1. Conceptual Sub: This sub learns from the internet, books, romance novels and erotica how to be a sub. There is nothing wong with this sub type other then their only drive is is to lead a BDSM life online. Yes, that's right. This is the online sub that has a vanilla* life and no desire to live a BDSM life off the internet.
2. Mental Sub: No this isn't a straight jacket and padded room type of sub. The mental sub means that BDSM is a thing that works with them in their head space* or thoughts in order to play it out in real life. There are a few factors that indicate a sub is a mental sub, one is they like different levels of submission. What they need one day they don't the next. Dom/me's will be in power struggle with this "s-type"* because this sub doesn't always communicate. The other characteristic of this sub is that love is often optional.
3. Romantic Sub: This is the sub that finds solice in the emotions invested in submission. Love is a manditory piece of this sub's make up. This sub type wants to surrender everything without becomeing the slave. They are in love with the ideal of submission and pour their heart into their submission.
4. Bedroom Sub: This sub is interesting. Thier submission is real, make no mistake about that one but their submission is triggered by their enviroment. When they walk in the door and they lock it or at night as the bedroom door closes. The submissive in this sub comes out to play. The characteristics of this sub are vital, in that this sub is driven by sex and sexual need. Often you will find that this sub, due to the sexual need is a switch* and can take either role.
5. Servant or Service Sub: You guessed this one, this is the maid or butler. The sub that finds sexual gratification in pure serving. This sub will cook and clean, do your laundry, wash your car or any other type of service you require. Although this sub recives sexual gratification from service this sub requires no sex and doesn't want it, yes this includes sexual touching.
2. Mental Sub: No this isn't a straight jacket and padded room type of sub. The mental sub means that BDSM is a thing that works with them in their head space* or thoughts in order to play it out in real life. There are a few factors that indicate a sub is a mental sub, one is they like different levels of submission. What they need one day they don't the next. Dom/me's will be in power struggle with this "s-type"* because this sub doesn't always communicate. The other characteristic of this sub is that love is often optional.
3. Romantic Sub: This is the sub that finds solice in the emotions invested in submission. Love is a manditory piece of this sub's make up. This sub type wants to surrender everything without becomeing the slave. They are in love with the ideal of submission and pour their heart into their submission.
4. Bedroom Sub: This sub is interesting. Thier submission is real, make no mistake about that one but their submission is triggered by their enviroment. When they walk in the door and they lock it or at night as the bedroom door closes. The submissive in this sub comes out to play. The characteristics of this sub are vital, in that this sub is driven by sex and sexual need. Often you will find that this sub, due to the sexual need is a switch* and can take either role.
5. Servant or Service Sub: You guessed this one, this is the maid or butler. The sub that finds sexual gratification in pure serving. This sub will cook and clean, do your laundry, wash your car or any other type of service you require. Although this sub recives sexual gratification from service this sub requires no sex and doesn't want it, yes this includes sexual touching.
6. Sex Slave: The only reason this sub exisits is for sex. Sex by any means is on this subs to do list. Often with little reguard for the hazards involved. They are looking for an orgasm above all else and this type of sub is a risky one to have in your life. Though they are good people they find that that sex is their motivation and will often lead to disasterous relationships.
7. Slave: The slave is an emotional and need driven creature. They want nothing more then to please. They want to serve on all levels to their "M-type"*. One of the things that drives this sub is people pleasing. If their Dom/me is happy with them then this sub is over the moon. If the Dom/me is upset with this sub then this sub becomes devisiated. Often this sub takes thier emotions to the extreme becuae of this these subs require balance, tasks, and consistancy of the Dom/me.
8. The S.A.M or Smart Ass Masochists: This is the brat of subs. They provoke tops* into Dominating them . In doing this they can unleash anger and resentment from the tops because they push too far. This sub is driven by punishment they see corporal punishment as a sexual need. This type of sub is a danger and can lead to real harm both emotionally and physical because they push too far.
9. Alpha Sub: This is a more complex one to describe as I have found this one happen to have two ways to look at it.
-a) This is the sub that is book or learned smart. This sub finds he is above anyone else because of what he knows. This sub goes out of their way to show off and is the attention getter.
-b) This is either the first sub in a poly* relationship or one that is a swich. This is the sub that helps with the other subs because they can fill a Dom/me role with skill. But always under the direction of their own Dom/me.
A lot of people will look at this list and see bit and piece of each sub type that may fit with them. What is important to remember is that we are all human and we are not all cookie cutter people. Its more then ok to be a mix of these type and sexplore.
Knowing about BDSM and the types within it are the key to having some fun.
7. Slave: The slave is an emotional and need driven creature. They want nothing more then to please. They want to serve on all levels to their "M-type"*. One of the things that drives this sub is people pleasing. If their Dom/me is happy with them then this sub is over the moon. If the Dom/me is upset with this sub then this sub becomes devisiated. Often this sub takes thier emotions to the extreme becuae of this these subs require balance, tasks, and consistancy of the Dom/me.
8. The S.A.M or Smart Ass Masochists: This is the brat of subs. They provoke tops* into Dominating them . In doing this they can unleash anger and resentment from the tops because they push too far. This sub is driven by punishment they see corporal punishment as a sexual need. This type of sub is a danger and can lead to real harm both emotionally and physical because they push too far.
9. Alpha Sub: This is a more complex one to describe as I have found this one happen to have two ways to look at it.
-a) This is the sub that is book or learned smart. This sub finds he is above anyone else because of what he knows. This sub goes out of their way to show off and is the attention getter.
-b) This is either the first sub in a poly* relationship or one that is a swich. This is the sub that helps with the other subs because they can fill a Dom/me role with skill. But always under the direction of their own Dom/me.
A lot of people will look at this list and see bit and piece of each sub type that may fit with them. What is important to remember is that we are all human and we are not all cookie cutter people. Its more then ok to be a mix of these type and sexplore.
Knowing about BDSM and the types within it are the key to having some fun.
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