wear female clothes, such as panties and skin hugging female jeans under his normal every day clothes. There’s no way of telling how many men do this, but there are a lot of them out there. Men that do this, typically express themselves better, they’re less afraid to say things they may not have said before. They’ll have a higher risk tolerance, and a general sense of motivation, stronger than if he was simply wearing his normal male clothes. The reason for this, is because the female clothes bring him more in touch with his body. The jeans make him sense temperature changes much much easier, which also brings to him an understanding of why women can get cold so easily. These temperature changes make him hyper aware of his environment, making him understand why women are always sensitive to people staring at them, and always doing their own body scan, extremely self conscious of how she appears to others. It helps him understand why women are so worried about how they look, and his submissive desire, births, empathy for her. It makes him want to cherish her, and hold her, and tell her how beautiful she is, and kiss all of her insecurities away.
All of these realizations come from his feminine side bringing him in touch with his body. Simply from wearing a pair of female jeans. Not even including the panties he’s also wearing under those. The softness of the fabric, and the tightness of the panties, likely riding into his bum like a thong or cheeky style panties, arouse him. The softness on his skin, makes him feel like he’s almost naked, except for the senusal subtle sensations the panties give him. This triggers his arousal, but not in a way that makes him want to get off, but in a way that makes him want to explore deeper. They trigger a deeper sexual aspect of himself that makes him want to be more passionate and more intimate, he wants to feel it, deeper, he doesn’t want to kill it with an ejaculative orgasm. It binds with his submissive desire, and often leaves the genitals behind, giving him subtle orgasmic and feminine sensations throughout his entire body. Which is why it empowers his masculinity, he’s still a man, and he can use this new found state of feminine energy, and use it for his own purposes. It will make him more creative. It will make him have a higher endurance level. Many athletes including the boxer Muhammad Ali, refused to ejaculate for a week before a fight, letting his sexual energy build upward into his body, making it so he wouldn’t get fatigued during the fight, which is what made him the best fighter. Men exploring their feminine side, fast track this process, and discover so much more about themselves along the way.
The first thing many submissive men experience, even without exploring their feminine side, but simply through having fewer ejaculations, perhaps through chastity or honor system orgasm denial, is a heightened sense of emotions. When he explores his feminine side, his emotions are enhanced even greater, this includes the highs and the lows, so within the context of an FLR, if he is not receiving attention or gratitude mentioned in lesson 26 and lesson 25, he may feel a heighten sense of being let down, craving attention, which naturally spirals into horny desperation, and a sexually frustrated submissive. On the other end of the scale however, he will experience new highs on life, new adoration for his partner, more passion and intimacy, and overall feel better about himself, about life, about stress and about problems life brings. All from simply wearing panties and a pair of female jeans under his normal every day clothes. Who knew?
For men with an unexplored feminine side, the female form has forever been a mystery. He loves women, their beauty is beyond words, society has taken this to heart, and has thrown the female form at males in every possible way because society understands that most men are drawn to the female form, like a moth to the flame. Many never understand it. For those that do explore it, and discover it, his feminine side can bring about a balance within him. It can make him feel more complete and whole as a person, and because of that, he will be at his most happiest. He doesn’t even need to be in an FLR to discover this and many aren’t. For those that are in an FLR, this can be taken to even deeper levels. An FLR can help him explore his feminine side on a much deeper scale, enabling him to actually wear more risky female clothes, different outfits, and products, and feminine accessories. Which will bring him yet more revelations into what it means to be the mystery that the female has always represented.
As she begins to have fun femininizing him, her way, his submissive desire will begin to spike off the charts bringing him deep into subspace as the balance between masculine and feminine within begins to lean more toward the feminine side for the first time in his life. His ego can’t handle it, it’s instantly over powered, humiliated, holding onto the precious masculine macho status quo but finding it cannot. The male ego can be broken quickly with feminization if that is what she wants, and asserts her power at the same time. But for now, lets stick to what feminizing him actually does for him. Perhaps she decides to paint his nails, he will discover, that color matters. Each color will make him feel a different way. Certain colors will make him feel more masculine, others will make him feel embarrassed, and others will cater to his submissive desire. Red may be embarrassing for him, where as pink may make him feel pretty, or cute, where as black may make him feel confident. Each color matters. Different feminine clothing articles can also change how he feels about himself. Jeans may make him feel better and more in touch with his body, but a skirt and stockings may make him feel girly and vulnerable, and extra submissive. The sensations of the open air below him, can make him feel possible even insecure, and she can play with that. A role reversal. Which may even lead to play with a strap on.
The more he explores his feminine side, and all the different aspects of fashion, style, colors, cute things, and so on, the more he will love it. Now this is where her dominance comes into play. Typically he will always want more, which is why on the internet, becoming a sissy is such a huge deal, and there are few women out there, that haven’t been approached by a male claiming or wishing to be made a sissy. She may not want her submissive to become a sissy, so she must limit how far he can explore his feminine side, and how. As long as she understands how powerful of an effect it has on him, she can use it to her advantage in so many ways, especially making him feel vulnerable and extra submissive. However, perhaps she does want to explore it fully, she can take it as far as turning him into a girlfriend, perhaps for certain times as play, or as a more normal dynamic. Like all things, there are different levels of feminization, and she can control all of it, it’s just important she understands his need to explore it, and allow it to where she’s comfortable with it.
For a submissive, his feminine side could be the ultimate key to his understanding, and his devotion to her. Exploring his feminine side can turn into an act of worship, and can bring him deep into sub space, which she will come to love. It can also lead to a very different kind of sexual dynamic within the relationship, because, while he may be 100% straight, he will be drawn more to what it means to be penetrated. Since he has a prostate, being penetrated is extremely pleasurable for him, and if she does decide to use a strap on, it can give her a huge rush of power, and make her very aroused at taking him with it. It can actually cement her dominance for her, and make her never want to give her power up, changing her mindset if there were any doubts before. She may even have an orgasm simply from the sensations of the strap on bouncing between thrusts as the rush of power can be that arousing, if not, it won’t take him long to bring her to orgasm afterward. It can create a very power bonding D/s moment in an FLR. For him, being taken with a strap on, will have similar effects, it will put him into a deep submissive state, one where he realizes he is being taken by her, and is at her mercy. This will cause him to surrender and relax and allow her power to overcome him. This can be ego breaking, and extremely emotional, and should be done with love and care. After the initial time, she may decide to take him regularly, in which it will reinforce the D/s dynamic within the relationship every time. He will discover the meaning of penetration, which will also make him realize what it means to be raped and will generate more empathy and understanding toward women, and what it means for them.
His feminine side can make him a better and a stronger man, even as a submissive to his partner. He may never even have to show feminine traits outside the house, but exploring that aspect of his being will change his perspective on the world entirely, with deeper respect for women, and a deeper love for his partner. It will prove to him that the idea of being a submissive male, or that anything feminine is not weak at all. It is simply unexplored and misunderstood. A man who has explored his feminine side, will have unlocked a whole lot of wisdom within himself. A man who understands himself, understands the world. We cannot change the world, but we can change ourselves, and that is the most powerful act a human being can do. Exploring his feminine side will change him drastically, for the better. True strength comes from vulnerability, when we don’t have to hide who we are, which is why a FLR can be one of the strongest relationships a man and a woman can ever have together.
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