The topic of many questions.
Being in a switch relationship is amazing, because it keeps the roles, therefore the relationship, in a state of fluidity; allowing you to act out all of your fantasies, submissive or dominant, depending on the mood you’re in.
1. Start off slow, find out what they like
If you’ve spent a while being submissive, when you first get a chance to be dominant you’ll have a tendency to inflict the same level of punishment on them as they normally do to you.
In reality, this leads to things going too far, too quickly, especially for somebody who is new to submission. Start off with the basics (light bondage, spanking, verbal humiliation) to test the waters before moving onto anything more extreme.
2. Live in the moment
Try not to make plans too far in advance. Sexual appetites change relatively quickly over the course of the day.
Making plans for a night of submission might seem like the greatest idea in the world at the time, but you may regret promising it after frustrating day leaves you feeling dominant and aggressive.
3. Compromise and adapt
Don’t take the roles too seriously. Focusing too heavily on one role can be difficult if your partner isn’t as comfortable in the opposing role.
Try not to get too upset if somebody doesn’t want to do something, and definitely do not try to force or coerce them if they are reluctant. Instead, try a milder version of what you had in mind, try something different entirely, or allow them to switch back to their natural role until they feel more comfortable.
4. The aftermath
At first, it may feel awkward post-orgasm, especially if you have spent the majority of your relationship in one role.
The best thing to do, rather unsurprising, is to talk to each other about your feelings. Talk about what you liked, what you didn’t like, what you’d like to try next time, what you wouldn’t like to do again. Be honest, but try not to be overly critical.
If things got too heated, do something nice with each other. Snuggle up to a movie, eat a load of junk food, or have a bubble bath. The most liberating thing about being in a switch relationship is being able to leave the assigned roles in the bedroom, spending the rest of your time in a relationship built around love, equality, and complete trust in one another.
Being in a switch relationship is amazing, because it keeps the roles, therefore the relationship, in a state of fluidity; allowing you to act out all of your fantasies, submissive or dominant, depending on the mood you’re in.
1. Start off slow, find out what they like
If you’ve spent a while being submissive, when you first get a chance to be dominant you’ll have a tendency to inflict the same level of punishment on them as they normally do to you.
In reality, this leads to things going too far, too quickly, especially for somebody who is new to submission. Start off with the basics (light bondage, spanking, verbal humiliation) to test the waters before moving onto anything more extreme.
2. Live in the moment
Try not to make plans too far in advance. Sexual appetites change relatively quickly over the course of the day.
Making plans for a night of submission might seem like the greatest idea in the world at the time, but you may regret promising it after frustrating day leaves you feeling dominant and aggressive.
3. Compromise and adapt
Don’t take the roles too seriously. Focusing too heavily on one role can be difficult if your partner isn’t as comfortable in the opposing role.
Try not to get too upset if somebody doesn’t want to do something, and definitely do not try to force or coerce them if they are reluctant. Instead, try a milder version of what you had in mind, try something different entirely, or allow them to switch back to their natural role until they feel more comfortable.
4. The aftermath
At first, it may feel awkward post-orgasm, especially if you have spent the majority of your relationship in one role.
The best thing to do, rather unsurprising, is to talk to each other about your feelings. Talk about what you liked, what you didn’t like, what you’d like to try next time, what you wouldn’t like to do again. Be honest, but try not to be overly critical.
If things got too heated, do something nice with each other. Snuggle up to a movie, eat a load of junk food, or have a bubble bath. The most liberating thing about being in a switch relationship is being able to leave the assigned roles in the bedroom, spending the rest of your time in a relationship built around love, equality, and complete trust in one another.
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