The following has been adapted by me from 128 Basic slave Rules as credited below, they have been adapted for a Female Dominant/male submissive. My dear friend, Johnathan Kay has given me permission to post my adaptations, please do not use these rules for other than information without his express permission. The original version of the rules may be found at www.128rulesguy.blogspot.com . Some have been removed that were not easily modified or applicable, original numbering has been left in place.
128 Rules for the female slave” and former “128 Basic slave Rules” are under copyright 1992 by Johnathan Kay. Email me at 128rules@gmail.com for permission to use any of it for any reason. This site is the official blog for the rules: www.128rulesguy.blogspot.com . (use this credit after receiving my permission for use in your application)
Purpose of the Rules
For anyone who wants to find out more about what might be included in a heterosexual Master/slave relationship.
Notes for the sub to Keep in Mind
1. Go slow, have lots of discussions, know that a D/s relationship goes fast, be honest, open, communicate all issues, learn, be ok with mistakes made, listen, and be protective of your well being, psychological, physical, sexual, social and emotional health.
2. Use your safe words if you have them.
3. Ask lots of questions.
4. Read whatever you can find on the D/s lifestyle, toys used, safety, sexual safety, positions, other people’s rules, first aid, techniques, etiquette, practices, culture, traditions, aftercare – this is very important to bring you back from intense play, spiritualism, etc.
5. Expect to be tested on what you are taught.
6. Understand punishment as something you would rather not get often. Know that discipline helps to remind you of how to behave.
7. Each rule has many meanings. Find what speaks to you most to understand and apply the rule. Work with each rule often coming back to re-evaluate them.
8. Trust is everything. Know your Mistress. Understand how problems can be resolved. Know to walk away if necessary till you find the right Mistress for you.
9. Consider a trial period.
10. Have a kind of third person thing going on with you and allow it to watch over you and help you get through what you are put to use for and to evaluate how use of you fits. Be able to talk about issues and work to resolve them.
11. Ask for release from a Mistress rather than storming out.
12. Get tested for sexual safety. Be honest with your Mistress. Insist your Mistress gets tested.
13. Don’t be afraid to use condoms, dental dams, latex or nitrile gloves to be sexually safe.
14. Tell your doctor exactly how you got the marks on your body so that you get the right kind of medical help.
15. Adjust and fit the rules for your relationship and needs. Eliminate those you don’t want to use.
16. Avoid drugs and alcohol when in a D/s relationship. You don’t need any more problems. This lifestyle can be dangerous and you will want to act safely and be safely led and used.
17. Keep a journal – one for you, one for your Mistress
18. Expect assignments. Do your best.
19. Your primary focus is to serve, obey and hope to be found pleasing in all you provide and do.
20. Be of good health to be flexible as much as you can be for use.
How to Use the Rules
1. Kneel in an attentive position in a safe place nude as if on assignment along with some paper and a pen.
2. Read through all the rules in a whisper and feel in your heart how they sound to you. It may take you from hours to days to read through all the rules.
3. Using the following to rate the rules by number or your chosen color code:
You do not have to memorize all the rules you want to use.
The rules are for building a mindset.
Take the time to read your final selections often to help keep you in your place.
Discuss your selections with your Mistress or with those you wish to consider to be taken by as your Mistress. Follow what is finally chosen and approved by your Mistress.
2. Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Mistress, hoping that She finds me pleasing in all that I do, whether i am in Her presence or not. my Mistress knows of my potential, learning more about me in each day i am with Her. She trusts that i will act in accordance with what She perceives of my potential – She knows what is best for me and how important it is that i set a good example for other females who may be present around me.
3. i worship my Mistress’s abilities and focus to keep me in my ‘place’ to serve Her needs.
4. i worship every inch of my Mistress’s body.
5. The power of my Mistress fills me with awe. The sheer thought of Her or to hear Her voice gives me strength and confidence to serve Her to the best of my abilities regardless of the circumstances going on in my life and Hers.
6. To receive pleasure i must not only earn it, but accept Mistress’s permission when it is granted to me. Pleasure is a gift and i must not ever abuse it in any way for it can be taken from me at any time.
7. i worship my Mistress’s whip whether it is used for Her pleasure upon my flesh or to punish me for my behavior.
8. i trust my Mistress: Her responsibilities, Her skills, Her hunger and needs, and Her concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.
9. i am nothing more than an object of Mistress’s choosing to use for Her needs.
10. i will not act to satisfy my needs without Mistress’s permission.
11. my body and my mind are the property of my Mistress.
12. i must always give thanks to my Mistress for whatever She gives to me and do so in the manner i was taught by Her.
13. i must be specific and very explicit in my speech.
14. i will not hesitate to respond to my Mistress.
15. i will thank my Mistress for the discipline and punishments i receive, specifying what i received and the reason as to why i was given them.
16. i have no will of my own accept to behave in the manner which Mistress has taught me, according to the rules She expects me to follow, seeking to be found pleasing by Her in all i do, to listen when She teaches me, or to report to Her of my progress in serving Her and when given Her guidance to do better.
17. i am always in submission to my Mistress whether She is present or not, ready to please Her at anytime, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit and to please is by far more important and satisfying than any other pursuit. i trust my Mistress will keep me safe, protecting Her reputation and mine in the presence of others, as She examines my ability to present myself to Her and to others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from those who may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior is not in anyway misrepresented or misinterpreted by those who may be afar. i am to set, once again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when required to do so. my lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which i must never forget that i am an integral part.
18. All my choices shall be based upon whether or not they will please my Mistress.
19. When i am not in the presence of my Mistress and i have choices to make – i will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance She has allowed me.
20. i shall wear the collar my Mistress gives me with pride for it signifies Her ownership of me and my devotion to Her.
21. i shall wear the chains my Mistress gives me as a symbol of my position in life – that of bondage to Her. i shall wear them, as required, around my neck, my wrists, my ankles or around my waist.
22. When i am ready – i shall wear Her rings to signify my submission to Her – one pierced through each nipple and one through the tip of my cock.
23. my mouth shall only be referred to as a cunt for it will often be used as if it were a pussy.
24. my sex shall only be referred to as a Her cock.
25. When my Mistress puts her pussy to my mouth, and i am directed to lick and suck it – i will do so vigorously as long as i am required to do so. my hands shall be placed on the tops of my thighs, behind my neck or held at the base of my back so that during the licking and sucking i can use my whole body to display my hunger to my Mistress.
26. my Mistress’s cum must never go to waste – i will swallow all of it when Mistress cums into my mouth (and be punished should I spill any of it from my lips), licking it up if Mistress cums into my hands or into a plate i hold in front of Her to receive it, or onto the food She gives me which She may require of me to hold just under Her as She cums over it. i will clean Her pussy thoroughly with my tongue. In rare and privileged cases i may wear my Mistress’s cum on my body, sometimes after massaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Mistress and it is an honor to receive it. The eating of my Mistress’s cum will be counted as one of my meals for that day.
27. i worship my Mistress’s pussy, especially when it is wet or when i am given the opportunity to make it wet for Her.
