What does it mean to be collared and what are some different types of collars?
It can mean many things to many different people. For some it is a new beginning in a journey. For others it is a step in the training process. It all depends on the Dominant you are with. Every Dominant has a different way of doing things.
*A collar is given by a Dominant and is received by a submissive.
The collar remains the property of the Dominant and should be given back in the event the journey ends.
*A collar and the person wearing it should be treated with respect.
*A collared submissive should be considered off-limits to all others.
*A collar should be treated with respect at all times. It is not a toy.
*A collar should only be removed by the Dominant at the end of the journey.
1. D/s Commitment: Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, these collars symbolize a commitment for the couple using it, a commitment they’ve defined together. It may or may not have involved a “collaring ceremony”.
2. Consideration: Sometimes a submissive or slave that’s under consideration by a Dominant will wear their collar. For the record, while we commonly say that the Dominant is considering the submissive, it is a given that the submissive is also considering the Dominant.
3. Play Collar: This is what we might call it when the bottom, submissive or slave only wears a collar while “in scene” with a Top, Dominant or Master. It can be a symbol to the players that the scene has begun, that they are currently in D/s mode, meaning they aren’t when not in scene, when the collar is off. As well as a potentially powerful part of the beginning ritual, it can also be a handy way to physically control someone who’s the bottom in the scene.
4. Situational Collar: Sometimes a person will wear someone’s collar for a short period of time, at a party or gathering say, when they want to be shown to be under their protection for that event or for the period of time when the collar is worn.
5. Identity Collar: Some people wear collars to show that they identify as submissive or slave. They might be single, available and looking for a Dominant partner. In this case, the collar means nothing more than that.
6. Pet Play: For example, dog and kitty collars for those who like pet play. If that’s the context for the collar you’re looking at, it will probably be obvious. If unsure, try tossing a ball or dangling something stringy.
It can mean many things to many different people. For some it is a new beginning in a journey. For others it is a step in the training process. It all depends on the Dominant you are with. Every Dominant has a different way of doing things.
*A collar is given by a Dominant and is received by a submissive.
The collar remains the property of the Dominant and should be given back in the event the journey ends.
*A collar and the person wearing it should be treated with respect.
*A collared submissive should be considered off-limits to all others.
*A collar should be treated with respect at all times. It is not a toy.
*A collar should only be removed by the Dominant at the end of the journey.
1. D/s Commitment: Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, these collars symbolize a commitment for the couple using it, a commitment they’ve defined together. It may or may not have involved a “collaring ceremony”.
2. Consideration: Sometimes a submissive or slave that’s under consideration by a Dominant will wear their collar. For the record, while we commonly say that the Dominant is considering the submissive, it is a given that the submissive is also considering the Dominant.
3. Play Collar: This is what we might call it when the bottom, submissive or slave only wears a collar while “in scene” with a Top, Dominant or Master. It can be a symbol to the players that the scene has begun, that they are currently in D/s mode, meaning they aren’t when not in scene, when the collar is off. As well as a potentially powerful part of the beginning ritual, it can also be a handy way to physically control someone who’s the bottom in the scene.
4. Situational Collar: Sometimes a person will wear someone’s collar for a short period of time, at a party or gathering say, when they want to be shown to be under their protection for that event or for the period of time when the collar is worn.
5. Identity Collar: Some people wear collars to show that they identify as submissive or slave. They might be single, available and looking for a Dominant partner. In this case, the collar means nothing more than that.
6. Pet Play: For example, dog and kitty collars for those who like pet play. If that’s the context for the collar you’re looking at, it will probably be obvious. If unsure, try tossing a ball or dangling something stringy.
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