How far would you go in your cuckold relationship?

Go through the list underneath, and determine for yourself which scenario’s you’d love to turn into a reality one day, and which ones you’re not at all comfortable with. What could also be interesting and fun is to go through the list with your wife or girlfriend and be completely honest with each other about where you potentially see yourselves sexually as cuckold and hotwife in 3 to 4 years time…

A) I’d like to keep it at cuckold role-playing in the bedroom. Perhaps, somewhere down the line, it might be fun to have my woman text or chat with another man, or maybe even flirt a little with other men when we’re out together, but that’s as far as I’d be prepared to let it go.

B) I’d like to sit back and watch her have sex with another man, but only if I’m allowed to help choose the man and then watch and be present during the whole encounter.

C) I would love to see her having sex with a powerful, well built black man with a truly big, thick cock.

D) I’d like to watch her get truly intimate with her lover. Gentle, eye-to-eye love-making, with lots of continuous and deeply passionate french-kissing.

E) Ideally, I’d love my wife to completely take the reigns and have complete sexual freedom, free to choose who she has sex with, and whether she wants me in the room or not.

F) I’d love her to exclusively have sex with a long-term lover, denying me all access to her mouth and pussy for as long as they’re dating.

G) I’d welcome the idea of being permanently locked in a chastity cage, while my woman is free to have as much sex she wants with whoever she chooses.

H) I’d love to be forced to put on a pair of panties, stockings and high heels in front of my woman and her lover. I’d love to be regularly bent over and fucked with a dildo or strapon.

I) If asked, I’d give her lover a blowjob, or bend over and let him mount me if that was something my woman really wanted to witness.

J) The dream is for my woman to fall head over heels in love with one of her lovers. I’d love her to experience the heady rush of an escalating emotional connection and the incredible intensity of a growing sexual attraction to her lover.

K) I get incredibly turned on at the idea of my wife/girlfriend spending the entire night with her lover. Somewhere down the line, I’d love to help make that happen, and who knows, one day I’d possibly even consider giving them my blessing to go on a weekend away together.

L) One day, I’d love to have the courage to publicly ‘out’ myself, or be ‘outed’ as a cuckold, allowing and even encouraging her to share with her best friends and mine that I’m her loyal, devoted cuckold.

So, how far would you be prepared to let things progress in your cuckold relationship…?

Which scenario’s can you most relate to?…and which ones are completely out of the question?

