When she says “ass”

Be considerate. Be not selfish. When she says “ass”, it means ass only and nothing else! When she wants something else, she will tell you!

Just where male tongues belong, including mine! And, when a Woman has you worshipping Her Ass, She doesn’t have to hear you talk!

Femdom and a Leash

A slave collar is like a badge of honor, attaching a simple leash to the collar however, transforms it into one of the most humbling tools I can think of. From honorable sub to sloppy dog in three seconds flat. It doesn’t really matter if the leash is made of leather, metal, rope or the tiniest thread: from a slave’s point of view it’s unbreakable.

However, there’s a big difference of course between being collared and leashed in the safety of a room or wearing it outdoors. The former is as innocent as a baby shower, the latter is utterly humiliating.

Rules Regarding Pubic Hair on Submissive Men

1. The Submissive man must endeavor to embody all that it feminine and submissive. Simply put: hair is masculine, hairless is feminine. And he must be feminine.
2. Pubic hair serves to conceal a man’s genitals – a form of modesty not permitted. He must be exposed and fully naked.
3. Having no pubic hair is undoubtedly slutty – being smooth and hairless leaves little doubt that you are a sexual being and groomed for submission. 
4. Licking hair doesn’t work well – prefer licking skin. 
5. Exposing pubic hair in low cut clothing is seen as inappropriate and even illegal where exposing the same skin without hair is legal.
6. Aesthetics: No hair looks way way sexier and more pleasing to the eye.
7. Effort: it takes more effort and daily attention to keep completely hairless… and daily duties ensure his mind is focused.
8. Messing up and having hair is a fantastic excuse to harshly punish a man. Because it takes constant attention – failing in any degree greater than a bit of stubble will ensure the harshest of punishment.
9. Hairless boy’s seem cleaner and less smelly.
10. Completely shaved is easiest to maintain and judge – his has very clear orders: no hair. Very simple for him.

Vulnerability and Pegging…

Men are not used to receiving and being penetrated. There is a vulnerability and openness inherent in penetration that is completely new to men. Women are quite familiar with the feeling of being penetrated during sex…

For men it’s a whole new deal. And that level of vulnerability can be pretty scary, surprising, and amazing all at once. Often that vulnerability is part of the turn-on for men, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it is easy for a man to go to that space or that it is comfortable for him to be seen there…

Being able to trust that the woman understands this role reversal and will not suddenly judge him when he softens and receives helps him to more fully relax and allow that vulnerability to happen…

It’s not that I love pain.

What I love is that You are giving it to me. I love knowing that I have consented to this. I love having the physical evidence of that on my body. I want to see it, and feel it, and be reminded of it as often as possible. You are the one that marks me.

What I love is being yours. All yours. Not just the parts I understand, but the parts of me that I have no explanation, the parts I cannot rationalize. I don’t know why I am the way I am, and I don’t expect you to know either. So let’s revel in the deepest, thoughtless, most animal way possible the mystery of our togetherness. Please, claim me as your favorite fucktoy. Train me to be your perfect pleasure. Reduce me to an object of your most basic desire.

Let me feel things no one else can make me feel.

“not today”

Any strong relationship depends on keeping both yourself and your partner happy. Instead of playing the role of helpless sub and expecting your partner to be a strict unrelenting force of nature, just be true to your desires. If you enjoy being denied, smile and thank your lover when she says “not today.” You’re climbing up the walls desperate to cum? Don’t beg for release, but instead thank them for teasing you thus far.

Safeword

• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.

• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.

• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.

• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.

• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.

Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.

Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.

Female Led Relationship

1. Use but never abuse
2. Be dominant 24/7 but do not dominate 24/7
3. Move or remove boundaries but do not rush with it
4. Discover new things, use the net as it is full of ideas
5. Play a lot, especially when he is not expecting it
6. Humiliate lightly, but intensify in time
7. love your submissive for what he is, make sure you let him know often
8. Enslave your man but never turn him into a doormat
9. Share your experience(s) with the world, especially with other women
10. Enjoy