Fuck him again and again…

Fuck him again and again…

A strap-on cock can be a great tool to use while cuckolding your husband.
Nothing quite says, “You’re my bitch” like fucking him hard in the ass. Buy one that you are comfortable with then bring it home and show your husband. Tell him, “Since I am the head of the house now, I figure I should have a cock to fuck you with.”

If you really have a need to get fucked, you can put the strap-on on him, over his penis. Then you can either ride him or have him on top. Doing this will satisfy you while driving him completely insane because all the other sensations of sex will be there. He’ll be able to smell the sex in the air, he’ll feel your hot body, and sense the passion in your orgasms, but he won’t be able to feel anything down there. This will leave him extremely horny, frustrated, and make sure you are clear on whether or not he is allowed to cum.

In a FemDom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. In my opinion, several times a week.
And it may be a challenge to induce him. He may try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him. Be sexy, persistent and fuck him.

He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them!
Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like fucking his ass. Inconvenience him and fuck him. Enjoy it!

With the pegging practice you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Soothe his feedback. Reward will come soon. You want him to equate being fucked by you, i.e. being your bitch, to being a pleasurable experience. When you fuck him, make sure you use plenty of lube.

Sometimes the “Macho” side of him may want to prevail. Let him beg to not be fucked but gently, persuasively, and persistently override his anxiety. This is not negotiable. Make lite of his requests, and fuck him. He may resist due to being identified as “gay”… He will always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail.
Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to subside, and the same adjustment will happen physically as he will start to accept you for his pleasure.

The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it.
He will soon understand that he does not control anything not even his penis he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he cannot have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.

Happy Fetish!

The Submissive Male.

Lets take a step back for a moment and take a look at what a submissive male actually is. Not all men are meant to be submissive, however, there are many that either, know they are, or are curious about it. There are also many, that if exposed to the idea of submission, would be curious to explore it as it calls to them deep within. The reason we don’t see too many openly submissive males in society is because there is a very big taboo against them that instantly makes them feel like it’s wrong to express that they have submissive desires with their partners. Often, the moment they do, their partner gets the wrong idea, they can jump to many different conclusions that may or may not be true, but they shut it down before discovering what it really means.

One of those conclusions, is that he is gay or weak, and wants to wear women’s clothes and be a sissy. This is a very common mindset that many men and women automatically have, when it has nothing to do with being gay, and quite possibly nothing to do with wearing women’s clothes or being a sissy. First of all, there is a big misunderstanding about whats makes a person gay, and what doesn’t. Being gay, has only 1 trait, and only 1, and that is, if they are attracted to, and want a relationship with the same sex and not the opposite sex. That’s it. Everything else, including a male wanting to engage in anal play, is not gay, wearing women’s clothes, is not gay. Yes, its different, might seem a little strange to those who have never explored sexuality, but it’s not gay. So drop that idea right now.

Second, the idea that submission is weak is also wrong. For a male to admit that he has submissive tendencies, and who chooses to put her desires before his own, is far from weak. Weak is rapists and those who lack self control. A submissive man must be strong in order to submit, he must give up control to someone else, and that takes bravery and courage, and if he is accepted by his partner, it greatly enhances intimacy and allows him to actually be more of the man he is, because he can finally express himself the way he naturally is. That takes strength.

Third, not all submissive males, are into wearing women’s clothes, and prefer to remain masculine. Yes, there are some submissive men that do desire to wear women’s clothes, and instead of judging them, ask them why they want to, ask them what it is that draws them to it. They do it because they want to explore their feminine side, they are curious about women, and they want to understand them, and by wearing her clothes, he can get an idea of what it’s like, it generates understanding for him. He may also enjoy wearing women’s clothes because they can be incredibly comfy compared to male clothes, different materials, skin hugging, can stimulate his libido, which makes him feel more in touch with his body, which is where that understanding comes from. It brings him in touch with his feminine side, and as a result, he learns more, and gets to take a break from uncomfortable masculine clothes that really don’t promote getting in touch with his body.

It’s important to understand the submissive nature that some males have. It is not something that they have control over. They can suppress it yes, but it is still a need that they will always want to fulfill with their partner. For many men in relationships where their partner is not open to it, they resign themselves to a mediocre sex life with a constant longing for more. It is a part of who he is, at his core, it’s not something that he can just forget about. Which is why it is so essential for his partner to at least be open to exploring it a little bit, than to shut it down without another word, based on opinions and judgements that society has instilled. When a partner opens up to this core need of his, the relationship flows smoother and both partners become happier as a result, as it greatly enhances their sex lives, in ways they may not have imagined, as the idea of D/s evolves by personal touch over time.

There are many different types of submissive males, which can range from rather mild, to rather extreme. However, if his partner understands that his core need is to submit, she soon discovers, that she can control how mild or how extreme things will get, and when that is realized, the true potential, and realization of what D/s is all about emerges. When sexuality is explored like this in a D/s relationship, there is a great sense of freedom, a sort of liberation, that can come from no where else. The ability to express submission, or domination, enables both partners to explore their desire, rather than conquer it, and that brings fulfillment and intimacy, and connection, as mentioned in previous lessons.

