Perhaps once you really understand your own chastity desires, have make the decision to share these with your wife, and have gathered the courage to initiate the conversation, an initial approach including some or one of the following suggestions may work for you:
1. Explain that you NEED to LEARN to serve you wife BETTER, in order to help make her life easier.
2. Attending better to her needs around the house and in the bedroom would make your own life MORE fulfilling.
3. Receiving guidance and constructive criticism from her about how you perform your daily tasks would help you to become MORE attentive to her needs and desires.
4. Wearing a chastity device will mean that your energy is not wasted on masturbation but is reserved for higher things, such as pleasing her.
5. Wearing a chastity device may bring her pleasures in the bedroom, as you will focus your energy on her pleasures and desires, her pleasure becomes your pleasure. It is also a way to spice up bedroom playtime and to introduce Tantric techniques whereby she grants you permission to orgasm for her, or not as the mood takes her.
6. Be honest and explain that you have been fascinated by the thought of wearing a chastity device. Tell her some of your fantasies, not those which may be threatening to her, but just little thoughts of how she could tease you, or ask you to do MORE tasks around the house, give her some examples.
7. Allow time for her to consider all of what you’ve said. As you speak to her don’t be forceful, don’t push the idea of keyholding on to her, and at the same time don’t be all weak and exceptionally subservient or snivelling. Don’t show her images of your ideal Dominatrix, or submission scenario she may not be able to relate such things to your own relationship.
Overall, give her the opportunity to make up her own mind about you desires and future chastity games or chastity lifestyle. She needs to take ownership of the role of keyholding, it must not be a decision she’s taken just to please you if it is not want she really wants.
1. Explain that you NEED to LEARN to serve you wife BETTER, in order to help make her life easier.
2. Attending better to her needs around the house and in the bedroom would make your own life MORE fulfilling.
3. Receiving guidance and constructive criticism from her about how you perform your daily tasks would help you to become MORE attentive to her needs and desires.
4. Wearing a chastity device will mean that your energy is not wasted on masturbation but is reserved for higher things, such as pleasing her.
5. Wearing a chastity device may bring her pleasures in the bedroom, as you will focus your energy on her pleasures and desires, her pleasure becomes your pleasure. It is also a way to spice up bedroom playtime and to introduce Tantric techniques whereby she grants you permission to orgasm for her, or not as the mood takes her.
6. Be honest and explain that you have been fascinated by the thought of wearing a chastity device. Tell her some of your fantasies, not those which may be threatening to her, but just little thoughts of how she could tease you, or ask you to do MORE tasks around the house, give her some examples.
7. Allow time for her to consider all of what you’ve said. As you speak to her don’t be forceful, don’t push the idea of keyholding on to her, and at the same time don’t be all weak and exceptionally subservient or snivelling. Don’t show her images of your ideal Dominatrix, or submission scenario she may not be able to relate such things to your own relationship.
Overall, give her the opportunity to make up her own mind about you desires and future chastity games or chastity lifestyle. She needs to take ownership of the role of keyholding, it must not be a decision she’s taken just to please you if it is not want she really wants.
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