Cuckold Ideas

• Play the game “A cuckolds delight”: Place hubby in permanent chastity for a full month, (uncaged once a day to be teased briefly before taking a shower). During that month, deny him any orgasms whatsoever, (possibly also require him to wear panties under his clothing), while performing any/all household chores. You on the other hand are free that month to enjoy as much leisure time as possible, whilst also experiencing as many orgasms as you want…BUT hubby’s task is not only to keep your home looking tidy, and pleasure you orally whenever you desire…there’s one more catch: in the course of that month, he’s to set you up with a minimum of 1 Bull. If the minimum target is met, he’s uncaged at the end of the month, and granted a week to use you however he pleases. If however he fails to set you up with a Bull (for whatever reason) the game is automatically prolonged by another month.
•  Kneel in front of your Bull and have hubby kneeling behind you, holding your head and hair from behind while your Bull fucks your mouth until he cums. An additional idea would be to hold all your Bull’s cum in your mouth, and pass it on to hubby during an intimate french kiss afterwards.
• Tie hubby to a chair in the bedroom, and make him watch you and your Bull have sex in the marital bed. After some intimate foreplay with french kissing, and caressing, beg your Bull out loud to fuck you. The more desperate you appear to look, the more it will drive hubby mad…
• Have hubby lay against the headboard on the bed, as you lean against him or sit on your hands and knees in front of him. Then look into hubby’s eyes, and have your Bull roughly fuck you doggy style, so that hubby can feel the power of his thrusts while looking in your eyes.
•  Tie hubby to a chair in the living room, and disappear off to the bedroom to have sex with your Bull, denying hubby the privilege of watching. After some time, take a break from fucking. Go out into the living room where hubby’s wating, hair a mess, makeup smeared, and have a glass of water. Say hi to your hubby, walk over to him and give him a french kiss. Then, grin at him mischievously, go back to the bedroom, close the door and lock it.
• Give your Bull a blowjob in a semi-public place while hubby stands guard (under a bridge, in an underground car park, on a reasonably deserted beach, etc) For the more advanced hot-wives, arrange to meet your Bull at the beach, and have sex on the sand at night while hubby stands lookout.
• Spend time socializing with your Bull for 10 to 15 minutes in the living room, before any action, and while everybody is still fully dressed. Perhaps put on a porn movie to set the tone a bit. While socializing, or watching the movie, sit next to your Bull, kissing, teasing, stroking, unbuttoning and treating him like a new boyfriend while hubby watches.
• Have hubby beg your Bull to fuck you. Have him beg your Bull to give you what he hasn’t been able to all these years. Demand him to say it out loud. At this stage, it’s all about humiliation. Make fun of hubby’s cock and sex skills in front of your Bull (“You see this…this is how a real man, with a real cock fucks a woman,…etc”)
•  Go to a restaurant together with hubby and your Bull. While waiting for the main meal, take your Bull out to the car or restaurant bathroom area for a quick sex session (fucking or blowjob) then return to the table in time to enjoy your meal together. Make a point of kissing hubby on the lips when you return in order to confuse all the waiters and other guests.
• Take off your wedding ring, and have hubby take off his wedding ring, and lay them both on your stomach or chest, side by side…while your Bull is fucking you. Then have your Bull pull out and cum over both rings. Have hubby put both his and your ring back on full of your Bulls cum.
•  Make a point of arranging that hubby drive you and your Bull around for half an hour while you and him make out in the back seat. For the more advanced hot-wives, at some point, make your husband drive you and your Bull to a motel while you and your Bull both make out a bit in the back seat. Then, once you’ve arrived, check –in with your Bull and make hubby sit in the car and wait until you’re done fucking your Bull in the motel, whenever that is. Alternatively, have hubby drive you to your Bulls house for sex. Then make him wait in your Bulls living room while you’re taken to the bedroom to get fucked.
•  Have your Bull spend the evening at your place. Once going off to bed with hubby, arrange with your Bull that at 4am, he is permitted to slip into your marital bed (awakening both you and hubby), then crawl between your legs and fuck you right beside hubby. For the more advanced hot-wives, have hubby sleep in the guest room, and spend the evening in the marital bed with your Bull. When doing this, go visit hubby once an hour in the guestroom, so that he can touch, taste and smell the sex on your body. On your last visit, request that hubby wake you and your Bull up with breakfast standing ready.
• Make hubby wear women’s clothing, make-up and a wig and sit watching while your Bull fucks you. His task for the night is to be your Bulls personal maid, fetching drinks or snacks if necessary.
• Put your husband in chastity while your Bull is over, and have your Bull wear the key around his neck as he fucks you. For the more advanced hot-wives, have your Bull take the key back home with him, and hold onto it until the next time he comes over. Hubby stays in chastity until that next time, so it’s in hubby’s best interest that that next time comes sooner rather than later.
• Put your husband in chastity, tie him to a chair, and have him watch your Bull fuck you. Afterwards, with hubby still strapped to the chair, have your Bull cum all over hubby’s chastity cage and cock while you watch on smiling. 
• Make hubby go outside and clean your Bulls car, inside and out, while your Bull fucks you in the marital bed. As an alternative, have hubby take your Bulls car to the carwash and pay to have it cleaned inside and out, while your Bull fucks you in the marital bed.
• Have your Bull bend you over his knee and beg him to spank your bare bottom red in front of hubby. (I’m a very naughty girl, please spank me daddy) Even if it hurts, let it continue for longer than you’re ‘comfortable’ with, before finally begging your Bull to fuck you to ease the stinging. (Please, I can’t take it anymore,…please fuck me, please, I’m begging you…) This is especially effective if hubby is not permitted or encouraged to spank your bottom.
• Get into a position where you are able to intimately kiss hubby, while your Bull fucks you. Keep the kissing going until your Bull cums inside of you. For maximum effect, when you hear your Bull is cumming, moan out loud along with him while still trying to kiss hubby.
•  Have hubby put his face inches away from your pussy while your Bull fucks you, then tell him to masturbate while doing so. For the more advanced hot-wives, have your Bull cum in your pussy, or on your chest if you use condoms, and have hubby lick everything clean. An alternate idea is to have the Bull pull out and cum on hubby’s face or in his open mouth.
•  When giving your Bull a blowjob, have hubby come sit right next to you. Alternate between intimately sucking your Bulls cock, and intimately French kissing hubby with some verbal teasing (Can you taste/smell his cock on my lips? Here, taste what a real mans cock tastes like, etc)
• For the advanced hot-wife, after five minutes of doing the above, grab hubby by the hair, and force his mouth down gently onto your Bulls cock, ordering him to get your Bull nice and hard before he fucks you.
• Have hubby get your Bull hard by giving him a blowjob. Then have your Bull fuck hubby up the ass. For the more advanced hot-wives, keep hubby in chastity for one week prior to meeting up with your Bull. Remove the chastity cage when the time comes for your Bull to fuck hubby up the ass. If hubby ejaculates before your Bull is done, that would be great, as he has to endure the humiliation of having your Bull continue to fuck him after he’s cum. If he doesn’t, and your Bull cums first, then lock his cock back up in chastity without being permitted to cum. Do not release him from chastity until the next time he puts his ass up for your Bull.
• Take photos and video of hubby sucking other men’s cocks, and getting fucked up the ass by lots of other men, then have him put a copy of all the footage on a USB stick that you keep securely. Tease him by threatening to show his closest friends and family all the footage if he ever steps out of line.
• Consider getting a “Queen of Spades” tattoo (or something symbolizing your love of black cock) put somewhere on your body. This will ensure hubby is constantly reminded of his role as your cuckold, as well as attracting attention from any black Bulls you happen to come across…
•  Convince hubby to get some sort of ‘cuckold’ or ‘owned by…’ tattoo put somewhere on his body. Even if it’s something symbolic, have him make it permanent on his body to remind him that once a cuckold, always a cuckold.

