It’s like they don’t grasp that for majority of bdsm people, it isn’t just “a sex thing” or “we did this 15 minutes, and that’s it, not doing it again” type deal.
Slaves will typically go through extremely strict protocol when interacting with their Sirs/Mistresses. Yes, every relationship is different, but theres “basics” that remain typically the same (speak when spoken to, ask permission to do specific things, keep up with house work, etc.). Being a slave is a 24/7 commitment. You will very likely get bruises, splinters, welts, and other types of injuries, mainly from how rigorous it is (and what it demands of the human body).
Submissives aren’t typically under as strict protocol, but it is still very demanding mentally and emotionally. You need to think about your Dom’s AND YOUR own needs. You need to make sure your Dom is as comfortable as they can be and when they’re having a bad day, do your best to comfort them.
For the Masters and Mistresses, you need to keep your subs and slaves in top condition so they can preform at their best. You need to inspire them to kiss the ground you walk on (and not force them to do it by making crazy demands in messages). You need to respect your subs and slaves real life situations (real life emergency , work schedule, school schedule, etc.). You need to pay super close attention to your subs and slaves body language (yes, every square inch) to see if their body is saying something that they are not vocalizing to you.
There is no integrity is beating your sub or slave to the point where they’re black and blue without giving them any kind of aftercare. There’s no integrity in calling your sub or slave every humiliation term in the book without giving them proper aftercare.
Bdsm isn’t just orgasms, chains, humiliation, or seeing how much of a “doormat” you can make out of someone. Even RACK (risk aware consensual kink) is built on community, trust, honesty, and being aware of your partner’s needs and limits.
Slaves will typically go through extremely strict protocol when interacting with their Sirs/Mistresses. Yes, every relationship is different, but theres “basics” that remain typically the same (speak when spoken to, ask permission to do specific things, keep up with house work, etc.). Being a slave is a 24/7 commitment. You will very likely get bruises, splinters, welts, and other types of injuries, mainly from how rigorous it is (and what it demands of the human body).
Submissives aren’t typically under as strict protocol, but it is still very demanding mentally and emotionally. You need to think about your Dom’s AND YOUR own needs. You need to make sure your Dom is as comfortable as they can be and when they’re having a bad day, do your best to comfort them.
For the Masters and Mistresses, you need to keep your subs and slaves in top condition so they can preform at their best. You need to inspire them to kiss the ground you walk on (and not force them to do it by making crazy demands in messages). You need to respect your subs and slaves real life situations (real life emergency , work schedule, school schedule, etc.). You need to pay super close attention to your subs and slaves body language (yes, every square inch) to see if their body is saying something that they are not vocalizing to you.
There is no integrity is beating your sub or slave to the point where they’re black and blue without giving them any kind of aftercare. There’s no integrity in calling your sub or slave every humiliation term in the book without giving them proper aftercare.
Bdsm isn’t just orgasms, chains, humiliation, or seeing how much of a “doormat” you can make out of someone. Even RACK (risk aware consensual kink) is built on community, trust, honesty, and being aware of your partner’s needs and limits.
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