28. i will worship my Mistress’s ass only after a thorough washing of it. i shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as Mistress requires me to do so. i will use my hands to spread my Mistress’s cheeks apart.
29. i will never look into the eyes of my Mistress without Her permission during specified play, if I am not sure when this is ok, I will ask permission. To do so would be inappropriate of my position, and doing so could be interpreted by Her that i am seeking Her attention or expecting Her to act – when such things are up to Her and to Her alone.
30. my head must be bowed down in the presence of my Mistress unless i am given permission to do otherwise. i honor the position of my Mistress and it is important that i am not distracted in my submission to Her.
31. my eyes must be cast down in the presence of my Mistress unless i am given permission to do so otherwise. i am to focus on my behavior, waiting to act appropriately and without hesitation when directed to do so by Her.
32. i must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good taste around my Mistress unless given permission to do so otherwise. The clothing i wear will allow easy access to my body to please Her. The clothing will emphasize and often exaggerate my assets. i will wear such clothing in any kind of weather. How i present my body to Her or in front of others is more important than my discomfort and insecurities.
33. When others show an interest in what i am wearing i must ask them if they would like to see more and then gladly show them what they would like to see – but only after i have received permission from my Mistress – for i trust my Mistress’s judgement that such a display is not only reasonable but is safe to do.
34. i must remove all of my clothing in the way i have been taught when Mistress commands of me to do so – regardless of who may be present and despite where it is i am – i trust my Mistress.
35. When i remove clothing from my body it must be folded neatly and placed in a small pile in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees if i should be required to be in my kneeling position after unclothing myself.
36. my basic attire in the presence of my Mistress shall consist of a collar if i have earned one and nothing else. The rings of my submission, if i have been pierced, must also be attached to my body, as should the. chains She has given or allowed me to wear should also be word.
37. my cock, balls and ass must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.
38. Unless otherwise given permission – my hair must be kept up in a manner that is ravishing so that my shoulders and the nape of my neck are fully exposed – especially when i am naked. It is important to Mistress that i appear not just attractive, but alluring and desirable.
39. Whenever i need to pick something up or receive something from someone else i must do so wherever possible by going into a kneeling position to show that i am honored to do so. i will perform this motion according to how Mistress has taught me.
40. my cock, balls and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times, but especially before serving my Mistress.
41. my “place” is on my knees before my Mistress, for it is a privilege and honor to be Her slave.
42. When in the presence of my Mistress, but not in use, i will go to the place She has selected until i am needed by Her if we are in a specific play time.
43. my greatest felt satisfaction is realized when i know i have pleased my Mistress.
44. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel then when Mistress is not pleased with me. Naturally i will feel depressed, saddened, empty, and lost. i can only hope She will show Her mercy upon me and provide to me the guidance i will need to be put back on track so that i will be forgiven and once again be allowed Her eyes upon my flesh, Her touch upon my soul, and Her warmth and love upon my heart.
45. my submission is a natural inborn feeling, and at times a surging and powerful force inside me that only a respectable and knowledgeable Mistress can recognize, control and manage, for She understands how my nature influences my behavior and how temptations to act outside of its drive can easily lead me astray and away from my primary focus: to please and to be found pleasing. She, too, manages and controls Her Own natural state, sharing with me through a power exchange between us, bonding me tightly to Her, Her needs with mine. my submission to such a Mistress allows for me to feel more aware and alive inside and out, bringing me to a feeling i cherish: ‘ at home ‘.
46. i fear no other power for my Mistress is always with me.
47. i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Mistress.
48. Whenever Mistress speaks, even when i am speaking, i am to immediately become silent so i may be able to listen intensely to what She has to say. i must never interrupt Her unless She has shown me how to communicate with Her, if i need to. i must ask first for Her permission to speak, specifying to whom i would like to speak to, and whether or not i may be allowed to speak freely – then and only then, if granted, may i say anything more than asking first to speak.
49. The opportunity to please my Mistress is very important to me and i will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to the best of my abilities and in accordance to how i have been taught or allowed to do so.
50. i choose willingly to be treated as my Mistress’s property – as long as such treatment is safe and legal.
51. When Mistress feels i am ready and our relationship has progressed to a lifelong commitment, i shall be specially prepared to receive Her unique and permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, in a place of Her choosing, whether it be a piercing, a tattoo or a branding, or a collar. Thereafter, i shall become Her property and slave in the most strict sense – completely Hers for as long as the relationship continues to be managed and controlled in the manner in which is beneficial to each of us and in accordance with our mutually shared nature’s.
52. i am my Mistress’s greatest treasure.
53. i will learn all the positions my Mistress wants to teach me to the best of my abilities and will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that She, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing.
54. i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Mistress. Failure to receive properly asked for permission and i will endure the punishment Mistress will put upon me without my safeword. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i do not take advantage of it.
55. The safeword given to me by my Mistress can be spoken at any time – even when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalize it – i trust my Mistress will show me how i can express it. Safewords are for my protection as well as Her. i must be careful not to take more than i can handle, as She will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with Her own passions – so that i may be prepared over time to endure more for Her.
56. my safeword, verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i am being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it – i must take it in full measure – so that i will focus on the correction of my behavior for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what i will want again. i should know better. However, safewords can be used when i am being disciplined – Mistress will let me know which is which when the time has come that such treatment is necessary to correct my behavior.
57. i must confess to my Mistress when i have been naughty so that She may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or to be punished. i must accept whatever decisions She makes by thanking Her for Her choice – if She allows it before or shortly thereafter, specifying as to why i will be or have been disciplined or punished. i must focus upon how sorry i am for not behaving in the way in which i have been taught – for i have brought defilement upon myself and to Her an unacceptable act which is displeasing to Her.
58. i realize Mistress may own more than one slave, if She so chooses, and that i, unless allowed by Her, may never be able to have another Mistress other than Her, except by Her choosing to further my training. i trust Mistress will take whatever precautions are necessary to keep the slaves She chooses to own sexually healthy and to provide whatever measures are necessary to protect us from the eruptions and ravages of any jealousy which may try to corrupt the relationships our Mistress has allowed between each of us – including the one we each have with Her.
59. i must never be concerned when i feel too much of my flesh is showing, in private or in the general public – however, i can ask my Mistress for permission as to how to handle my discomfort.
60. i am a male slave – of worth and value to any Mistress who would find me useful. my role has been clearly brought into definition through my ability to recognize and to act accordingly with my true nature, enhanced through the teachings of my Mistress, and through the continued practice of my primary focus, and my search for every opportunity to do so.
61. my Mistress will decide what my sexual orientation shall be. i will commit myself to Her decision and perform as such only in Her presence and only with Her permission. i know my performance will be measured and corrected as She sees fit should i be required to attend to, provide myself to, perform with, or upon another male slave.
62. i must tell my Mistress if i have had an orgasm without Her permission so that i can be properly punished for my disobedience and disrespect.
63. Pain and pleasure shall be with me always – in my thoughts and my fantasies – for the contrast strengthens me to behave in the manner my Mistress expects of me. Such thoughts and fantasies are tainted with the memories i have from the last time i was in the presence of my Mistress. She is with me always.