Add Panties for a Dose of Humiliation with Male Chastity

Let me say right off the bat that I understand this isn’t for everyone. Humiliation doesn’t have to be a part of chastity play and I know plenty of you aren’t into it. Some of you are though and you know it can be the most intoxicating, arousing experience when your girl goes all in and makes your fantasies come true.

If your man wants a dose of feminization and humiliation to go with his chastity play then you need to get him a pair of panties. Something especially feminine or slutty is a good choice, like this pair of leopard print panties with lace trim. Make him put them on over his locked cock and present himself to you.

Hopefully you’ll know what kind of humiliation he’s into and you can tailor your response because verbal teasing makes it so much more effective. Tell him he looks good in his pretty panties. Tell him he looks good enough to fuck. If he likes bisexual teasing then ask him if he wants a cock in the pussy hidden behind those panties. You get the idea. You’ll have to experiment to hit the sweet spot, but putting him in panties is a great way to deepen his submission and add a dose of humiliation that will make him love you even more.

WHY I CUCKOLD MY HUSBAND? BECAUSE I LIKE IT.

The politically correct answer would be: “My husband is a cuckold, because that is what he is longing for and because he wants me to lead him to a deeper submission. If he wouldn’t, I wouldn’t do it.”

The answer is correct, and forms part of the reason why I began doing it, but I have to admit, in the presend I make my husband a cuckold because I like it.

I love making love with a man, and I love that my husband does not have the right to have the same priviledges as I have. I admit. I love meeting men, the whole process from the beginning of the meeting until the conclusion. I love my husband and I keep him up to date of things, because I love his support and his deepening submission, I love it when he feels the humiliation, and because I think it’s the role of man in a marriage.

It is part of who I am, what I believe. It is not a game but a way of life, and a statement.

As I said, I love the whole process. I like to flirt, seduce, be seduced by a beautiful man. I like to be asked out on a date. I like to tease my husband about my encounters. I like it when my husband helps me prepare for a new appointment.

I like to go out. I love the game, and to test a man. I like the kiss (the first kiss!), the first caress, to be in
his arms, and yes, I love sex! I like to see my husband before and after, shy, tormented, or otherwise confused. I love this power I feel, and I like what it gives me, and above all I like what it does to my husband.

And I can tell you, you do not know how it feels to really control a man until he is a cuckold, your cuckold, who knows and who is kept chaste throughout the process.

