Big decisions are for women, she trusts you to take care of mundane decision making. But with big things, men may sometimes have a good idea or an “acceptable” idea. But if we are aware of what we are and what we are worth, we will not act on our own initiative following “our idea”. Before moving a finger in that direction, we should consult with our Wife. Or rather, we’ll just suggest our idea. We will speak quietly and ask our Wife for her advice on this idea.
You must wait for the answer with humility and show a calm restlessness for Her answer, with the expression of a boy waiting for the precise advice of his mother. Whatever She decides, you must accept without questioning Her. It’s Her decision and that’s all that matters.
Do not be frustrated because you did not accept her idea, after all She took away a great weight from you and the anxiety no doubt caused by it.
As a husband, keep this in mind:
You may be able to do almost anything, but for the sake of your Wife, your family, yourself and society, you choose not to. You will only do what is expected of a man, but you will make it as perfect as possible.
You must be kind, always give in, take care of your Wife. She is the one who takes care of you, leads you, and keeps you. You must honor Her effort and Her ability over anything else.
All that is required is to acquire sufficient ability for everything to function properly in the home and for Her to find rest and relief from daily concerns. Even to be receptive of their eventual frustrations. But always with a grateful attitude.
You must wait for the answer with humility and show a calm restlessness for Her answer, with the expression of a boy waiting for the precise advice of his mother. Whatever She decides, you must accept without questioning Her. It’s Her decision and that’s all that matters.
Do not be frustrated because you did not accept her idea, after all She took away a great weight from you and the anxiety no doubt caused by it.
As a husband, keep this in mind:
You may be able to do almost anything, but for the sake of your Wife, your family, yourself and society, you choose not to. You will only do what is expected of a man, but you will make it as perfect as possible.
You must be kind, always give in, take care of your Wife. She is the one who takes care of you, leads you, and keeps you. You must honor Her effort and Her ability over anything else.
All that is required is to acquire sufficient ability for everything to function properly in the home and for Her to find rest and relief from daily concerns. Even to be receptive of their eventual frustrations. But always with a grateful attitude.
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