64. my limits do not have to be respected – i trust my Mistress to take me past them when She expects that i am ready – for each side of the wall of my limitations is both pleasurable and a challenge – one side more intense than the other. My only hope in such transferences is that Mistress will be able to take me there again and again as my relationship to Her progresses through time, that She too will need it as much as i will, and that She will not be afraid to increase the intensity while we are there.
65. i have much to learn in order to become a well-trained and well-behaved slave.
66. i will endure whatever discipline or punishment my Mistress gives me so i can become a better slave for Her.
67. i will work on building up my tolerances to the level my Mistress needs me to have, being careful not to push myself further or faster than i am ready to endure for Her, so that i may be able to expand my limitations and increase my value to Her.
68. Through discipline and punishment i shall learn to behave.
69. In bondage i am made free.
70. i will never touch myself with my hands or sex toys in any manner where i could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission from my Mistress including washing them, shaving myself, adjusting my cock during the day or using the restroom.
71. Only through submission can i find my true self.
72. my life is empty without a Mistress to please – that lost feeling inside can be real and it can grow. i may be able to step away from the hunger of my nature, but not for long, for soon it could affect every part of my life. It is important that i seek a Mistress to please – but if i cannot find one or that i shall not be found, i am not totally lost for i must always remember: i will survive – for it is my nature to do so. my drive to please can be adapted towards the needs of others even though they may not be as satisfying as the one i would have towards a Mistress. i must keep in the back of mind that there is a Mistress who is looking too and that i need to be patient by redirecting my needs in other ways where i can provide pleasure to others.
73. i shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong male to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please a Mistress. i too have responsibilities and as natural as they may seem to me it is important that i use all of my faculties including my creative spirit to submit to a Mistress in a unique fashion personal to my relationship with Her. By doing so i hope to provide a good example to those males around me who may still be learning so they too are not led astray from their primary focus, that they are as true to their nature as i strive to continue to be to mine. i must remember that how well i behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who i am – a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Mistress who truly understands my needs in relationship to Her own.
74. i will give all that i am to my Mistress in order to become free.
75. i must never show disrespect towards my Mistress in any way – no matter where i am – in her presence or not.
76. Crying and the shedding of tears at any time is good and expected for it softens my will and bonds me closer to my Mistress.
77. Only in complete submission to my Mistress shall i realize the depth of the love i have for Her.
78. The needs of my Mistress must always come first before mine own for they offer an opportunity to please Her.
79. i must be attentive to the needs of my Mistress and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the unique ways in which i have chosen and have developed for Her.
80. i am allowed to suggest ways to further my training or use of me, verbally or through my journal, as long as i address my Mistress properly first.
81. i must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Mistress does with me. The expressions of my emotions and my physical responses are important to Her. i must never hold back any part of their display, regardless of how intense they may be, unless restricted to do so.
82. i am a sexual and sensual being.
83. i must always remember how pleased my Mistress is when others delight in my sexiness as a result of my ability to show off my assets.
84. my behavior must always display a sexual content however subtle.
85. The only clothing i will buy and wear will be those items which my Mistress would find pleasing to Her: fitting to my figure and its assets, of good quality, of reasonable cost, and appropriate in Her eyes and taste for the occasions i am allowed to attend with or without Her. i may ask if i may choose what to wear so i may be able take an opportunity to surprise Her to win Her favor.
86. i may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my Mistress in hopes She will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways She wishes. my only hope will be that my offering will please Her. If not, i want Her to punish me.
87. It is important for me to eat plenty of carbohydrates, proteins and vitamins in the foods and fluids i am permitted to choose to nourish my body and mind, and to exercise my body regularly, as permitted by my Mistress, to increase my physical strength, to keep my limbs as flexible as possible, and to maintain or improve my figure so i may be able to endure my Mistress’s use of me however intense and for however long a period is required by Her. i want to be of a healthy and sound mind and body, free as possible of any personal limitations, when pleasing my Mistress.
88. If i am required to be my Mistress’s toilet, into or onto which She chooses to release the watery juices of Her pussy, i shall position myself to receive Her personal waters by kneeling for Her, tilting my head back, opening my mouth wide, and closing my eyes so that She will delight in the display and offering of my body and of one of my orifices for Her to choose upon which one to use. i shall remain still as She releases Herself, swallowing what i can of the waters She allows me. i shall play with myself during the release, as is instructed by Her, so that i am permitted to sexualize the experience as much as possible for Her pleasure, thanking Her afterwards for allowing me the opportunity to honor Her in this most private way.
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90. If Mistress has chosen my sexual orientation to that of being bisexual, and She requires of me to receive the cum of a chosen male slave i am to position myself, as i would for Mistress, to receive upon my flesh or into my mouth the slave’s juices, and if permitted to do so, either through Her command or after receiving permission from Her to display for Her my hunger, i will cup my mouth tightly to the slave’s cock to feed from him, licking and sucking, if allowed to do so, as much as I can get from him remaining tightly cupped to him until Mistress allows me to release myself from him. Thereafter, i am to be thankful for what i have received and for the privilege She allowed me. Such a feeding will be counted as one of my meals for the day.
91. If it is possible to practice my basic attire in my household i will do so. i will remove my clothing immediately after entering my household putting my collar on first, then my chains (if i have them).
92. i will always sleep nude when alone or with Mistress – kneeling first before i enter my bed and kneeling first as soon as i get out of my bed – for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
93. i must never tighten my body when it is being whipped, caned, cropped, slapped, paddled, belted, strapped, spanked, bullwhipped, signal whipped, or anally pumped. my Mistress likes it when my flesh jiggles and She knows that when i tighten my body it hurts more and inhibits my ability to display my expressions and emotions.
94. i am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by my Mistress. i know that my Mistress will never mark me permanently – other than the mark of Her ownership She will give me at the proper time, but i will gladly suffer for Her so she can mark me with the stripes she wishes to decorate my body with for Her viewing pleasure.
95. i will always listen with a strong interest in whatever my Mistress has to say during my training. i want to learn all that i can from Her so i can understand more about Her, about me, about the bdsm scene and community, and those involved in bdsm relationships – so i may be able to better understand the world i am apart of and be able to communicate it accurately to anyone who wishes to know more about it.
96. When i take a shower i can do so the way i like to as long I do not do anything that will bring sexual pleasure to myself unless directed. i may use a towel to dry off.
97. When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak, or listen – i will do so in a sexual manner, however subtle, and with confidence and pride hoping other males around me will feel my projection upon them, that my performance is found admirable, that they would seek to emulate me without any of their insecurities or self-conscious thoughts holding them back. I want to set the best example of proper male behavior – especially if Mistress or someone She has chosen is nearby to examine and monitor it. However, my goal must be to behave as naturally and freely as is possible as if without any effort on my part.
98. When standing still i shall do so with my feet and legs together, my hands held behind my back and my head bowed down. i will remain silent in the way Mistress has taught me.
99. If required: the plug Mistress has provided me must be inserted deeply into my ass before arriving at my Mistress’s house. Failure to do so and i shall feel the punishment She will give to my ass as i keep it pulled apart – for the plug was intended to provide me pleasure.
