Male chastity is on the rise and it comes in several forms. Whether it’s through NoFap, karezza or the clicking of a cage - men from all walks of life are drawn to the idea of limiting ejaculation. As a submissive, my balls are kept full by my wife and keyholder, but it’s the NoFap crowd that illuminates the significance of male chastity.
Put simply, men need discipline. This is especially true for young men, a demographic plagued by a lack of responsibility and appropriate role models. In previous generations, a young man occupied his time playing sports, chasing girls and with physical chores. Upon graduating high school, many would join the military or learn a blue collar trade. As preparation for a lifestyle utilizing testosterone, their fathers enrolled them in Boy Scouts and brought them on camping trips. It was a strenuous lifestyle by present-day standards, but these young men became well-adjusted in the process, ready to support families of their own at a relatively young age.
And yes, they masturbated - when they had the time. I realize the irony of reblogging porn while praising an era when the most graphic images men saw were found in the Sears catalog, but semen and testosterone give men motivation when they’re not glued to a screen, draining their balls repeatedly. If you’re on the internet, you’ve heard of incels - young men who think they’re entitled to sex by virtue of having a penis. A word of advice? Channel your sexual frustration into self-improvement. Exercise, seek challenging work through school and employment, and above all else - learn to accept that women control the sexual realm. Sperm is plentiful and eggs are rare, so biology dictates that men must make a contribution to have sexual value. Historically, that contribution was financial. In 2018 when many women earn more than their male partners, a well-trained tongue may work just fine!
This brings me back to NoFap. It’s a movement based on the concept that by refraining from PMO - porn, masturbation and orgasm - a young man gains confidence, self-control and the motivation to approach women. No more instant gratification. If he’s to have an orgasm, he’ll earn it by interacting positively with a woman. Gone are the days when he could selfishly spill his seed without regard for the pleasure of another - his ability to bring women to orgasm secures future opportunities for sex and relationships. Keep it mind, this isn’t a movement encouraging female led relationships, chastity cages or cuckoldry. This is all vanilla, but a sign of tremendous progress all the same. Until recently, sex was phallocentric. Men received oral sex but balked at the idea of returning the favor. Today, cunnilingus is so much the norm that Smash Mouth (the band from Shrek) promotes it on Twitter.
Of course, I write from the perspective of a submissive man in a female led marriage. So it’s only natural that I perform oral sex without reciprocation. Given the choice between ejaculation and an hour between my wife’s legs and I’ll choose cunnilingues every time. Others are not so kinky. Nonetheless, today’s women are empowered in ways their grandmothers could never anticipate. They have no use for mediocre men the way disenfranchised housewives once did. So whether you’re kinky or vanilla, limiting ejaculation is one of the best ways to improve as a lover.
Ladies come first. Men should do so sparingly.
Put simply, men need discipline. This is especially true for young men, a demographic plagued by a lack of responsibility and appropriate role models. In previous generations, a young man occupied his time playing sports, chasing girls and with physical chores. Upon graduating high school, many would join the military or learn a blue collar trade. As preparation for a lifestyle utilizing testosterone, their fathers enrolled them in Boy Scouts and brought them on camping trips. It was a strenuous lifestyle by present-day standards, but these young men became well-adjusted in the process, ready to support families of their own at a relatively young age.
And yes, they masturbated - when they had the time. I realize the irony of reblogging porn while praising an era when the most graphic images men saw were found in the Sears catalog, but semen and testosterone give men motivation when they’re not glued to a screen, draining their balls repeatedly. If you’re on the internet, you’ve heard of incels - young men who think they’re entitled to sex by virtue of having a penis. A word of advice? Channel your sexual frustration into self-improvement. Exercise, seek challenging work through school and employment, and above all else - learn to accept that women control the sexual realm. Sperm is plentiful and eggs are rare, so biology dictates that men must make a contribution to have sexual value. Historically, that contribution was financial. In 2018 when many women earn more than their male partners, a well-trained tongue may work just fine!
This brings me back to NoFap. It’s a movement based on the concept that by refraining from PMO - porn, masturbation and orgasm - a young man gains confidence, self-control and the motivation to approach women. No more instant gratification. If he’s to have an orgasm, he’ll earn it by interacting positively with a woman. Gone are the days when he could selfishly spill his seed without regard for the pleasure of another - his ability to bring women to orgasm secures future opportunities for sex and relationships. Keep it mind, this isn’t a movement encouraging female led relationships, chastity cages or cuckoldry. This is all vanilla, but a sign of tremendous progress all the same. Until recently, sex was phallocentric. Men received oral sex but balked at the idea of returning the favor. Today, cunnilingus is so much the norm that Smash Mouth (the band from Shrek) promotes it on Twitter.
Of course, I write from the perspective of a submissive man in a female led marriage. So it’s only natural that I perform oral sex without reciprocation. Given the choice between ejaculation and an hour between my wife’s legs and I’ll choose cunnilingues every time. Others are not so kinky. Nonetheless, today’s women are empowered in ways their grandmothers could never anticipate. They have no use for mediocre men the way disenfranchised housewives once did. So whether you’re kinky or vanilla, limiting ejaculation is one of the best ways to improve as a lover.
Ladies come first. Men should do so sparingly.
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