1. You will be horny. This is to be expected, and yet I still wasn’t prepared for it. When you first attempt to put your cage on, you’ll probably have a tough time fighting your erection. I like to think of it as your dick’s last hoorah. And once locked up, all you’ll think about is being locked up. You’ll spend hours browsing your favorite chastity blogs, reaching in your pants, and just looking at yourself. And every hour that horniness will build. It gets to a point where it’s unbearable… But there’s nothing you can do about it so you have no choice but to bear it.
2. You won’t be able to masturbate. This is kinda the point, but it actually surprised me how real this is. The cage prevents pretty much any simulation, and attempting to masturbate will cause discomfort. This is going to be very weird at first. All of your life up till this point, if you stroked, you built up to orgasm. No longer. You think you can get simulation, but you just can’t. You think the birdcage design will allow you some feeling through the bars. But it doesn’t.
3. But there IS a way to masturbate. You’ll just feel like a girl doing it. Because your glans is not becoming fully engulfed with blood, it is highly sensitive to vibrations. Much like a woman’s clitoris is soft, so too is the glans. So vibrations will cause stimulation and orgasm. Back massagers, Hitachi, cell phones, can all be used to masturbate.
4. If you’re like me, you’ll use a vibrating device to masturbate once, and then never again. So I admit that I did it once. But the orgasm took away the horniness and I instantly unlocked from my cage and put it away fora few weeks. I’m horny as a teenager when locked up, and I like keeping it that way. When I’m not horny, I don’t want to be in chastity and when I’m not in chastity, I don’t reach the same level of horniness.
5. Your balls will actually grow. I thought this was just a fantasy but it’s actually true. From not emptying themselves through orgasm, your testicles will swell as their sperm reserves are built up. Take a picture every day and you’ll see what I mean.
6. Sleep will not be as easy(at first). When we sleep, our body has a system that causes multiple erections to keep everything functioning down there. But the cage interrupts that and your body wakes up as the discomfort becomes noticeable. And when you do wake up, these attempted erections do not fade quickly. They can last for well over an hour. Interrupted sleep may go on for two weeks, a month, two months, it’s hard to say as each person is different. I have found that after a month, I still wake up, but it’s not as bad.
7. THERE’S A TRICK!!! So I said that those pesky attempted erections don’t go away easily. What I should’ve said is “They don’t go away easily ON THEIR OWN.” A while back, I saw a post on Facebook saying that flexing any muscle for 60 seconds will kill an erection… And it actually does. So I just flex a bicep or two for a minute and, sure enough, it subsides and I can fall back asleep. Some nights it may take 75 seconds, but it does work.
8. With few exceptions, your days of standing to urinate are probably over. I thought I could avoid this one going in, but I was wrong. The ability to accurately predict where your piss is gonna fly is robbed from you, you sitting is the only way(unless you’re outside where it doesn’t matter). This is actually humiliating and took some time to accept on my part. Being able to stand and direct your piss is a true male privelege that is now gone. You must sit, like a girl, because you’ll make a mess otherwise.
9. Hygiene takes a little extra effort. At first, you probably won’t be good at it. Then you’ll develop a methodical routine, and then you’ll perfect it. When I first developed my routine, it took around 5 minutes just to complete. Now I’d say I’m down to 1.5 to 2 minutes. Drying actually takes more time, IMO.
10. Many men report an ache in their balls from not orgasming. I personally have never developed any ache. Just something you may wanna prepare for.
11. Leaking. I feel like I could write an entire book on leaking. The first time I noticed any true leakage of precum was about 2 weeks into a lockup. That lockup lasted 22 days. Until I unlocked and wanked it, I leaked almost constantly. Now, when I lock up, It begins much sooner, usually around day 4. I can get it going sooner by attempting to masturbate, but it’s only a few drops. The real steady stream comes on its own. To be clear, I LOVE LEAKING. But it can get tedious. I sleep naked so I end up washing my sheets frequently. My underwear end up crusty or soaked. I was once leaking so badly that it began to show THROUGH MY JEANS. Thankfully I had a spare pair and more underwear with me where I was.
