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Thursday, 13 September 2018

Becoming a chastity slave.

Becoming a chastity slave is not about being forced into anything by anyone. It’s a loving and willing commitment by a husband to his wife to completely sacrifice his pleasure and comfort for hers.

The first step is for him to approach his wife and seek her approval for him to do this for her. He’ll be promising to be completely obedient to her, she will be in charge and he’ll be giving up his orgasms from that moment on so he can devote himself completely to her service. He should warn her that this will be difficult for him at times, and while for the most part he will be leading the charge, he will need her assistance from time to time to help him see it through. For example, she may need to counsel him if he is grumpy when asked to do something or complains about needing an orgasm.

He’ll be wearing a chastity device every time they make love from now on so there will never be any doubt about who is giving pleasure and who is receiving it in the bedroom. It may not be convenient for him to wear a chastity device 24/7 but this is not important. The main thing is that it should be put on (by him) prior to making love, and at all other times he will be committed to not masturbating. She can make this fun and exciting for him with a kiss and a whisper in the hours prior to making love about how much she’s looking forward to seeing his caged cock.

Wearing a chastity device will not be about him being teased. It is about his penis and sexual pleasure no longer being considered in their relationship. He should not be unlocked under any circumstances while making love. If she wishes to reward him, he should tell her that the greatest gift she can give him is to push him to greater levels of submission rather than giving him physical pleasure. Examples of this would be raising her expectations and allowing her to punish him if he does not meet them, asking him to perform housework naked or submitting to being pegged.

No man ever died from not having orgasms but if going without them for too long has too many negative repercussions, he should be allowed them very occasionally. In this event she should not touch his penis herself and she most certainly should not allow him inside her. Rather, it should be done in the most embarrassing manner possible by having him masturbate in front of her in full light. She can also film it or invite others to watch as well and/or have him eat his cum afterwards. She should always voice disappointment in him that it was necessary in the first place and leave the room in disgust afterwards or laugh at his weakness.

He will also commit to becoming completely obedient to her and always behaving in a manner that she finds most pleasing. For example, bringing her gifts, not groping her body when it is uncalled for and never arguing with her.

At first, she is unlikely to accept the new relationship dynamic with any great zeal. It is important during this time that the man perseveres and does not take this as a sign of rejection. He should continue to wear the chastity device when making love and treat her with nothing less than the greatest level of love and respect at all times. He should look for the slightest hint that she may want something done and do it. If he sees her doing any housework at all, he should immediately take it over from her. He should be proactive. Offer her a drink or a massage. If any aspect of their living quarters is out of order, he should see to it rather than ignore it.

As the weeks and months go by, a gradual change will take place. She will come to expect and even take for granted that sex will be about her and her alone in the bedroom, and that he is doing far more around the house and she far less. This taking for granted may again trigger feelings of rejection in the man which is ironic because he has now achieved what he set out to do - he has become a chastity slave and it is now the new normal in their relationship. The reason he feels rejected is because her acceptance did not occur immediately and suddenly. It took time, during which he persevered, and that perseverance was not recognised. A man should be prepared for things to unfold in this manner and spend time in quiet meditation on a daily basis considering it. Becoming a chastity slave is a journey, very often a long one, rather than an overnight success.

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