Changing the definition of sex
This is especially important. Definitely no more blowjobs. The blowjob is the epitome of giving him pleasure. Don’t even have sexual intercourse with him. Intercourse equates both of your pleasures, not exactly the message you want to send him either. If he insists on sex, have him fuck you with your favorite dildo. Casually mention how good it feels and how much you enjoy having a cock in you.
If you absolutely must have sex with him a good idea may be to make him wear one or two “long lasting” or numbing condoms or keep him caged and have him wear a strap-on. This will greatly reduce his pleasure. The best thing you can turn sex into is him eating you out, period. You may want to squat on his face and force him to eat your pussy, or lay on your back and make him beg to eat you. Either way, he should soon learn what you mean when you say, “Let’s have sex.” For him, at most, let him masturbate afterwards, cum in a shot glass, and eat his own cum.
Conditions
From here you can take things further. A good way to do this is with conditions. A condition is basically a trade. For example, “Okay hubby, I’ll let you cum tonight, but you have to cum in your hand and eat it afterwards,” or “Alright hubby, I’m going to be nice tonight and let you fuck me, but afterwards you’re going to have to eat your cum from my pussy.” By using conditions, you can bring him to higher levels of submission voluntarily. This is more than worth the momentary pleasure you trade him.
The ultimate goal is to change is pleasure area. He will have to learn to transfer all the pleasure he thinks he has only in his dick, from the top of his penis, to his anus… After a while, you will get to make the anal pleasure his only way to get sexual satisfaction. And you, will get this way all the power and the control you wish on him and much, much more pleasure. Because, in exchange of the pleasure he will get from your strap-on, he will feel the impetuous need to give you all the pleasure you may want, and will do anything to make you happy. He will be “programmed” to satisfy you.
His penis stops being a pleasure tool, also for you, and you rediscover the pleasure of oral sex, a pleasure that you will need and ask constantly. The more pleasure you will get like this, the more he will need to satisfy you.
Humiliation
Very important: you can add some humiliation stimulation to his training. Take profit of any occasion to show him you really have all the control and all the power.
It may surprise you, but in this role you may desire other cock stimulation for your pleasure, not his but others. This is a delicate space, and in fact with an open discussion, you may find while in chastity, your cuckold will wildly support you! <wink>.
Remember, he is being suppressed and will welcome stimulation, physical or not. You may or may not test this, but make sure you both agree, although you decide what is best. , and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you entertain other cocks, don’t feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences or let him watch. He will learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”.
This is especially important. Definitely no more blowjobs. The blowjob is the epitome of giving him pleasure. Don’t even have sexual intercourse with him. Intercourse equates both of your pleasures, not exactly the message you want to send him either. If he insists on sex, have him fuck you with your favorite dildo. Casually mention how good it feels and how much you enjoy having a cock in you.
If you absolutely must have sex with him a good idea may be to make him wear one or two “long lasting” or numbing condoms or keep him caged and have him wear a strap-on. This will greatly reduce his pleasure. The best thing you can turn sex into is him eating you out, period. You may want to squat on his face and force him to eat your pussy, or lay on your back and make him beg to eat you. Either way, he should soon learn what you mean when you say, “Let’s have sex.” For him, at most, let him masturbate afterwards, cum in a shot glass, and eat his own cum.
From here you can take things further. A good way to do this is with conditions. A condition is basically a trade. For example, “Okay hubby, I’ll let you cum tonight, but you have to cum in your hand and eat it afterwards,” or “Alright hubby, I’m going to be nice tonight and let you fuck me, but afterwards you’re going to have to eat your cum from my pussy.” By using conditions, you can bring him to higher levels of submission voluntarily. This is more than worth the momentary pleasure you trade him.
The ultimate goal is to change is pleasure area. He will have to learn to transfer all the pleasure he thinks he has only in his dick, from the top of his penis, to his anus… After a while, you will get to make the anal pleasure his only way to get sexual satisfaction. And you, will get this way all the power and the control you wish on him and much, much more pleasure. Because, in exchange of the pleasure he will get from your strap-on, he will feel the impetuous need to give you all the pleasure you may want, and will do anything to make you happy. He will be “programmed” to satisfy you.
His penis stops being a pleasure tool, also for you, and you rediscover the pleasure of oral sex, a pleasure that you will need and ask constantly. The more pleasure you will get like this, the more he will need to satisfy you.
Humiliation
It may surprise you, but in this role you may desire other cock stimulation for your pleasure, not his but others. This is a delicate space, and in fact with an open discussion, you may find while in chastity, your cuckold will wildly support you! <wink>.
Remember, he is being suppressed and will welcome stimulation, physical or not. You may or may not test this, but make sure you both agree, although you decide what is best. , and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you entertain other cocks, don’t feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences or let him watch. He will learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”.
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