Hand Signals for Slave Men

Silent commands increase the awe, which a slave man feels for his Mistress Owner. Unspoken control augments of aura of superiority.

It can also make him feel like a pet doing tricks to please her. How she gestures can be either soothing or intimidating.

Instant obedience to hand signals gives the slave a chance to prove that he has taken his training seriously.

Control Gestures for Submissive Males

A busy dominant woman may not be in the mood to listen to her submissive male chatter. However much she cherishes the silly male the may need or desire complete silence. To calm down from her demanding executive job. To make plans. Or merely to drift peacefully within herself.

Hand signals for submissive men are great aids during periods of enforced quiet.

The submissive man can memorize the signals shown below. Others can be added signifying “Bring me a drink.” Or “Fix a snack.”

What would you add?

Protocols for Lifestyle Slaves - Slave Deportment & Behavior Rules

I will be sharing the protocols normally reserved for 24/7 submissives and slaves. Some of these will be fairly standard and have been taken from erotic fiction but some of these are very unique to the owner and should show you that deciding what the rules and protocols are should be the owner’s decision. I will be breaking up the requirements in different categories and in some instances, when something is clear I will not even use further explanation. It is my hope that this guide will help you enhance your submissive or slave’s service to you.

In private/ At home with no one else present:

• Slave should always remove clothing as soon as she/he gets home unless Mistress has laid out clothing for the slave or submissive to wear.
• Slave should fold clothes neatly or place them in the laundry whenever he/ she gets undressed.
• The slave or submissive is to kneel in present posture whenever the Mistress is due to arrive and wait quietly.
• Whenever the Mistress is present in a room, the slave must ask permission to enter in the following fashion: “Would it please you if your slave entered the room.”
• The slave will kneel in the room until the Mistress gives permission that he or she may move or proceed with cleaning.
• The slave or submissive will wear and gratefully accept any toys the Mistress chooses to insert or adorn her or him with while cleaning or in any other circumstance.
• The slave will not speak unless spoken to and may request an opportunity to speak if there is something pressing to discuss during those periods of time when the Mistress commands silence.
• The slave or submissive may request an opportunity to serve the Dominant in the following way: “Would it please you to have your slave serve you?”
• The slave does not sleep with the Mistress unless it is the express wish of the owner and then this must be seen as a privilege. It can be taken away as a form of punishment.
• The slave or submissive will always thank the Mistress for an opportunity to serve whether it was doing a chore or being flogged.
• The slave will keep their eyes averted unless it is the wish of the Mistress to have their slave look them in the eyes.
• The slave will address the Mistress not by their first name, but by the title preferred by that dominant.

In public/ At home with others present:

• A slave will receive visitors at the door with whatever clothing the Master or Mistress commanded.
• A slave will greet visitors in whatever way the Mistress commands – this may include just taking coats and putting them away, kissing the hand of the guest or kneeling in front of them.
• A slave will not refer to anyone using his or her first name. A slave will use the title Sir or Ma’am combined with their name to differentiate and to make sure that he or she remembers her or his place.
• A slave will serve every person with food and drinks as requested, kneeling to each as the food or drinks are presented.
• A slave will not use furniture and will kneel on the floor until her or his services are required.
• A slave will not speak unless spoken to.
• A slave will remain attentive to make sure that no one has to ask for additional food or drink. A slave should be ready before the command is issued.
• A slave must use high protocol when commanded to do so. This means that the slave will not use first person language when referring to him or herself and will address everyone present with the honorific given to those free.

Bathroom training:

• A slave must always ask permission before using the bathroom or taking a shower.
• The bathroom door may never be closed in private, as a slave has no right to privacy.
• The slave must accept it calmly when the owner decides that a bathroom break will not be allowed at that very moment.

Punishment/ Discipline:

• Punishment and or discipline take precedence over any other command.
• A slave must show gratitude for punishment and or discipline.
• A slave must take correction gracefully and maintain a grateful presence around the house after the fact.
• A slave must confess to disobedience and take responsibility even when the dominant is not present and beg for punishment and or discipline.
• A slave must always maintain the punishment position in these cases.

Sexual Service:

• The slave must be available for sexual service whenever the dominant or his guests require it.
• The slave must always be ready for any form of sexual service, which would mean that her or his body must be prepared in order to make it easy for the dominant or guests to use him or her.
• The slave will not be allowed to have an orgasm without permission.
• The slave will shave any body hair and maintain this at all times. Failure to do so will result in punishment.
• The slave will be clean and pleasant to all the senses at all times.

The slave is not allowed to touch her or his owner’s property without permission in any sexual way.