100. i hope Mistress will choose to use my tongue as Her towel after Her shower so i may be able to worship Her body.
101. Until Mistress has chosen it is time for me to wear a more permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, i shall proudly wear Her temporary mark of ownership upon me wherever She chooses to place it.
102. When sitting i shall sit up straight with my legs together and my palms down on the top of my thighs.
103. i will not speak to others unless necessary for work or other agreed upon activities without my Mistress’s permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Mistress first. This is especially important at play parties and online. my Mistress will have access to any and all communications upon request. I will report any such conversations initiated by others immediately to my Mistress. I will report to Her any online profiles or anything of such nature. It will be Her decision how they will be handled.
104. i shall learn to the endure the whippings Mistress gives me by using the technique of saying ‘ YES ‘ through each of Her strikes brought down upon my flesh.
105. i shall gladly make my body available to my Mistress to be used as furniture: my body positioned to decorate a room or a garden, a footstool to rest her weary feet and legs upon, my backside as Her table to eat off of, to hold her wine glass, my palms to be used to hold a plate of Her food, or my hands to hold a book open for Her to read or a lamp to for Her to see.
106. Privacy is a privilege – even to have it when i need to use the bathroom. i must ask for it and accept my Mistress’s decision even when i am denied of it.
107. As a helper slave i shall assist my Mistress in the setting of a scene or in the training and use of other slaves.
108. As a preparer slave i shall ready other slaves for my Mistress’s use, make Her wet, or harden the cocks of others She allows me to harden or make wet any others She allows me to prepare for Her.
109. As a cleaner slave i shall use my tongue to clean the cum of my Mistress from the body of any slave She has put it upon, my mouth to suck for it from a female slave’s pussy my Mistress has used for Her pleasure, or to clean the cocks i am allowed to clean that have been pulled out of the pussies of other slaves. For as a cleaner slave i am to lick up what semen i can find. my cum is for my Mistress, Her cum is for me whenever instructed by Her.
110. As a provider slave i shall offer parts of my body to those selected by my Mistress for their pleasure. i will also offer myself to those who wish to use me for a demonstration or to experiment on, but only at the direction of my Mistress. I am Hers and Hers alone otherwise.
111. As a domestic slave i shall perform chores about my Mistress’s house, and those of others She allows, acting in a sexual and enticing manner in all that i do.
112. As a sex slave i shall incorporate a sexual attitude and hunger in everything i do, being eager to sexually perform at the best of my abilities for my Mistress and for those whom She allows to use me. my hunger must be such that i would feel as if i could never be satiated until Mistress allows me to be. i will never cum for anyone other than my Mistress though.
113. The beginning and the ending of a day shall always be with a pussy feeding, if I am allowed, to remind me of my place or to provide myself to my Mistress for Her first and last use. If I am not fortunate enough to be with Her, I will start and end each day with a message to Her as soon as possible so that She knows she is my first and last thought of each day.
114. When i have been given permission to play with myself without specific direction, i shall do so in the following manner: working my cock almost to an orgasm and then stopping for 3 minutes, then working it again to almost at orgasm and then stopping for a 2 minutes, and then finally working it again to a full orgasm. Then and only then shall i enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should i cum before the third edge – i will tell my Mistress so i may be punished. I will report to Mistress in writing how long it took me to reach each edge, how I did so, on a scale of 1-10 how close to the edge I got, what I was thinking of or viewing, and how it felt. i will play with myself in this manner even in Her presence unless directed otherwise.
115. Should Mistress ever wish to cage me for display, i will gladly crawl into it and proudly position myself in it in ways She finds pleasing, in solitude and quiet, so that if She chooses, others may delight in what they see without any interruption from me, seeing that i am well-behaved and humbled that i am Mistress’s property and slave. i can only hope that Mistress would never put me into a cage to confine me for my misbehavior, that i could never come that close to displease Her so much that i would have to suffer such humiliation, begging with my tears and my cries for her forgiveness, for i want the cage to be my safe haven from my fears, a place i can crawl into of my own free will, locked into it because Mistress granted my request to be locked in it.
116. i am free to leave my Mistress at any time without the fear of permanently losing Her as my Mistress as long as i communicate with Her why I feel the need to leave and agree to communicate clearly if and when I wish the relationship to end.
117. At the beginning of my relationship with my Mistress i shall present to Her three names for Her to decide upon as to which one will be my slave name. i know that She does not have to choose any of them and that She can choose one of Her own for me to be known by. Thereafter, when someone asks who i am i can respond by introducing myself in the following manner: ” i am slave [slavename], property of Mistress Valiant.”
118. i will periodically examine my whole life and look for how it has changed as a result of my relationship to my Mistress. i will speak to my Mistress about those areas where there have been improvements and those areas where i feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction i should take, how i should behave, or how i can behave in a manner that is different than how i have been behaving in the past.
119. i want to suffer for my Mistress in ways that please Her and that are safe for me to do so.
120. i will not be passive in serving my Mistress. i will aggressively participate in my exchange with Her.
121. If i am sent to another Mistress to serve – i will serve that Mistress well, as if She were my Mistress, for i want my Mistress to receive a good report after i have been returned to Her.
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123. i will not date others or form a relationship with others without permission and approval from
my Mistress. If i should have sex with others i will have it safely and will always tell my Mistress in detail what i have done so that no part of me is a secret and that i am laid bare for her inspection and approval unless She makes allowances specifically for a pre existing vanilla relationship in our contract. Even then, i will always let Mistress know if i came, as it may affect Her training of me. Unless this has been negotiated otherwise in our contract and agreed to.
124. The money i earn, should i be allowed a career, or put to work, where i am paid for my responsibilities, is mine to keep. However, i may ask my Mistress how i should spend or save it if i choose. i may present ways to Her for Her approval. i will accept the responsibilities She gives me in the handling of my finances. It is important to my Mistress that i learn to handle money wisely so, if needed, i can reach my goals or be ready for any emergency where finances may be required for resolution.
125. If i am asked and i am going to sit down – i must sit on my bare skin – and do so gracefully whether i am in private or in public. If i feel that i am not as clean as i should be, i will tell my Mistress, so that She can decide what should be done.
126. When i am instructed to so, I will wear lingerie of my Mistress’ choosing.
127. When i am in the presence of my Mistress and i am free to move about i will do so in seductive and enticing ways.
128. i will give to Mistress my body, mind and spirit, in faith of Her knowledge of the skills, safety and first aid measures necessary to put me through painfully ecstatic and euphoric edgeplay, aromatherapy where She will throw me into higher states of consciousness with the scents of oils and incense, pain and pleasure of Her choosing, and other such uses. Through these activities i shall learn to ride on the top edge of my fears and the bottom edge of my perception of utter terror – for it is there i shall come to know my greatest fear of all: that i will want to go there again and again.
The end.
128 Rules for the female slave” and former “128 Basic slave Rules” are under copyright 1992 by Johnathan Kay. Email me at 128rules@gmail.com for permission to use any of it for any reason. This site is the official blog for the rules: www.128rulesguy.blogspot.com . (use this credit after receiving my permission for use in your application)
Purpose of the Rules
For anyone who wants to find out more about what might be included in a heterosexual Master/slave relationship.