The cuckolding process is so much more then having sex. It is liberating and by allowing it my husband accepts his subservient position. It is a total power exchange of the husband submitting to the dominant female.

It is neither swinging nor wife swapping. It doesn’t happen because my husband craves for it. I would have stopped after the first try. I continued because it increases my pleasure, and because I feel like it. I enjoy every minute of it. Meanwhile, my husband exists to serve me. Everything is for my pleasure, and the frustration of my husband forms part of the pleasure.

It was my husband who brought it up, more then once. He had to convince me. Before I decided to give it a try, I told my husband that if we would do it, it might be permanent. And indeed. There is no way back.

This hits right at the core of what is both exciting and scary as hell to be a cuckold!

10 ingredients for taming your sub, results guaranteed… by mschristined

This post is a result of variety of questions I’ve been asked via e-mail.

Is it possible to achieve the unconditional obedience by your sub? Is it possible to shape him to fit your ideas and avoid any possible topping from the bottom?

Yes it is and these are 10 essential ingredients, like it or not.

1. CHASTITY

Lock his genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure he is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, his body parts become your property and he is unable to play with himself, which ALL men do.

2. INSPECTIONS

This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to his mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.

3. ROUTINES

Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which he will show his respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.

4. DISCIPLINE

This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. He doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.

5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL

Having and keeping his balls full will ensure his full attention towards you. It will make him beg and it will make him soft on his mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.

6. RUINED ORGASMS

Your sub needs to cum and he will do anything to cum. You will allow him to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away his right to have that pleasure. Ruin his orgasms often and make him thank you. In time you could easily have him pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.

7. HUMILIATION

As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. He needs it, he wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes him more humble.

Then humiliate some more, subtly.

8. USE HIM, MAKE HIM FEEL USED

Sub men like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use him for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard him. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.

9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING

Chastising your sub is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make him your bitch, bring out his feminine side. Bringing out his feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy. A pair of panties will also do the trick nicely.


10. SUB CUCKOLD - DOM HOTWIFE TYPE RELATIONSHIP

If you are interested in this setup, then you already know everything. However, even if you are not interested, even if any kind of cheating repulses you and you just won’t do it ever…still, such a setup is very effective when it comes to humbling and taming your submissive. Cuckolding is 99% male fetish and they are the ones who usually initiate it. Why? I suppose being a cuckold is an ultimate way of submitting to a woman. So, I strongly advise to make such a setup, even if you will never use such privilege. Initiate talking about it, insist on semi-open relationship in which you have the right to cheat, and your sub remains a faithful doggy. In chastity. Wear that anklet, yes. Being flirted with by other men is always a nice thing for a lady :)

Provoke him by sending pics of the anklet whenever you are not together. Tease him about other men flirting with you when you are away. Tell him it is so hard to resist this option. It will for sure make him insane with lust.

CLF

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p.s. - do not be afraid of loosing the essential emotion with your sub. After all it was all his idea at the first place, he will just love & worship you more and more and more…

Fuck him again and again…

Fuck him again and again…

A strap-on cock can be a great tool to use while cuckolding your husband.
Nothing quite says, “You’re my bitch” like fucking him hard in the ass. Buy one that you are comfortable with then bring it home and show your husband. Tell him, “Since I am the head of the house now, I figure I should have a cock to fuck you with.”

If you really have a need to get fucked, you can put the strap-on on him, over his penis. Then you can either ride him or have him on top. Doing this will satisfy you while driving him completely insane because all the other sensations of sex will be there. He’ll be able to smell the sex in the air, he’ll feel your hot body, and sense the passion in your orgasms, but he won’t be able to feel anything down there. This will leave him extremely horny, frustrated, and make sure you are clear on whether or not he is allowed to cum.

In a FemDom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. In my opinion, several times a week.
And it may be a challenge to induce him. He may try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him. Be sexy, persistent and fuck him.

He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them!
Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like fucking his ass. Inconvenience him and fuck him. Enjoy it!

With the pegging practice you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Soothe his feedback. Reward will come soon. You want him to equate being fucked by you, i.e. being your bitch, to being a pleasurable experience. When you fuck him, make sure you use plenty of lube.