12. Your body will adjust. Eventually, your body will stop attempting erections, or they’ll become very rare. Your scrotum will soften and hang more loosely than at first. And your penis will “shrink”. Fear not, it isn’t permanent, but lack of erections will cause it to assume a smaller state. The size will return to normal in about 2 weeks after removing your cage. But it takes a long time to cause noticeable shrinkage. My longest lockup was 6 weeks and I only lost a half inch. Two weeks later I was back up to my normal 6.25".
13. You’ll go through a “puffy” period. This one is kinda weird. I first heard mention of it on Tumblr and definitely notice it when it happens. For me, it happens about 10 days into my lockup. My penis will appear swollen in my cage, almost like a balloon, but not an attempted erection. And it stays that way for a while. In my longest lockup, it was only gone about a day before I ended my lockup. I’m not sure what causes it, but it always happens. I think it’s the body trying to compensate for a lack of true erections. And, from talking to other people, when it goes away is when your body just kinda gives up. Sleep becomes easier, arousal occurs without erections. I wish I had known this before, but the cage I was wearing at the time was a bitch to clean, so I’m kinda glad I didn’t.
14. Your attitude will change. At first you’ll be cheery because you’re happy to be locked. But as the horniness grows, you’ll become grumpy without realizing it. Again, I think this is just a reaction by your body for not feeding what it wants. But, for me, about a month in, I adjust and become relaxed, docile, and even the word submissive becomes appropriate. I don’t know why, but it feels… I can’t quite describe it. It’s really nice, it was a surprise to me, and within a day of orgasming, it was gone. Now I want it back.
15. I don’t know if this is just me, but when I first lockup, I’m afraid people will find out my secret. But the longer I’m locked up, the less I seem to care. Maybe I’m just getting better at hiding it, but I also get the feeling that I WANT others to know. This is a dangerous one for me, but very real.
16. Chastity is a giant loop. Actually, several giant loops. The first is simple: Chastity makes me horny so I look at porn which makes me hornier so I view more porn, and so on and so forth. It gets even worse because the longer you’re locked up, you start to find things arousing that you didn’t before. For example, wearing women’s underwear isn’t normally a kink of mine. But, in my long lockup, I even began wearing them out in public. Another giant loop of chastity is: the longer I’m in chastity, the more I want to stay in chastity. It’s like a challenge, of sorts. Kinda like Forrest Gump. “Well, I’ve come this far, might as well keep going.” You make a bunch of progress and you don’t wanna ruin it by stopping and having to work a long time just to reach this point again.
That’s really all I have at this point. I’m sure there’s more. As always, don’t be afraid to ask questions.
2. You won’t be able to masturbate. This is kinda the point, but it actually surprised me how real this is. The cage prevents pretty much any simulation, and attempting to masturbate will cause discomfort. This is going to be very weird at first. All of your life up till this point, if you stroked, you built up to orgasm. No longer. You think you can get simulation, but you just can’t. You think the birdcage design will allow you some feeling through the bars. But it doesn’t.
3. But there IS a way to masturbate. You’ll just feel like a girl doing it. Because your glans is not becoming fully engulfed with blood, it is highly sensitive to vibrations. Much like a woman’s clitoris is soft, so too is the glans. So vibrations will cause stimulation and orgasm. Back massagers, Hitachi, cell phones, can all be used to masturbate.
4. If you’re like me, you’ll use a vibrating device to masturbate once, and then never again. So I admit that I did it once. But the orgasm took away the horniness and I instantly unlocked from my cage and put it away fora few weeks. I’m horny as a teenager when locked up, and I like keeping it that way. When I’m not horny, I don’t want to be in chastity and when I’m not in chastity, I don’t reach the same level of horniness.
5. Your balls will actually grow. I thought this was just a fantasy but it’s actually true. From not emptying themselves through orgasm, your testicles will swell as their sperm reserves are built up. Take a picture every day and you’ll see what I mean.
6. Sleep will not be as easy(at first). When we sleep, our body has a system that causes multiple erections to keep everything functioning down there. But the cage interrupts that and your body wakes up as the discomfort becomes noticeable. And when you do wake up, these attempted erections do not fade quickly. They can last for well over an hour. Interrupted sleep may go on for two weeks, a month, two months, it’s hard to say as each person is different. I have found that after a month, I still wake up, but it’s not as bad.