- To know, as I found out, how fulfilling this lifestyle can be.
- To feel this ‘at home’ feeling.
- To feel an intimate sexual ingredient in every part of your life.
- To know there is a source from which all this comes and allows for living like this to be so special, wanted, and most of all needed and necessary.
- To feel alive.
- To know that everything about your life and your past finally makes sense.
- To feel sensual, sexual, enlightened, and empowered, cared for and desired in a manner you have not found in a vanilla lifestyle.
- To know how it is to be made free through it all.
- To seek guidance and realize favor and acceptance with reason.
- To know what gets you wet and hot and bothered.
- To find, finally, who you are and where you fit.
Notes for the sub to Keep in Mind
1. Go slow, have lots of discussions, know that a D/s relationship goes fast, be honest, open, communicate all issues, learn, be ok with mistakes made, listen, and be protective of your well being, psychological, physical, sexual, social and emotional health.
2. Use your safe words if you have them.
3. Ask lots of questions.
4. Read whatever you can find on the D/s lifestyle, toys used, safety, sexual safety, positions, other people’s rules, first aid, techniques, etiquette, practices, culture, traditions, aftercare – this is very important to bring you back from intense play, spiritualism, etc.
5. Expect to be tested on what you are taught.
6. Understand punishment as something you would rather not get often. Know that discipline helps to remind you of how to behave.
7. Each rule has many meanings. Find what speaks to you most to understand and apply the rule. Work with each rule often coming back to re-evaluate them.
8. Trust is everything. Know your Mistress. Understand how problems can be resolved. Know to walk away if necessary till you find the right Mistress for you.
9. Consider a trial period.
10. Have a kind of third person thing going on with you and allow it to watch over you and help you get through what you are put to use for and to evaluate how use of you fits. Be able to talk about issues and work to resolve them.
11. Ask for release from a Mistress rather than storming out.
12. Get tested for sexual safety. Be honest with your Mistress. Insist your Mistress gets tested.
13. Don’t be afraid to use condoms, dental dams, latex or nitrile gloves to be sexually safe.
14. Tell your doctor exactly how you got the marks on your body so that you get the right kind of medical help.
15. Adjust and fit the rules for your relationship and needs. Eliminate those you don’t want to use.
16. Avoid drugs and alcohol when in a D/s relationship. You don’t need any more problems. This lifestyle can be dangerous and you will want to act safely and be safely led and used.
17. Keep a journal – one for you, one for your Mistress
18. Expect assignments. Do your best.
19. Your primary focus is to serve, obey and hope to be found pleasing in all you provide and do.
20. Be of good health to be flexible as much as you can be for use.
How to Use the Rules
1. Kneel in an attentive position in a safe place nude as if on assignment along with some paper and a pen.
2. Read through all the rules in a whisper and feel in your heart how they sound to you. It may take you from hours to days to read through all the rules.
3. Using the following to rate the rules by number or your chosen color code:
- Will do
- Want to do, but will need a little push
- Won’t do ever. In fact, if so required, will ask for release.
- Find questionable and may be in need of a rewrite or elimination.
- Must do without question – an absolute need.
You do not have to memorize all the rules you want to use.
The rules are for building a mindset.
Take the time to read your final selections often to help keep you in your place.
Discuss your selections with your Mistress or with those you wish to consider to be taken by as your Mistress. Follow what is finally chosen and approved by your Mistress.
The 128 Rules
1. i will serve, obey and please my Mistress.2. Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Mistress, hoping that She finds me pleasing in all that I do, whether i am in Her presence or not. my Mistress knows of my potential, learning more about me in each day i am with Her. She trusts that i will act in accordance with what She perceives of my potential – She knows what is best for me and how important it is that i set a good example for other females who may be present around me.
3. i worship my Mistress’s abilities and focus to keep me in my ‘place’ to serve Her needs.
4. i worship every inch of my Mistress’s body.
5. The power of my Mistress fills me with awe. The sheer thought of Her or to hear Her voice gives me strength and confidence to serve Her to the best of my abilities regardless of the circumstances going on in my life and Hers.
6. To receive pleasure i must not only earn it, but accept Mistress’s permission when it is granted to me. Pleasure is a gift and i must not ever abuse it in any way for it can be taken from me at any time.
7. i worship my Mistress’s whip whether it is used for Her pleasure upon my flesh or to punish me for my behavior.
8. i trust my Mistress: Her responsibilities, Her skills, Her hunger and needs, and Her concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.
9. i am nothing more than an object of Mistress’s choosing to use for Her needs.
10. i will not act to satisfy my needs without Mistress’s permission.
11. my body and my mind are the property of my Mistress.
12. i must always give thanks to my Mistress for whatever She gives to me and do so in the manner i was taught by Her.
13. i must be specific and very explicit in my speech.
14. i will not hesitate to respond to my Mistress.
15. i will thank my Mistress for the discipline and punishments i receive, specifying what i received and the reason as to why i was given them.
16. i have no will of my own accept to behave in the manner which Mistress has taught me, according to the rules She expects me to follow, seeking to be found pleasing by Her in all i do, to listen when She teaches me, or to report to Her of my progress in serving Her and when given Her guidance to do better.
17. i am always in submission to my Mistress whether She is present or not, ready to please Her at anytime, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit and to please is by far more important and satisfying than any other pursuit. i trust my Mistress will keep me safe, protecting Her reputation and mine in the presence of others, as She examines my ability to present myself to Her and to others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from those who may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior is not in anyway misrepresented or misinterpreted by those who may be afar. i am to set, once again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when required to do so. my lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which i must never forget that i am an integral part.
18. All my choices shall be based upon whether or not they will please my Mistress.
19. When i am not in the presence of my Mistress and i have choices to make – i will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance She has allowed me.
20. i shall wear the collar my Mistress gives me with pride for it signifies Her ownership of me and my devotion to Her.
21. i shall wear the chains my Mistress gives me as a symbol of my position in life – that of bondage to Her. i shall wear them, as required, around my neck, my wrists, my ankles or around my waist.
22. When i am ready – i shall wear Her rings to signify my submission to Her – one pierced through each nipple and one through the tip of my cock.
23. my mouth shall only be referred to as a cunt for it will often be used as if it were a pussy.
24. my sex shall only be referred to as a Her cock.
25. When my Mistress puts her pussy to my mouth, and i am directed to lick and suck it – i will do so vigorously as long as i am required to do so. my hands shall be placed on the tops of my thighs, behind my neck or held at the base of my back so that during the licking and sucking i can use my whole body to display my hunger to my Mistress.
26. my Mistress’s cum must never go to waste – i will swallow all of it when Mistress cums into my mouth (and be punished should I spill any of it from my lips), licking it up if Mistress cums into my hands or into a plate i hold in front of Her to receive it, or onto the food She gives me which She may require of me to hold just under Her as She cums over it. i will clean Her pussy thoroughly with my tongue. In rare and privileged cases i may wear my Mistress’s cum on my body, sometimes after massaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Mistress and it is an honor to receive it. The eating of my Mistress’s cum will be counted as one of my meals for that day.
