How to Control your Submissive

1. You must take total control of his orgasms.
You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.
Teach him that he must EARN his orgasms.

2. You must control your own feelings of guilt.
He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
Full orgasms should only happen on very special occasions.

3. You must get into his head.
Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
Tease him with your words whenever possible.
Find out what embarrasses and humiliates him.
Use his humiliation fears against him

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.
Talk sexy to him.
Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
Make him give you orgasms frequently.

5. You must make him do something humiliating.
Make him wear a butt-plug in public.
Order him to be naked when you are not.
Make him masturbate for you.
Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.

6. You must punish him whenever he displeases you.
Don’t let him get away with anything!
Spank, paddle, or whip him.
Humiliate him in some way.
Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
Make him do what he hates.

7. You must find ways to constantly tease him, and keep him on edge.
Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
Make him shop for lingerie with you.