Sometimes the “Macho” side of him may want to prevail. Let him beg to not be fucked but gently, persuasively, and persistently override his anxiety. This is not negotiable. Make lite of his requests, and fuck him. He may resist due to being identified as “gay”… He will always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail.
Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to subside, and the same adjustment will happen physically as he will start to accept you for his pleasure.

The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it.
He will soon understand that he does not control anything not even his penis he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he cannot have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.

Happy Fetish!

The Submissive Male.

Lets take a step back for a moment and take a look at what a submissive male actually is. Not all men are meant to be submissive, however, there are many that either, know they are, or are curious about it. There are also many, that if exposed to the idea of submission, would be curious to explore it as it calls to them deep within. The reason we don’t see too many openly submissive males in society is because there is a very big taboo against them that instantly makes them feel like it’s wrong to express that they have submissive desires with their partners. Often, the moment they do, their partner gets the wrong idea, they can jump to many different conclusions that may or may not be true, but they shut it down before discovering what it really means.

One of those conclusions, is that he is gay or weak, and wants to wear women’s clothes and be a sissy. This is a very common mindset that many men and women automatically have, when it has nothing to do with being gay, and quite possibly nothing to do with wearing women’s clothes or being a sissy. First of all, there is a big misunderstanding about whats makes a person gay, and what doesn’t. Being gay, has only 1 trait, and only 1, and that is, if they are attracted to, and want a relationship with the same sex and not the opposite sex. That’s it. Everything else, including a male wanting to engage in anal play, is not gay, wearing women’s clothes, is not gay. Yes, its different, might seem a little strange to those who have never explored sexuality, but it’s not gay. So drop that idea right now.

Second, the idea that submission is weak is also wrong. For a male to admit that he has submissive tendencies, and who chooses to put her desires before his own, is far from weak. Weak is rapists and those who lack self control. A submissive man must be strong in order to submit, he must give up control to someone else, and that takes bravery and courage, and if he is accepted by his partner, it greatly enhances intimacy and allows him to actually be more of the man he is, because he can finally express himself the way he naturally is. That takes strength.

Third, not all submissive males, are into wearing women’s clothes, and prefer to remain masculine. Yes, there are some submissive men that do desire to wear women’s clothes, and instead of judging them, ask them why they want to, ask them what it is that draws them to it. They do it because they want to explore their feminine side, they are curious about women, and they want to understand them, and by wearing her clothes, he can get an idea of what it’s like, it generates understanding for him. He may also enjoy wearing women’s clothes because they can be incredibly comfy compared to male clothes, different materials, skin hugging, can stimulate his libido, which makes him feel more in touch with his body, which is where that understanding comes from. It brings him in touch with his feminine side, and as a result, he learns more, and gets to take a break from uncomfortable masculine clothes that really don’t promote getting in touch with his body.

It’s important to understand the submissive nature that some males have. It is not something that they have control over. They can suppress it yes, but it is still a need that they will always want to fulfill with their partner. For many men in relationships where their partner is not open to it, they resign themselves to a mediocre sex life with a constant longing for more. It is a part of who he is, at his core, it’s not something that he can just forget about. Which is why it is so essential for his partner to at least be open to exploring it a little bit, than to shut it down without another word, based on opinions and judgements that society has instilled. When a partner opens up to this core need of his, the relationship flows smoother and both partners become happier as a result, as it greatly enhances their sex lives, in ways they may not have imagined, as the idea of D/s evolves by personal touch over time.

There are many different types of submissive males, which can range from rather mild, to rather extreme. However, if his partner understands that his core need is to submit, she soon discovers, that she can control how mild or how extreme things will get, and when that is realized, the true potential, and realization of what D/s is all about emerges. When sexuality is explored like this in a D/s relationship, there is a great sense of freedom, a sort of liberation, that can come from no where else. The ability to express submission, or domination, enables both partners to explore their desire, rather than conquer it, and that brings fulfillment and intimacy, and connection, as mentioned in previous lessons.

So ladies, when your partner suggests to you that he is submissive, at least, let him explain himself, and perhaps entertain the idea until you decide if you like it or not. Ask questions! Even if you find that it’s not for you, he will very much appreciate your efforts, and that alone will help the whole relationship, as communication is open, and there are no secret desires hiding in the background. Sometimes we just have to push beyond the opinions and views society wants us to have, and discover our own. Submissive males, just dream of women open enough to at least listen.