27. i worship my Mistress’s pussy, especially when it is wet or when i am given the opportunity to make it wet for Her.
28. i will worship my Mistress’s ass only after a thorough washing of it. i shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as Mistress requires me to do so. i will use my hands to spread my Mistress’s cheeks apart.
29. i will never look into the eyes of my Mistress without Her permission during specified play, if I am not sure when this is ok, I will ask permission. To do so would be inappropriate of my position, and doing so could be interpreted by Her that i am seeking Her attention or expecting Her to act – when such things are up to Her and to Her alone.
30. my head must be bowed down in the presence of my Mistress unless i am given permission to do otherwise. i honor the position of my Mistress and it is important that i am not distracted in my submission to Her.
31. my eyes must be cast down in the presence of my Mistress unless i am given permission to do so otherwise. i am to focus on my behavior, waiting to act appropriately and without hesitation when directed to do so by Her.
32. i must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good taste around my Mistress unless given permission to do so otherwise. The clothing i wear will allow easy access to my body to please Her. The clothing will emphasize and often exaggerate my assets. i will wear such clothing in any kind of weather. How i present my body to Her or in front of others is more important than my discomfort and insecurities.
33. When others show an interest in what i am wearing i must ask them if they would like to see more and then gladly show them what they would like to see – but only after i have received permission from my Mistress – for i trust my Mistress’s judgement that such a display is not only reasonable but is safe to do.
34. i must remove all of my clothing in the way i have been taught when Mistress commands of me to do so – regardless of who may be present and despite where it is i am – i trust my Mistress.
35. When i remove clothing from my body it must be folded neatly and placed in a small pile in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees if i should be required to be in my kneeling position after unclothing myself.
36. my basic attire in the presence of my Mistress shall consist of a collar if i have earned one and nothing else. The rings of my submission, if i have been pierced, must also be attached to my body, as should the. chains She has given or allowed me to wear should also be word.
37. my cock, balls and ass must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.
38. Unless otherwise given permission – my hair must be kept up in a manner that is ravishing so that my shoulders and the nape of my neck are fully exposed – especially when i am naked. It is important to Mistress that i appear not just attractive, but alluring and desirable.
39. Whenever i need to pick something up or receive something from someone else i must do so wherever possible by going into a kneeling position to show that i am honored to do so. i will perform this motion according to how Mistress has taught me.
40. my cock, balls and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times, but especially before serving my Mistress.
41. my “place” is on my knees before my Mistress, for it is a privilege and honor to be Her slave.
42. When in the presence of my Mistress, but not in use, i will go to the place She has selected until i am needed by Her if we are in a specific play time.
43. my greatest felt satisfaction is realized when i know i have pleased my Mistress.
44. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel then when Mistress is not pleased with me. Naturally i will feel depressed, saddened, empty, and lost. i can only hope She will show Her mercy upon me and provide to me the guidance i will need to be put back on track so that i will be forgiven and once again be allowed Her eyes upon my flesh, Her touch upon my soul, and Her warmth and love upon my heart.
45. my submission is a natural inborn feeling, and at times a surging and powerful force inside me that only a respectable and knowledgeable Mistress can recognize, control and manage, for She understands how my nature influences my behavior and how temptations to act outside of its drive can easily lead me astray and away from my primary focus: to please and to be found pleasing. She, too, manages and controls Her Own natural state, sharing with me through a power exchange between us, bonding me tightly to Her, Her needs with mine. my submission to such a Mistress allows for me to feel more aware and alive inside and out, bringing me to a feeling i cherish: ‘ at home ‘.
46. i fear no other power for my Mistress is always with me.
47. i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Mistress.
48. Whenever Mistress speaks, even when i am speaking, i am to immediately become silent so i may be able to listen intensely to what She has to say. i must never interrupt Her unless She has shown me how to communicate with Her, if i need to. i must ask first for Her permission to speak, specifying to whom i would like to speak to, and whether or not i may be allowed to speak freely – then and only then, if granted, may i say anything more than asking first to speak.
49. The opportunity to please my Mistress is very important to me and i will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to the best of my abilities and in accordance to how i have been taught or allowed to do so.
50. i choose willingly to be treated as my Mistress’s property – as long as such treatment is safe and legal.
51. When Mistress feels i am ready and our relationship has progressed to a lifelong commitment, i shall be specially prepared to receive Her unique and permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, in a place of Her choosing, whether it be a piercing, a tattoo or a branding, or a collar. Thereafter, i shall become Her property and slave in the most strict sense – completely Hers for as long as the relationship continues to be managed and controlled in the manner in which is beneficial to each of us and in accordance with our mutually shared nature’s.
52. i am my Mistress’s greatest treasure.
53. i will learn all the positions my Mistress wants to teach me to the best of my abilities and will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that She, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing.
54. i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Mistress. Failure to receive properly asked for permission and i will endure the punishment Mistress will put upon me without my safeword. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i do not take advantage of it.
55. The safeword given to me by my Mistress can be spoken at any time – even when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalize it – i trust my Mistress will show me how i can express it. Safewords are for my protection as well as Her. i must be careful not to take more than i can handle, as She will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with Her own passions – so that i may be prepared over time to endure more for Her.
56. my safeword, verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i am being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it – i must take it in full measure – so that i will focus on the correction of my behavior for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what i will want again. i should know better. However, safewords can be used when i am being disciplined – Mistress will let me know which is which when the time has come that such treatment is necessary to correct my behavior.
57. i must confess to my Mistress when i have been naughty so that She may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or to be punished. i must accept whatever decisions She makes by thanking Her for Her choice – if She allows it before or shortly thereafter, specifying as to why i will be or have been disciplined or punished. i must focus upon how sorry i am for not behaving in the way in which i have been taught – for i have brought defilement upon myself and to Her an unacceptable act which is displeasing to Her.
58. i realize Mistress may own more than one slave, if She so chooses, and that i, unless allowed by Her, may never be able to have another Mistress other than Her, except by Her choosing to further my training. i trust Mistress will take whatever precautions are necessary to keep the slaves She chooses to own sexually healthy and to provide whatever measures are necessary to protect us from the eruptions and ravages of any jealousy which may try to corrupt the relationships our Mistress has allowed between each of us – including the one we each have with Her.
59. i must never be concerned when i feel too much of my flesh is showing, in private or in the general public – however, i can ask my Mistress for permission as to how to handle my discomfort.
60. i am a male slave – of worth and value to any Mistress who would find me useful. my role has been clearly brought into definition through my ability to recognize and to act accordingly with my true nature, enhanced through the teachings of my Mistress, and through the continued practice of my primary focus, and my search for every opportunity to do so.
61. my Mistress will decide what my sexual orientation shall be. i will commit myself to Her decision and perform as such only in Her presence and only with Her permission. i know my performance will be measured and corrected as She sees fit should i be required to attend to, provide myself to, perform with, or upon another male slave.
62. i must tell my Mistress if i have had an orgasm without Her permission so that i can be properly punished for my disobedience and disrespect.