So ladies, when your partner suggests to you that he is submissive, at least, let him explain himself, and perhaps entertain the idea until you decide if you like it or not. Ask questions! Even if you find that it’s not for you, he will very much appreciate your efforts, and that alone will help the whole relationship, as communication is open, and there are no secret desires hiding in the background. Sometimes we just have to push beyond the opinions and views society wants us to have, and discover our own. Submissive males, just dream of women open enough to at least listen.

What will she feel when she wears a dildo?

For many women, being on the giving end of dildo sex is not so much about their own pleasure, but about pleasing their partners. Sex is not just about your own orgasm, it is about the shared energy between two people.

Some people are more givers (or tops) and others like to receive (bottoms). It can be quite a turn-on to look into your lover’s eyes and see her passion and excitement, the intense feeling that you are giving her. For some women, that is all they want out of sex, to know that their partner is satisfied.

The biggest pleasure can be knowing that you’re pleasing your partner.

That doesn’t mean that women can’t experience physical pleasure from wearing a strap-on, though. Depending on how turned on she gets and the position of the dildo, women can and do have orgasms when penetrating their partner with a strap-on dildo. The friction from the base of the dildo or the strap can be adequate stimulation for a woman to achieve orgasm. Each woman’s anatomy is a little different and different women require different levels of friction, pressure and vibration to experience orgasm.

Humiliating things to do to your male sub

• Make your man eat his own cum
• Make your man orgasm and shoot his cum onto your strap on. Spread it around, use it as lube, and fuck his ass hard
• Make your man orgasm and shoot his cum onto your strap on. Spread it around, and then make him deep throat it, and suck and lick it all up until the strap on is clean
• Make your man cum into an ice cube tray several times, until he has enough to make a cum cube. When he is disobedient, make him suck on the cum cube until it is gone
• Or stick the cum cube up his ass until it has melted
• Make your man cum onto your asshole, and then lick it all up
• Make a home date day, and dress your man up in wig, makeup, stockings, and heels, and make him your maid for the day
• Get a suction cup dildo and mount on hard floor, bend him over and fuck him in the ass while you push his head up and down on the cock. Make him your cock whore
• Face fuck him with your strap on, by holding on to his ears, and plowing into him with force so that you are causing him to gag
• Invite a girlfriend over for a night of torment to show your friend how to train a man

10 Commandments of Compulsory Chastity

1. As your owner, owns every part of you he is entitled to determine which bits are used and when. Your owner therefore has the right to secure your genitals in any sort of chastity device of his choosing whenever he likes and for whatever period he likes.

2. Your owner does not require any reason or justification to lock you in a chastity device. The fact that he wants to is reason enough. Whether you do or don’t want his to is irrelevant. You gave him the right to make the choice for you.

3. You may not attempt to remove or circumvent any device with which you owner fits you. You are obliged to co-operate with your owner in the fitting of the device, help him in the securing of your genitals and draw his attention to any shortcomings in the functioning of the device so that he may ensure that it performs as he intends. An attempt to remove the device will and should be harshly punished.

4. You must keep yourself clean and well cared for so that the wearing of the device is not impeded on health grounds and you can continue to be locked up for as long as he wants. This includes submitting to prostate milking to keep you clean internally.

5. Your owner has locked up your genitals to deprive you of the ability to play with yourself, attain erection or orgasm. They are no longer for your pleasure: they’re for his. You’re wants and needs are no longer relevant.

If trying to get erect causes you discomfort, then don’t do it!

6. You are obliged to keep your owner informed of your experiences in wearing your device. You should look at and touch the locked up area regularly to remind yourself of what you used to be able to use and enjoy,

Which he has locked away from you. Let him know how that makes you feel. He enjoys hearing about your suffering. If he does not you will soon be fitted with a gag to stop your pathetic whining.

7. Your owner is entitled to tease you about your lack of ability to attain an erection or gain any satisfaction. He has taken it away from you and wants to enjoy his power over you. He can get satisfaction whenever he wants: you can’t. Tough. In future many of your duties will include giving him such pleasure, whether through your cunt hole or your mouth.

8. He probably finds your lock up amusing. You are not entitled to have your neutered status kept secret. He may decide to inform your friends, boss, or family as he see fit, or just random strangers in the street. If he wants to show off your condition, he can and will.

You are no longer a man, but a chastity bitch, you exist for his pleasure in whatever form he decides to take it in.

9. Your owner is entitled to stimulate you by exposure to erotic material, direct contact or otherwise so that he can enjoy the fact you gain only discomfort, not pleasure from it. You Will never touch your unlocked pathetic excuse for a cock again, from now you will be bound with your arms behind your back when ever you are unlocked for cleaning or to shave off your pubic hair. You will already be shaving the rest of you hair off on your own, he does not want to waste his time shaving the rest of you this is your responsibility, Fail to keep up with this duty satisfactorily will result in the loss of your eyebrows on a 1st offence and a following offence will result in a loss of all hair any where. Fail a 3rd time and this status will be made permanent.

