First of all, you need to know your partner's likes and dislikes. What turns him on about being controlled by you? Does he enjoy being humiliated? Is he into voyeurism? Exhibitionism? Does he enjoy being punished for failures? What are his fantasies about? If you can't answer these simple questions, you are probably NOT giving him the kinds of tasks he would most enjoy.
First of all, I like to think there are three basic areas that all tasks can be lumped into. The first are tasks that come from everyday life. Things that you need done. Chores! The other two areas are “sexual” tasks and “humiliation” tasks. Of course, both of these last two can be broken down into many sub categories, but that is where you come in.
Some examples of chores would be preparing diner, cleaning up after diner, washing the dishes (often by hand), taking out the trash, doing the laundry, etc. Things that you used to do. To make these things more interesting, you can add a sexual, or humiliating, aspect to them. For example, he can do the dishes while naked or wearing a pair of women's panties. If you have kids around, make him wear those panties under his normal clothing.
Basically, any time you can add a sexual or humiliating aspect to any ordinary chore, you give him more of an incentive. The threat of punishment, depending on what works, can also be used as a motivator. For example, if he doesn't make the bed properly, or fails to empty the wastebasket in the kitchen, you can threaten to paddle him. Or maybe, if he is in chastity, postpone his release date.
Of course, you can also reward him in addition (or instead of) punishing him. Rewards are always a good motivator. If he enjoys being paddled or spanked, then don't use it as a punishment. Find another means. After all, if it's a punishment, it should not be pleasant.
When it comes to sexual tasks, we are talking about his pleasing you, or satisfying your sexual desires. You know what those are. So I shouldn't have to give you any ideas there. Just remember, YOU are the one in control. He is NOT allowed to have a headache to get out of performing sexually.
As for humiliating tasks, these are things that you enjoy watching him do. Whether it is simply masturbating for you, kneeling on the floor, or having weights attached to his balls, is up to you. But whatever you have him do, it should be something that you enjoy.
So, make your own lists. Be creative. And most of all, have some fun!
First of all, I like to think there are three basic areas that all tasks can be lumped into. The first are tasks that come from everyday life. Things that you need done. Chores! The other two areas are “sexual” tasks and “humiliation” tasks. Of course, both of these last two can be broken down into many sub categories, but that is where you come in.
Some examples of chores would be preparing diner, cleaning up after diner, washing the dishes (often by hand), taking out the trash, doing the laundry, etc. Things that you used to do. To make these things more interesting, you can add a sexual, or humiliating, aspect to them. For example, he can do the dishes while naked or wearing a pair of women's panties. If you have kids around, make him wear those panties under his normal clothing.
Basically, any time you can add a sexual or humiliating aspect to any ordinary chore, you give him more of an incentive. The threat of punishment, depending on what works, can also be used as a motivator. For example, if he doesn't make the bed properly, or fails to empty the wastebasket in the kitchen, you can threaten to paddle him. Or maybe, if he is in chastity, postpone his release date.
Of course, you can also reward him in addition (or instead of) punishing him. Rewards are always a good motivator. If he enjoys being paddled or spanked, then don't use it as a punishment. Find another means. After all, if it's a punishment, it should not be pleasant.
When it comes to sexual tasks, we are talking about his pleasing you, or satisfying your sexual desires. You know what those are. So I shouldn't have to give you any ideas there. Just remember, YOU are the one in control. He is NOT allowed to have a headache to get out of performing sexually.
As for humiliating tasks, these are things that you enjoy watching him do. Whether it is simply masturbating for you, kneeling on the floor, or having weights attached to his balls, is up to you. But whatever you have him do, it should be something that you enjoy.
So, make your own lists. Be creative. And most of all, have some fun!
More on Tasks
There are a large number of men (I don't know about women) out there who don't have anyone to give them orders, or to tell them what to do and when or how to do it. These men want some kind of sexual release (or tease and denial) in order to relieve their sexual frustrations. I finally found them a solution...
There are a large number of men (I don't know about women) out there who don't have anyone to give them orders, or to tell them what to do and when or how to do it. These men want some kind of sexual release (or tease and denial) in order to relieve their sexual frustrations. I finally found them a solution...
There is a website called SexScripts that does just that. No, you won't find any Mistresses or Masters to tell you what to do, but you will find many games you can play that will take care of all those pesky sexual urges you have.
SexScripts has a program that you can download and simply run any of the hundreds of programs (scripts) that are listed on their website. These scripts are written by people just like you and me. People who know what tease and denial is all about. Want chastity? There are scripts for that. Want to be controlled by a Master or Mistress? There are scripts for that. Want to play a game online with other people (live) where you have to strip or even perform tasks while other players watch you? There are scripts for that, too!
Well, here is a unique website full of tease and denial scripts for your enjoyment. The beauty of SexScripts is that you are not playing online. You play them from your own computer (or even phone). Some games do require an Internet connection, but most do not. So, even if you can't access the Internet (wherever you are), you can still play the games. You can ALWAYS play in private!
I highly recommend you take a look at SexScripts the next time you are looking for a little sexual excitement, but don't have a partner around to tell you what to do.
If you happen to be a woman in charge of a man, perhaps your hubby, you might want to take a look at this website as well. You can have your partner play certain games, telling him what choices to make, or you can simply get some great ideas for tasks you can use yourself. It's a great place to help you create that LONG list of tasks your partner will never suspect you have! Check it out...
SexScripts has a program that you can download and simply run any of the hundreds of programs (scripts) that are listed on their website. These scripts are written by people just like you and me. People who know what tease and denial is all about. Want chastity? There are scripts for that. Want to be controlled by a Master or Mistress? There are scripts for that. Want to play a game online with other people (live) where you have to strip or even perform tasks while other players watch you? There are scripts for that, too!
Well, here is a unique website full of tease and denial scripts for your enjoyment. The beauty of SexScripts is that you are not playing online. You play them from your own computer (or even phone). Some games do require an Internet connection, but most do not. So, even if you can't access the Internet (wherever you are), you can still play the games. You can ALWAYS play in private!
I highly recommend you take a look at SexScripts the next time you are looking for a little sexual excitement, but don't have a partner around to tell you what to do.
If you happen to be a woman in charge of a man, perhaps your hubby, you might want to take a look at this website as well. You can have your partner play certain games, telling him what choices to make, or you can simply get some great ideas for tasks you can use yourself. It's a great place to help you create that LONG list of tasks your partner will never suspect you have! Check it out...
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