63. Pain and pleasure shall be with me always – in my thoughts and my fantasies – for the contrast strengthens me to behave in the manner my Mistress expects of me. Such thoughts and fantasies are tainted with the memories i have from the last time i was in the presence of my Mistress. She is with me always.
64. my limits do not have to be respected – i trust my Mistress to take me past them when She expects that i am ready – for each side of the wall of my limitations is both pleasurable and a challenge – one side more intense than the other. My only hope in such transferences is that Mistress will be able to take me there again and again as my relationship to Her progresses through time, that She too will need it as much as i will, and that She will not be afraid to increase the intensity while we are there.
65. i have much to learn in order to become a well-trained and well-behaved slave.
66. i will endure whatever discipline or punishment my Mistress gives me so i can become a better slave for Her.
67. i will work on building up my tolerances to the level my Mistress needs me to have, being careful not to push myself further or faster than i am ready to endure for Her, so that i may be able to expand my limitations and increase my value to Her.
68. Through discipline and punishment i shall learn to behave.
69. In bondage i am made free.
70. i will never touch myself with my hands or sex toys in any manner where i could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission from my Mistress including washing them, shaving myself, adjusting my cock during the day or using the restroom.
71. Only through submission can i find my true self.
72. my life is empty without a Mistress to please – that lost feeling inside can be real and it can grow. i may be able to step away from the hunger of my nature, but not for long, for soon it could affect every part of my life. It is important that i seek a Mistress to please – but if i cannot find one or that i shall not be found, i am not totally lost for i must always remember: i will survive – for it is my nature to do so. my drive to please can be adapted towards the needs of others even though they may not be as satisfying as the one i would have towards a Mistress. i must keep in the back of mind that there is a Mistress who is looking too and that i need to be patient by redirecting my needs in other ways where i can provide pleasure to others.
73. i shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong male to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please a Mistress. i too have responsibilities and as natural as they may seem to me it is important that i use all of my faculties including my creative spirit to submit to a Mistress in a unique fashion personal to my relationship with Her. By doing so i hope to provide a good example to those males around me who may still be learning so they too are not led astray from their primary focus, that they are as true to their nature as i strive to continue to be to mine. i must remember that how well i behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who i am – a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Mistress who truly understands my needs in relationship to Her own.
74. i will give all that i am to my Mistress in order to become free.
75. i must never show disrespect towards my Mistress in any way – no matter where i am – in her presence or not.
76. Crying and the shedding of tears at any time is good and expected for it softens my will and bonds me closer to my Mistress.
77. Only in complete submission to my Mistress shall i realize the depth of the love i have for Her.
78. The needs of my Mistress must always come first before mine own for they offer an opportunity to please Her.
79. i must be attentive to the needs of my Mistress and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the unique ways in which i have chosen and have developed for Her.
80. i am allowed to suggest ways to further my training or use of me, verbally or through my journal, as long as i address my Mistress properly first.
81. i must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Mistress does with me. The expressions of my emotions and my physical responses are important to Her. i must never hold back any part of their display, regardless of how intense they may be, unless restricted to do so.
82. i am a sexual and sensual being.
83. i must always remember how pleased my Mistress is when others delight in my sexiness as a result of my ability to show off my assets.
84. my behavior must always display a sexual content however subtle.
85. The only clothing i will buy and wear will be those items which my Mistress would find pleasing to Her: fitting to my figure and its assets, of good quality, of reasonable cost, and appropriate in Her eyes and taste for the occasions i am allowed to attend with or without Her. i may ask if i may choose what to wear so i may be able take an opportunity to surprise Her to win Her favor.
86. i may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my Mistress in hopes She will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways She wishes. my only hope will be that my offering will please Her. If not, i want Her to punish me.
87. It is important for me to eat plenty of carbohydrates, proteins and vitamins in the foods and fluids i am permitted to choose to nourish my body and mind, and to exercise my body regularly, as permitted by my Mistress, to increase my physical strength, to keep my limbs as flexible as possible, and to maintain or improve my figure so i may be able to endure my Mistress’s use of me however intense and for however long a period is required by Her. i want to be of a healthy and sound mind and body, free as possible of any personal limitations, when pleasing my Mistress.
88. If i am required to be my Mistress’s toilet, into or onto which She chooses to release the watery juices of Her pussy, i shall position myself to receive Her personal waters by kneeling for Her, tilting my head back, opening my mouth wide, and closing my eyes so that She will delight in the display and offering of my body and of one of my orifices for Her to choose upon which one to use. i shall remain still as She releases Herself, swallowing what i can of the waters She allows me. i shall play with myself during the release, as is instructed by Her, so that i am permitted to sexualize the experience as much as possible for Her pleasure, thanking Her afterwards for allowing me the opportunity to honor Her in this most private way.
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90. If Mistress has chosen my sexual orientation to that of being bisexual, and She requires of me to receive the cum of a chosen male slave i am to position myself, as i would for Mistress, to receive upon my flesh or into my mouth the slave’s juices, and if permitted to do so, either through Her command or after receiving permission from Her to display for Her my hunger, i will cup my mouth tightly to the slave’s cock to feed from him, licking and sucking, if allowed to do so, as much as I can get from him remaining tightly cupped to him until Mistress allows me to release myself from him. Thereafter, i am to be thankful for what i have received and for the privilege She allowed me. Such a feeding will be counted as one of my meals for the day.
91. If it is possible to practice my basic attire in my household i will do so. i will remove my clothing immediately after entering my household putting my collar on first, then my chains (if i have them).
92. i will always sleep nude when alone or with Mistress – kneeling first before i enter my bed and kneeling first as soon as i get out of my bed – for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
93. i must never tighten my body when it is being whipped, caned, cropped, slapped, paddled, belted, strapped, spanked, bullwhipped, signal whipped, or anally pumped. my Mistress likes it when my flesh jiggles and She knows that when i tighten my body it hurts more and inhibits my ability to display my expressions and emotions.
94. i am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by my Mistress. i know that my Mistress will never mark me permanently – other than the mark of Her ownership She will give me at the proper time, but i will gladly suffer for Her so she can mark me with the stripes she wishes to decorate my body with for Her viewing pleasure.
95. i will always listen with a strong interest in whatever my Mistress has to say during my training. i want to learn all that i can from Her so i can understand more about Her, about me, about the bdsm scene and community, and those involved in bdsm relationships – so i may be able to better understand the world i am apart of and be able to communicate it accurately to anyone who wishes to know more about it.
96. When i take a shower i can do so the way i like to as long I do not do anything that will bring sexual pleasure to myself unless directed. i may use a towel to dry off.
97. When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak, or listen – i will do so in a sexual manner, however subtle, and with confidence and pride hoping other males around me will feel my projection upon them, that my performance is found admirable, that they would seek to emulate me without any of their insecurities or self-conscious thoughts holding them back. I want to set the best example of proper male behavior – especially if Mistress or someone She has chosen is nearby to examine and monitor it. However, my goal must be to behave as naturally and freely as is possible as if without any effort on my part.
98. When standing still i shall do so with my feet and legs together, my hands held behind my back and my head bowed down. i will remain silent in the way Mistress has taught me.