10. You should take pleasure in the fact that your owner takes the time to control the use of his property and happy that it gives him some amusement. You should always thank him for securing you in chastity and let him know how grateful you are to have your genitals locked up under his control. You should always be happy if he decides to extend your time in chastity and tell him how much you would like to continue to be Locked and serve him. Ask your self do you want to be home alone sat in front of you computer jacking off alone, or down on your knee’s sucking his cock where you belong?

Benefits of male chastity

Find below the top 10 benefits of male chastity, so you and your spouse can make the right decision about your relationship to put him under loving lock and key.

• It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It should not be wasted on him touching himself and thinking about other women. As long as he can masturbate, he is psychologically cheating on you - and lying to you by default.
• Your sex life will improve. Because he’ll have to please you in order to get his release, he’ll become a more experimental and better lover. You will have more orgasms per week than you’ve ever had before.
• Your relationship will become stronger. Male chastity encourages open and honest communication about each others needs. This is an incredible benefit for any couple, and why male chastity can help any couple improve their natural bonding.
• His orgasms will improve. As long as he can masturbate regularly, he is taking action that desensitizes his penis. Once he is on a more normal ejaculation schedule, his penis will become more sensitive and his orgasms will become stronger.
• You’ll never have to worry about him cheating on you. Face it - most men, no matter how much they love their wives, can’t turn down an attractive, sexy woman. Male chastity makes it impossible for him to act on these urges, so you are helping him remain faithful.
• The romance will come back into your relationship. As long as he knows he can have sex with you any time he wants, there’s no reason for him to romance you. That’s why the romance stopped after you got married. By limiting his sexual access to you, you’ll train him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating.
• You’ll never have to perform oral sex on him again. Of course, you can if you want to; but he’ll be quite happy with any sort of release, and certainly never bother you to do it for him.
• Your friends will compliment you on what a wonderful, attentive husband you have. They will be so jealous of your strong, committed relationship.
• He’ll become much more helpful around the house. Knowing that the only way he can get the release his body craves so badly is by pleasing you, he’ll actually volunteer to do the dishes, clean the bathroom and make the bed every morning. Won’t that be nice?
• He’ll feel better about himself. Most men are ashamed that they masturbate so often (usually seven to 15 times a weeks!). But, they are slaves to their libido and can’t help themselves. It’s an addiction. Mostly it makes them feel like little boys who can’t control themselves. Once he no longer is able to give into the temptation to masturbate, he’ll feel proud of his self-control and behave more like a grown-up man who releases his sexuality into his wife, instead of down the shower drain.

How to get your wife to be your male chastity mistress

The man is terrified about explaining his desires to his wife. He worries that she’ll think he’s weird or kinky.

1. Explain to her that this is not something kinky. Tell her it’s because you love her and think it will bring you closer together.

2. Find some erotic male chastity stories that are somewhat realistic and romantic, and show them to her. Perhaps the two of you can read them together as foreplay.

3. Tell her that you are concerned you are not being the best husband you can be. Explain to her that male chastity is about her feelings and not yours.

4. Show her some of the many articles online that explain that male chastity is romantic and designed to ensure you will stay together forever. Tell her you want this because you value your relationship and want to grow old with her.

5. Be honest and tell her exactly how often you masturbate. Explain to her that you can’t help it, and let her know how ashamed you are. Mention that you think about other women when you do it, but you want to only think of her whenever you are sexually stimulated.

6. Let her know that you are sometimes tempted to stray. Reassure her that you don’t really want to stray, but confess that you are weak - as all men are. Tell her you are worried that if you are not locked up, you will one day cheat on her and ruin your relationship.

7. If you have a small penis, tell her you want to learn other ways to please her that don’t involve penetration. Explain that as long as your penis is free, you are driven to mount her - even though you know she’d be much happier with hours of oral sex.

8. Remind her that once you are locked up, she’ll never have to give you a blowjob again. Tell her you’ve had enough, and it’s time for you to be the one on your knees.

9. Explain that once you are locked up you’ll be motivated to do more around the house - and ask her what chores she would like you to take over once you are in chastity.

10. Discuss how you’ll be forced to sit down to pee while locked up, and how this will make your bathroom floor much cleaner.

11. She should know that once you are locked up she would be in control of the situation. If she only wants you locked up for a few hours at a time, that’s fine. If she wants you locked up for months, you’ll also agree to that. The point is she has to understand she can make the rules and keep you in chastity any way that feels comfortable for her.

12. Tell her this doesn’t mean she has to give up penetration. Talk to her about how it can actually make penetrative sex hotter for both of you.

13. Finally, and this is the most important part, tell her how much you love her and that you desire this because of your deep and abiding adoration of her.