One of the most enjoyable aspects of FLRs is that you’ll be pampered beyond your wildest dreams. Most women are lucky if they get the occasional pampering, for example on romantic getaways, or if their husband is feeling particularly guilty about something, or trying to get sex, but you can have it all day, every day - without offering anything in return.
In later articles you’ll learn about Body Worship, detailing the many ways that he can pamper your body, so to speak. We’ll also discuss sex in more detail, which is another intimate and wildly enjoyable way that he can pamper you. Doing the housework can also be viewed as a form of pampering, and we’ll discuss that too in a separate article. In this article we’ll focus on smaller, more subtle ways of pampering you.
IN THE HOUSE
Once you start thinking about it there are countless ways that he can pamper you in your own house. If you’re in the proper mindset you’ll hardly need me to help you come up with examples, but let’s list a small sample of things he should do for you, just for the fun of it:
GIFTS, TRIPS AND TREATS
You should get used to receiving gifts and surprises on a regular basis:
I hope you now have a good understanding of all the ways you can be pampered in your day-to-day life. And that’s not even counting body worship, sex and housework. Let’s learn what body worship is all about.
In later articles you’ll learn about Body Worship, detailing the many ways that he can pamper your body, so to speak. We’ll also discuss sex in more detail, which is another intimate and wildly enjoyable way that he can pamper you. Doing the housework can also be viewed as a form of pampering, and we’ll discuss that too in a separate article. In this article we’ll focus on smaller, more subtle ways of pampering you.
PRINCIPLES
The most important change to make is to get rid of your inhibitions and reservations. As liberal and modern women we have sort of exchanged old-fashioned chivalry and pampering for equal rights, equal pay and all the other wonderful achievements of the feminist movement. It’s an exchange that’s well worth doing. But in a FLR there’s no reason you can’t have both. In fact you really should.
So from now on, try to always think about what would be most pleasant to you. Would you prefer that he carry your shopping bags or carry them yourself? Would you like it if he made you a sandwich and poured you some wine or would you prefer to do it yourself?
The most important change to make is to get rid of your inhibitions and reservations. As liberal and modern women we have sort of exchanged old-fashioned chivalry and pampering for equal rights, equal pay and all the other wonderful achievements of the feminist movement. It’s an exchange that’s well worth doing. But in a FLR there’s no reason you can’t have both. In fact you really should.
So from now on, try to always think about what would be most pleasant to you. Would you prefer that he carry your shopping bags or carry them yourself? Would you like it if he made you a sandwich and poured you some wine or would you prefer to do it yourself?
IN THE HOUSE
Once you start thinking about it there are countless ways that he can pamper you in your own house. If you’re in the proper mindset you’ll hardly need me to help you come up with examples, but let’s list a small sample of things he should do for you, just for the fun of it:
- Keep the house stocked with fresh flowers
- Buy, fetch and pour wine for you
- Let you sleep in on the weekends and days off
- Give you breakfast in bed on the weekends, with your favorite ingredients and that day’s newspaper
- Make you sandwiches, salads and other things you like
- Make you coffee or tea whenever you want it
- Rub your feet or neck while you are watching television
- Take the kids out if you want to relax
- Walk the dog, unless you feel like a nice walk
- Clean your plate after dinner
I could continue for a long time…
Similarly, you should become conscious of all the little things he can do for you when you’re out shopping, on trips, visiting friends etc.
- Bring him along so he can pay and carry your bags when you’re out shopping
- Hold open the door when you enter a restaurant or a store
- Pull out your chair and help you get seated at restaurants
- Carry suitcases and bags whenever you are on the move
- Drive you to and from places, if you don’t feel like doing it yourself
- Open the car door for you
- Bring and return clothes while you are in the changing room at a store
- Let you have the best seat
GIFTS, TRIPS AND TREATS
You should get used to receiving gifts and surprises on a regular basis:
- Flowers
- Jewelry
- Spa treatments
- Professional massages
- Trips to destinations that you like
- Cultural experiences
- Dining at fine restaurants
I hope you now have a good understanding of all the ways you can be pampered in your day-to-day life. And that’s not even counting body worship, sex and housework. Let’s learn what body worship is all about.
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