7. THERE’S A TRICK!!! So I said that those pesky attempted erections don’t go away easily. What I should’ve said is “They don’t go away easily ON THEIR OWN.” A while back, I saw a post on Facebook saying that flexing any muscle for 60 seconds will kill an erection… And it actually does. So I just flex a bicep or two for a minute and, sure enough, it subsides and I can fall back asleep. Some nights it may take 75 seconds, but it does work.
8. With few exceptions, your days of standing to urinate are probably over. I thought I could avoid this one going in, but I was wrong. The ability to accurately predict where your piss is gonna fly is robbed from you, you sitting is the only way(unless you’re outside where it doesn’t matter). This is actually humiliating and took some time to accept on my part. Being able to stand and direct your piss is a true male privelege that is now gone. You must sit, like a girl, because you’ll make a mess otherwise.
9. Hygiene takes a little extra effort. At first, you probably won’t be good at it. Then you’ll develop a methodical routine, and then you’ll perfect it. When I first developed my routine, it took around 5 minutes just to complete. Now I’d say I’m down to 1.5 to 2 minutes. Drying actually takes more time, IMO.
10. Many men report an ache in their balls from not orgasming. I personally have never developed any ache. Just something you may wanna prepare for.
11. Leaking. I feel like I could write an entire book on leaking. The first time I noticed any true leakage of precum was about 2 weeks into a lockup. That lockup lasted 22 days. Until I unlocked and wanked it, I leaked almost constantly. Now, when I lock up, It begins much sooner, usually around day 4. I can get it going sooner by attempting to masturbate, but it’s only a few drops. The real steady stream comes on its own. To be clear, I LOVE LEAKING. But it can get tedious. I sleep naked so I end up washing my sheets frequently. My underwear end up crusty or soaked. I was once leaking so badly that it began to show THROUGH MY JEANS. Thankfully I had a spare pair and more underwear with me where I was.
12. Your body will adjust. Eventually, your body will stop attempting erections, or they’ll become very rare. Your scrotum will soften and hang more loosely than at first. And your penis will “shrink”. Fear not, it isn’t permanent, but lack of erections will cause it to assume a smaller state. The size will return to normal in about 2 weeks after removing your cage. But it takes a long time to cause noticeable shrinkage. My longest lockup was 6 weeks and I only lost a half inch. Two weeks later I was back up to my normal 6.25".
13. You’ll go through a “puffy” period. This one is kinda weird. I first heard mention of it on Tumblr and definitely notice it when it happens. For me, it happens about 10 days into my lockup. My penis will appear swollen in my cage, almost like a balloon, but not an attempted erection. And it stays that way for a while. In my longest lockup, it was only gone about a day before I ended my lockup. I’m not sure what causes it, but it always happens. I think it’s the body trying to compensate for a lack of true erections. And, from talking to other people, when it goes away is when your body just kinda gives up. Sleep becomes easier, arousal occurs without erections. I wish I had known this before, but the cage I was wearing at the time was a bitch to clean, so I’m kinda glad I didn’t.
14. Your attitude will change. At first you’ll be cheery because you’re happy to be locked. But as the horniness grows, you’ll become grumpy without realizing it. Again, I think this is just a reaction by your body for not feeding what it wants. But, for me, about a month in, I adjust and become relaxed, docile, and even the word submissive becomes appropriate. I don’t know why, but it feels… I can’t quite describe it. It’s really nice, it was a surprise to me, and within a day of orgasming, it was gone. Now I want it back.
15. I don’t know if this is just me, but when I first lockup, I’m afraid people will find out my secret. But the longer I’m locked up, the less I seem to care. Maybe I’m just getting better at hiding it, but I also get the feeling that I WANT others to know. This is a dangerous one for me, but very real.
16. Chastity is a giant loop. Actually, several giant loops. The first is simple: Chastity makes me horny so I look at porn which makes me hornier so I view more porn, and so on and so forth. It gets even worse because the longer you’re locked up, you start to find things arousing that you didn’t before. For example, wearing women’s underwear isn’t normally a kink of mine. But, in my long lockup, I even began wearing them out in public. Another giant loop of chastity is: the longer I’m in chastity, the more I want to stay in chastity. It’s like a challenge, of sorts. Kinda like Forrest Gump. “Well, I’ve come this far, might as well keep going.” You make a bunch of progress and you don’t wanna ruin it by stopping and having to work a long time just to reach this point again.
That’s really all I have at this point. I’m sure there’s more. As always, don’t be afraid to ask questions.
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