These are but a few of the requirements that some slaves live by. The list is extensive and could be lengthened quite easily. It is always a good idea to have requirements regarding online privileges and privacy, interaction with others not in the lifestyle, which would include hand signals etc. In the end it is the decision of the dominant what this list would include.

What is a golden shower? Everything you need to know about watersports

What is a golden shower? A golden shower (also known as watersports) is an act of fetish play where someone will urinate on another person. That can be directly, or poured into a glass and poured onto them. Usually it’s urinating direct from body onto a person. That sounds messy It can be but generally when I’m performing one I do it in a bath tub. Some people spread a tarp on the floor but pee can go everywhere. Sometimes people will want to combine pee drinking with it – that reduces the mess.

Are there different types? There can be a lot of things combined with it – humiliation, or you can have it in a specific area like the face. Some people will combine peeing with oral worship or play (administering oral sex at the same time). Other people will just want to watch the peeing.

Why do people like golden showers? Sometimes it’s a humiliation thing – pee is associated with dirty things, private things. Also there’s the senory aspect to it – it’s warm, it’s part of a person, there’s that intimacy and sense of connection. Some people just like the taste or smell. Some people pick things up in their formative years.

How popular are they? Golden showers are quite a popular fetish – I get a lot of requests for them, so do a lot of sex workers. I can do it because I work from home and have a big bath tub.

Are they unhygienic? No – the cool thing is it’s quite a clean way to play with the idea of dirtiness. Common wisdom suggests that pee is sterile when it leaves the body, but that’s not actually true. All substances from our bodies contain bacteria – ideally natural, good flora that keeps it healthy rather than the bad sort. Plus the urine will be further contaminated as it passes the skin on the way out of the body. However, unless you have some sort of infection, the levels of bacteria we are talking about are low. Are they safe? Golden showers are no more unsafe than any other sort of sexual contact. But you should avoid them if you have, for example, a urinary tract infection, a bladder infection, a yeast infection or HPV – that just makes sense. Like any other fluid bonded play it’s worth being careful. As a sex worker I regularly get tested even though I don’t have sex with my clients. Peeing is generally a low-risk activity.

Training the Male to Bottom

Under Femdomarchy, a man learns that his anus is a sex organ. If the Domme locks him in perpetual chastity then his anus becomes his primary sex organ.

A kindly Mistress Owner may opt to make her slave man’s anal training slow and comparatively gentle.

She will begin with a small anal insertable. Perhaps a tiny dildo. Some Mistress Owners may employ fruit and vegetables. She may work his rectum with produce ranging from a carrot to a large cucumber.

Whatever the procedure, the goal is to prepare the slave man to become the bottom in sex. He will service his Mistress Owner’s strap-on dildo. Gender role reversal of a sort. Since anal sex has the bogus stigma of being humiliating, it may also dampen any false masculine pride the subservient male retains.

Coating a butt plug or dildo with capsaicin or wintergreen oil is an excellent punitive procedure.

Perhaps you have some anal training stories to share.

Regular Humiliation Training

He Burns With Shame & Submission

Men are innately rebellious. All male slaves need training to maintain a humble mind and obsequious demeanor.

Consistent, regular humiliation is the primary tool for inducing and maintaining humility. Mistress Owner will shame her slave man at least once daily.

Drinking her urine is an easy form of humiliation training. Whenever she needs to urinate, she can summon her slave man to drink her pee.

As his Mistress Owner watches him at this humble task, he will burn with shame and submission.

Mistress is Your Teacher

Lessons in Submission

Mistress Owner teaches you many lessons. You learn things you never knew about yourself. Truths you suspected, she enables you to understand.

She trains you in the ways of submission and humility. Without her guidance, you would not fulfill your role as her servitor. You would not know the proper way of worshiping her as the Supreme Being in your life.

Accept your Mistress Owner’s many lessons. Embrace her truths.

Her tutelage will guide you into honest slavery. You will fulfill your natural role as women’s inferior.

Show her that you that you take your education in slavery seriously. Be mindful to remember all that she tells you.

Properly trained you will serve her well. The satisfaction of being a good slave will carry you through your life.

Branded Slave Man

Submissive men often dream of bearing Mistress’s mark.

Branding is an option. Her symbols or initials burnt into the male’s skin. Properly done there is no pain. The hot iron touches skin for a fraction of a second. The surface nerves die before transmitting pain.

Being branded may seem thrilling but be too frightening.

Many slave men were Owner’s tattoos now. Mistress paints her property’s body. Having a whole human canvas to paint allows her free reign. When she sees her tattooed slave’s body, she can relish how she has remade him.

Collars and necks chains can be a symbolic link to the Domme.

The symbolic expression outweighs the specific act.