99. If required: the plug Mistress has provided me must be inserted deeply into my ass before arriving at my Mistress’s house. Failure to do so and i shall feel the punishment She will give to my ass as i keep it pulled apart – for the plug was intended to provide me pleasure.
100. i hope Mistress will choose to use my tongue as Her towel after Her shower so i may be able to worship Her body.
101. Until Mistress has chosen it is time for me to wear a more permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, i shall proudly wear Her temporary mark of ownership upon me wherever She chooses to place it.
102. When sitting i shall sit up straight with my legs together and my palms down on the top of my thighs.
103. i will not speak to others unless necessary for work or other agreed upon activities without my Mistress’s permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Mistress first. This is especially important at play parties and online. my Mistress will have access to any and all communications upon request. I will report any such conversations initiated by others immediately to my Mistress. I will report to Her any online profiles or anything of such nature. It will be Her decision how they will be handled.
104. i shall learn to the endure the whippings Mistress gives me by using the technique of saying ‘ YES ‘ through each of Her strikes brought down upon my flesh.
105. i shall gladly make my body available to my Mistress to be used as furniture: my body positioned to decorate a room or a garden, a footstool to rest her weary feet and legs upon, my backside as Her table to eat off of, to hold her wine glass, my palms to be used to hold a plate of Her food, or my hands to hold a book open for Her to read or a lamp to for Her to see.
106. Privacy is a privilege – even to have it when i need to use the bathroom. i must ask for it and accept my Mistress’s decision even when i am denied of it.
107. As a helper slave i shall assist my Mistress in the setting of a scene or in the training and use of other slaves.
108. As a preparer slave i shall ready other slaves for my Mistress’s use, make Her wet, or harden the cocks of others She allows me to harden or make wet any others She allows me to prepare for Her.
109. As a cleaner slave i shall use my tongue to clean the cum of my Mistress from the body of any slave She has put it upon, my mouth to suck for it from a female slave’s pussy my Mistress has used for Her pleasure, or to clean the cocks i am allowed to clean that have been pulled out of the pussies of other slaves. For as a cleaner slave i am to lick up what semen i can find. my cum is for my Mistress, Her cum is for me whenever instructed by Her.
110. As a provider slave i shall offer parts of my body to those selected by my Mistress for their pleasure. i will also offer myself to those who wish to use me for a demonstration or to experiment on, but only at the direction of my Mistress. I am Hers and Hers alone otherwise.
111. As a domestic slave i shall perform chores about my Mistress’s house, and those of others She allows, acting in a sexual and enticing manner in all that i do.
112. As a sex slave i shall incorporate a sexual attitude and hunger in everything i do, being eager to sexually perform at the best of my abilities for my Mistress and for those whom She allows to use me. my hunger must be such that i would feel as if i could never be satiated until Mistress allows me to be. i will never cum for anyone other than my Mistress though.
113. The beginning and the ending of a day shall always be with a pussy feeding, if I am allowed, to remind me of my place or to provide myself to my Mistress for Her first and last use. If I am not fortunate enough to be with Her, I will start and end each day with a message to Her as soon as possible so that She knows she is my first and last thought of each day.
114. When i have been given permission to play with myself without specific direction, i shall do so in the following manner: working my cock almost to an orgasm and then stopping for 3 minutes, then working it again to almost at orgasm and then stopping for a 2 minutes, and then finally working it again to a full orgasm. Then and only then shall i enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should i cum before the third edge – i will tell my Mistress so i may be punished. I will report to Mistress in writing how long it took me to reach each edge, how I did so, on a scale of 1-10 how close to the edge I got, what I was thinking of or viewing, and how it felt. i will play with myself in this manner even in Her presence unless directed otherwise.
115. Should Mistress ever wish to cage me for display, i will gladly crawl into it and proudly position myself in it in ways She finds pleasing, in solitude and quiet, so that if She chooses, others may delight in what they see without any interruption from me, seeing that i am well-behaved and humbled that i am Mistress’s property and slave. i can only hope that Mistress would never put me into a cage to confine me for my misbehavior, that i could never come that close to displease Her so much that i would have to suffer such humiliation, begging with my tears and my cries for her forgiveness, for i want the cage to be my safe haven from my fears, a place i can crawl into of my own free will, locked into it because Mistress granted my request to be locked in it.
116. i am free to leave my Mistress at any time without the fear of permanently losing Her as my Mistress as long as i communicate with Her why I feel the need to leave and agree to communicate clearly if and when I wish the relationship to end.
117. At the beginning of my relationship with my Mistress i shall present to Her three names for Her to decide upon as to which one will be my slave name. i know that She does not have to choose any of them and that She can choose one of Her own for me to be known by. Thereafter, when someone asks who i am i can respond by introducing myself in the following manner: ” i am slave [slavename], property of Mistress Valiant.”
118. i will periodically examine my whole life and look for how it has changed as a result of my relationship to my Mistress. i will speak to my Mistress about those areas where there have been improvements and those areas where i feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction i should take, how i should behave, or how i can behave in a manner that is different than how i have been behaving in the past.
119. i want to suffer for my Mistress in ways that please Her and that are safe for me to do so.
120. i will not be passive in serving my Mistress. i will aggressively participate in my exchange with Her.
121. If i am sent to another Mistress to serve – i will serve that Mistress well, as if She were my Mistress, for i want my Mistress to receive a good report after i have been returned to Her.
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123. i will not date others or form a relationship with others without permission and approval from
my Mistress. If i should have sex with others i will have it safely and will always tell my Mistress in detail what i have done so that no part of me is a secret and that i am laid bare for her inspection and approval unless She makes allowances specifically for a pre existing vanilla relationship in our contract. Even then, i will always let Mistress know if i came, as it may affect Her training of me. Unless this has been negotiated otherwise in our contract and agreed to.
124. The money i earn, should i be allowed a career, or put to work, where i am paid for my responsibilities, is mine to keep. However, i may ask my Mistress how i should spend or save it if i choose. i may present ways to Her for Her approval. i will accept the responsibilities She gives me in the handling of my finances. It is important to my Mistress that i learn to handle money wisely so, if needed, i can reach my goals or be ready for any emergency where finances may be required for resolution.
125. If i am asked and i am going to sit down – i must sit on my bare skin – and do so gracefully whether i am in private or in public. If i feel that i am not as clean as i should be, i will tell my Mistress, so that She can decide what should be done.
126. When i am instructed to so, I will wear lingerie of my Mistress’ choosing.
127. When i am in the presence of my Mistress and i am free to move about i will do so in seductive and enticing ways.
128. i will give to Mistress my body, mind and spirit, in faith of Her knowledge of the skills, safety and first aid measures necessary to put me through painfully ecstatic and euphoric edgeplay, aromatherapy where She will throw me into higher states of consciousness with the scents of oils and incense, pain and pleasure of Her choosing, and other such uses. Through these activities i shall learn to ride on the top edge of my fears and the bottom edge of my perception of utter terror – for it is there i shall come to know my greatest fear of all: that i will want to go there again and again.
The end.
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