My Mistress and I had a talk and I would like to share my thoughts about it with all of you.
These are just my thoughts based on what I learned and experienced.
(I consciously avoided a research on this topic)
We male have a natural flaw…
…please allow me to explain.
Nature has “programmed” us for reproduction, to spread our seed, to accommodate women and children with food and protection. That was nature’s intention for men in the context of the human survival.
The arousal and the satisfaction coming with his sexual climax motivate the men for reproduction since the beginning of the human race.
Our cock easily takes control over our mind for arousal and satisfaction, but more than reproduction does required. Nature’s initial intention is no longer valid in the same level than before. Our social and medical improvements care for a better survival and true reproduction is only required on a lower level.
Even today we are following unconsciously nature’s program, we are - somehow - controlled by our cocks.
Be honest, the ones in a relationship, how often do you masturbate secretly when you’re alone?
No matter how good the sex with your partner is, you feel the urge and you even have your reasons for justification, stress-relieve and who knows what else work for you.
And the ones of us not in a relationship yet… no words required! *blink*
It is our nature, triggered by so many stimulations, attractive girls we see, advertisement, porn and so much more that penetrates our mind. We are limited in the abilities to control our urges, but not the attractive girls, not the advertisement, not porn, or whatever is responsible for it, it’s solely ourselves!
Some may ask “Why that should be controlled?”
An easy answer… it is not good for us and our responsibilities. We easily get unproductive, easily distracted, likely lose attention to our partner, easily become selfish and even more… because of our little cock! (A little polemic, I know, but it somehow brings it to the point of what I experienced)
But now I need to ask “Can we control that by ourselves?”.
My disappointing answer is “No, we can’t!”
I tried and I failed years ago, more than once. And I am sure I am not the only one.
It took time, too much time for me until I found a solution. Sorry, no, that’s not correct, it came to me – when my Mistress, my Queen, found me and begun to take care of me…
Let me explain…
As my Mistress She took control over my cock and it became Her property. Since then She rules over my sexuality with care and guidance, having in mind what’s good for me… and what entertains Her *blink* (after all I am also Her toy)
Guidance and control are important parts in female dominated relationships of our lifestyle. I committed myself to it unaware of the real treasure waiting for me. If I only knew that earlier!
At this point I don’t want to dive into the BDSM topics, the dynamic of a D/s relationship and practices or topics like obedience, punishment, tease and denial, orgasm control and more. (perhaps that is something for fruther posts)
But what I want to say is based on my own experiences and based on shared information from other blogs I read:
The guidance of a female hand, wise and caring, keeping our lovely naughty cock in control can free our mind from following this urge to get one climax after the other.
Men can easily learn to focus on other pleasures, primarily the pleasure giving by them to their female partner and owner – willingly and with increasing happiness.
Some may think that this no miracle, that the threat of a severe punishment will make a man obey, let me confirm that this isn’t the reason! As I said – willingly! In my opinion severe punishment is no good form of guidance.
The female control is more than just simply controlling the cock. The cock is only the instrument; the main target is the mind! A woman can perfectly control a man’s mind, showing him the all the little benefits until… the little pieces of a huge puzzle all fit together… he sees and understands the whole picture.
A man under control can care better for his partner, make Her happier and he can experiences a new level of satisfaction. He gets more attentive and focused on Her pleasure, his behavior to other women most likely improves and - believe it or not - it can let him experience an amazing happiness… if guided well!
That’s why I see no better reason why men need women!
That’s why they need their guidance and control to become better men!
I believe in it, because my Queen gives me the honor of Her guidance to show it to me. I put my foot on path I never want to leave…
These are just my thoughts based on what I learned and experienced.
(I consciously avoided a research on this topic)
We male have a natural flaw…
…please allow me to explain.
Nature has “programmed” us for reproduction, to spread our seed, to accommodate women and children with food and protection. That was nature’s intention for men in the context of the human survival.
The arousal and the satisfaction coming with his sexual climax motivate the men for reproduction since the beginning of the human race.
Our cock easily takes control over our mind for arousal and satisfaction, but more than reproduction does required. Nature’s initial intention is no longer valid in the same level than before. Our social and medical improvements care for a better survival and true reproduction is only required on a lower level.
Even today we are following unconsciously nature’s program, we are - somehow - controlled by our cocks.
Be honest, the ones in a relationship, how often do you masturbate secretly when you’re alone?
No matter how good the sex with your partner is, you feel the urge and you even have your reasons for justification, stress-relieve and who knows what else work for you.
And the ones of us not in a relationship yet… no words required! *blink*
It is our nature, triggered by so many stimulations, attractive girls we see, advertisement, porn and so much more that penetrates our mind. We are limited in the abilities to control our urges, but not the attractive girls, not the advertisement, not porn, or whatever is responsible for it, it’s solely ourselves!
Some may ask “Why that should be controlled?”
An easy answer… it is not good for us and our responsibilities. We easily get unproductive, easily distracted, likely lose attention to our partner, easily become selfish and even more… because of our little cock! (A little polemic, I know, but it somehow brings it to the point of what I experienced)
But now I need to ask “Can we control that by ourselves?”.
My disappointing answer is “No, we can’t!”
I tried and I failed years ago, more than once. And I am sure I am not the only one.
It took time, too much time for me until I found a solution. Sorry, no, that’s not correct, it came to me – when my Mistress, my Queen, found me and begun to take care of me…
Let me explain…
As my Mistress She took control over my cock and it became Her property. Since then She rules over my sexuality with care and guidance, having in mind what’s good for me… and what entertains Her *blink* (after all I am also Her toy)
Guidance and control are important parts in female dominated relationships of our lifestyle. I committed myself to it unaware of the real treasure waiting for me. If I only knew that earlier!
At this point I don’t want to dive into the BDSM topics, the dynamic of a D/s relationship and practices or topics like obedience, punishment, tease and denial, orgasm control and more. (perhaps that is something for fruther posts)
But what I want to say is based on my own experiences and based on shared information from other blogs I read:
The guidance of a female hand, wise and caring, keeping our lovely naughty cock in control can free our mind from following this urge to get one climax after the other.
Men can easily learn to focus on other pleasures, primarily the pleasure giving by them to their female partner and owner – willingly and with increasing happiness.
Some may think that this no miracle, that the threat of a severe punishment will make a man obey, let me confirm that this isn’t the reason! As I said – willingly! In my opinion severe punishment is no good form of guidance.
The female control is more than just simply controlling the cock. The cock is only the instrument; the main target is the mind! A woman can perfectly control a man’s mind, showing him the all the little benefits until… the little pieces of a huge puzzle all fit together… he sees and understands the whole picture.
A man under control can care better for his partner, make Her happier and he can experiences a new level of satisfaction. He gets more attentive and focused on Her pleasure, his behavior to other women most likely improves and - believe it or not - it can let him experience an amazing happiness… if guided well!
That’s why I see no better reason why men need women!
That’s why they need their guidance and control to become better men!
I believe in it, because my Queen gives me the honor of Her guidance to show it to me. I put my foot on path I never want to leave…
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