Change Yourself for a Female Led Relationship.

If you really want to have a proper wife led relationship, you need to take primary responsibility for it. It all starts with you. You can’t force her to change. That only leads to anger and resentment where the only options left are accepting a dull or sexless marriage or getting divorced. You can only change yourself, and in doing so you will usually find that she will accept it and respond in kind. But be careful what you wish for - you just might get it!

• First, man up and tell her what you want and make sure she at least accepts it in principle. Don’t just suddenly confront her with your cock in a cage and expect her not to freak out. Be patient. It may take anything from a single discussion one night to several discussions over a few months. Once you’ve got past that hurdle, then:
• You need to devote yourself to her completely and make it all about her, all of the time, whether she gives you any attention or not. Become a surrendered husband by your own choice.
• Find a secure and comfortable chastity device. Then (if your circumstances allow and she approves), whether she asks or not, lock up every morning to remind you of your sacrifice to self and your commitment to her. Slowly ease into wearing it at nights as well until you can tolerate staying locked up 24/7 indefinitely without undue discomfort. No masturbating during this breaking in period! 
• Give the key to her possession so only she has the power to unlock you. You must never be allowed to touch the key again.
• Always present yourself naked, freshly showered, shaved and locked up before sex. If your circumstances don’t allow for you to be kept locked up 24/7, now is the time it matters most. Show her that you’re there for her pleasure and not your own.
• Don’t expect to be unlocked during sex. She shouldn’t feel any pressure, guilt, need or desire to unlock you or give you pleasure at any time. You give what she wants. She gets what she wants. That’s all.
• Never ask for an orgasm or expect one even if she does unlock you whether it’s been weeks, months or even years. There is no maximum limit and no such thing as being too desperate. Your orgasms are no longer on the table. A thing of the past. No negotiating or complaining, no asking how long. Just quiet acceptance of whatever happens. Unlocking you is for her benefit alone for her to have some fun. You get what she wants to give you or what she thinks you need, nothing more. Lock back up when she tells you to without question.
• Don’t expect her to want an orgasm every time you make love. The only important thing is that you give her what she wants without expecting anything in return. Lots of women would much prefer a massage and a cuddle over sex some nights, especially when tired.
• Step up at the slightest hint she wants something done and do it.
• Be proactive. Anticipate her needs.
• Clean up the house. Become a neat freak. If you see something needs doing, do it. Don’t be a lazy arse. (If you don’t do it then she will have to).
• If you see her doing something that you are capable of doing, take over from her. Make her a cup of tea and sit her down. If you don’t know how to do the task or haven’t done it before, get her to show you.
• Be romantic. Cuddle without groping. Kiss her. Bring her gifts.
• Treat her with love, respect and absolute devotion.
• Never complain about her hairy bush or any other aspect of her appearance you’re not fussed with.
• And above all remember, if it was easy it wouldn’t be much of a sacrifice. You will struggle. Expect it. Your balls will feel like they’re going to explode as the weeks go by. You’ll feel like you’d kill just to hold your cock in your hands again. You’ll feel unappreciated sometimes. You’ll get tired and won’t want to do housework sometimes, but tough! Someone has to do it. Show her you mean business. Suck it up, keep your mouth shut, hands to yourself and get off your arse and do what has to be done. Before you know it you’ll be orgasm-free with your cock locked in a cage under the control of the bossy wife you’ve always wanted.