When I see pictures or videos of supposed Dommes and subs, and the women are naked, wearing high heels… it makes me not only cringe, but reeks of B-rated hotel porn, driven by deadlines, a low budget, and utter cluelessness.
In my opinion, and that’s what this is all about… MY opinion… a real Domme, a true female in control of another person (people) at a given time (*with the exception of a long-term love FLR**)… she who holds the power is NEVER stripped down to nothing just as her sub is! And she doesn’t look like some cheezy stripper. Those are video-(dumbs) dommes.
The mere idea of having my sub strip naked and position himself lower and/or behind me unless allow him otherwise, is because he is SUBORDINATE to me, and as much as his nudity is a reminder for his role… my choice of clothing is what distinguishes me as his Queen, his Goddess, and the one in control.
Clothing makes the (wo)man, so I can’t think of a better situation when this has the opportunity to hold true. While I may have my pets wear anything from nothing but rope around his wrists, to collars, to a full-on sexy maid costume, as he washes my floors with brush between his teeth… this i strictly my prerogative and I always have my reasons, and they are always for my pleasure.
However, I am never completely nude with a pet UNLESS I happen to be stepping out of a bath or shower that he’s prepared for me, or if he’s washed my hair or he’s shaved my legs… and ONLY THEN may he see me without a stitch of clothing because he’s still serving me, under my strict orders.
Then I may have him dry me, or hand me my clothes or even dress me… Still in his role as my pet/slave. Aside from those instances, I always have SOMETHING on my body, whether it be a bra and panties, or full rubber gear, or your typical leather bodice and thigh high boots, or what I am most fond of… the classy corporate CEO attire. Crisp button down white blouse, long pencil skirt, high heeled boots… or perhaps crotchless leggings with a fitted mini skirt and high heeled oxfords.
The corporate look is ALWAYS my favorite as I hold a flogger in one hand and a latex glove on the other, feeling more than empowered that he doesn’t know I haven’t on underwear, which will soon serve me well.
In my opinion, and that’s what this is all about… MY opinion… a real Domme, a true female in control of another person (people) at a given time (*with the exception of a long-term love FLR**)… she who holds the power is NEVER stripped down to nothing just as her sub is! And she doesn’t look like some cheezy stripper. Those are video-(dumbs) dommes.
The mere idea of having my sub strip naked and position himself lower and/or behind me unless allow him otherwise, is because he is SUBORDINATE to me, and as much as his nudity is a reminder for his role… my choice of clothing is what distinguishes me as his Queen, his Goddess, and the one in control.
Clothing makes the (wo)man, so I can’t think of a better situation when this has the opportunity to hold true. While I may have my pets wear anything from nothing but rope around his wrists, to collars, to a full-on sexy maid costume, as he washes my floors with brush between his teeth… this i strictly my prerogative and I always have my reasons, and they are always for my pleasure.
However, I am never completely nude with a pet UNLESS I happen to be stepping out of a bath or shower that he’s prepared for me, or if he’s washed my hair or he’s shaved my legs… and ONLY THEN may he see me without a stitch of clothing because he’s still serving me, under my strict orders.
Then I may have him dry me, or hand me my clothes or even dress me… Still in his role as my pet/slave. Aside from those instances, I always have SOMETHING on my body, whether it be a bra and panties, or full rubber gear, or your typical leather bodice and thigh high boots, or what I am most fond of… the classy corporate CEO attire. Crisp button down white blouse, long pencil skirt, high heeled boots… or perhaps crotchless leggings with a fitted mini skirt and high heeled oxfords.
The corporate look is ALWAYS my favorite as I hold a flogger in one hand and a latex glove on the other, feeling more than empowered that he doesn’t know I haven’t on underwear, which will soon serve me well.
I don’t mean to sound judgmental, but I am. My source of power comes from several things, and one is my wardrobe. I have fetishes of course, like rubber, gas masks, all types of legwear, from basic Spanish seamed nylons, to garter-ed fishnets with buckled up the backs… to zippered thigh-highs.
And sure, I LOVE my toys and strap-ons and all kinds of nasty, filthy, and taboo things and activites, (it’s part of who I am and what I do)… but that’s for another entry entirely.
My point here is that when my pets, slaves, and even clients see me… they see class, cleanliness, dignity, pride, and beauty that comes from a solid sense of self. And this helps them become much more obedient and selfless subs. They appreciate that I am meticulous about how I keep myself, and generally automatically feel compelled to serve me, then if i wore stripper clothes and platform see-through heels instead.
It’s a fact… when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you;re better at whatever you want to do. No matter what it is, and you radiate confidence, sexiness, and respect.
And yeah, yeah, yeah… though the truest sense of self actually DOES come from within… my choice of wardrobe for any particular session/scene/date/circumstance, reflects my respectful, yet deviant nature, and it’s never unnoticed, always appreciated, and half my work (fun) is done.
Just my opinion. Pictures will be coming soon.
And sure, I LOVE my toys and strap-ons and all kinds of nasty, filthy, and taboo things and activites, (it’s part of who I am and what I do)… but that’s for another entry entirely.
My point here is that when my pets, slaves, and even clients see me… they see class, cleanliness, dignity, pride, and beauty that comes from a solid sense of self. And this helps them become much more obedient and selfless subs. They appreciate that I am meticulous about how I keep myself, and generally automatically feel compelled to serve me, then if i wore stripper clothes and platform see-through heels instead.
It’s a fact… when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you;re better at whatever you want to do. No matter what it is, and you radiate confidence, sexiness, and respect.
And yeah, yeah, yeah… though the truest sense of self actually DOES come from within… my choice of wardrobe for any particular session/scene/date/circumstance, reflects my respectful, yet deviant nature, and it’s never unnoticed, always appreciated, and half my work (fun) is done.
Just my opinion. Pictures will be coming soon.
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