Our rules

Attitude

1. He will not be disrespectful or rude to me, my female friends or other women.
2. He will not address me as anything other than Miss Becky or Mistress. He is allowed to call me darling when it is not possible to use my correct titles.
3. He will not put his needs before my needs.
4. He will not swear or raise his voice to me or use foul language.
5. He will not fail to listen, turn away or interrupt me when I am speaking to him.
6. He will not lie to me or attempt to deceive me in any way.
7. He will not wake me up whilst I am sleeping.
8. He will not overspend his allowance.
9. He will not disregard a request I have made.
10. He will not try to change or amend plans that I have made. He can offer suggestions and advice but when I have told him that my decision is made, that’s it.
11. He will not drink more than 14 units of alcohol a week without permission.
12. He will exercise regularly and keep himself fit.

Chores:
He will be proactive in carrying out his core chores around the house, cooking, cleaning bathrooms, vacuuming, washing dishes, washing clothes and ironing, taking out the trash. These are his domestic duties and he will do them to a high standard and without needing to be reminded. He will make sure he does his chores before he has personal time.

Sexual:
13. He will not pester or whine for sexual attention.
14. He will not top from the bottom
15. He will be 100% monogamous to me.
16. He will not cum without permission.


Review and Punishment:
His performance in following these rules will be reviewed regularly. General performance below an expected standard or specific incidents of rudeness or disobedience will result in punishment. I will determine the punishment, be that the cane, the strap, extension to time in chastity, or any other punishment of my choosing.
He will know the rules by heart and be able to recite any rule by number if asked.

How To Control a Sub

The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.

1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!
You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.

2. Control your own feelings of guilt.
He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

3. You must get into his head!
Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
Tease him with your words whenever possible.
Find out what humiliates him.
Use his humiliation whenever possible.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.
Talk sexy to him.
Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
Make him give you orgasms frequently.

5. Make him do something humiliating.
Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
Make him be naked when you are not.
Make him masturbate for you.
Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.

6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.
Don’t let him get away with anything!
Spank, paddle, or whip him.
Humiliate him in some way.
Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
Make him do anything he hates.

7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.
Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
Make him shop for lingerie with you.

Thirty Six Simple Rules For Managing the Submissive Male

These rules were originally written in my household in 1992. They have seen several incarnations, but very few modifications. They really are classic!

1. These rules are for the submissive male slave who has just entered training with Mistress Infinity. They specifically pertain to part time or full time live in training and servitude. The new trainee will see that other slaves have more leeway in these rules. That is because they have had more training with Mistress Infinity and more seniority in service and servitude.
2. Over time, some of these rules will become relaxed except for periods of strict training. Each circumstance is unique so do not take anything you read here as if it were carved in stone. Final decisions in all training matters rest with Mistress Infinity.
3. RESPECT. The slave must always practice traditional courtesy which men have shown Womyn in polite society, whether in private or public. Stand when She enters the room. Sit (or kneel) as soon as She is seated.
4. Be totally attentive: open doors, wait at table so that She begins eating first, always ask permission to leave Her presence.
5. The slave should never speak unless spoken to, or unless anticipating the needs of his Mistress. The Mistress will let the slave know when this rule is relaxed. Over time and experience the slave will learn when it is ok to talk and when it is not.
6. The submissive will never sit with legs spread or slouch in a way typical of untrained males. Good posture and decorum is a sign of respect.
7. The slave will never stare at a Womyn without Her permission. Unless the Womyn seeks eye-contact, the submissive will keep his eyes lowered at all times.
8. When walking with his Mistress, or any Womyn, the submissive will keep his gait in step with hers, which usually means taking smaller steps. The slave should always be at least a step behind; but not too far, because he must open all doors.
9. Respect is shown by a submissive as long as he never fails to forget his lowly role in life. The submissive must always be pleasant, never argue and never pout.
10. THE slave's NAME. The slave should be given a new name by his Mistress to symbolize his submissive state. If the slave is a sissy, it should be a feminine name. Other names may be "made up" words that sound humiliating or which are amusing or pleasing to the Mistress; for example, names typical of pet dogs or cats.
11. THE slave's BODY. A slave surrenders control to his Mistress. He surrenders control of his body, how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps, the friends or acquaintances he is allowed to keep. In all aspects, the Mistress controls the slave.
12. Because a slave's purpose is to please his Mistress, more than anything else She owns, he must learn to control his response to sexual stimulation for the greater enjoyment of his Mistress. His orgasm is the only that the slave has left to control for himself. Failure to control his orgasm is disobedience. Disobedience requires punishment.
13. If the Mistress prefers simply to torment the submissive male and deny him release, then the submissive male must control himself to provide Her than pleasure. He must dedicate himself to abstinence and thank his Mistress humbly for removing the pleasure of ejaculation, thus allowing him to dedicate his lost pleasure to Her.
14. If the Mistress demands satisfaction through sexual intercourse, the submissive male must be able to control effectively his own orgasm so that it is timed to the pleasure of his Mistress. His purpose is not to please himself but to please Her. The Mistress's sexual needs are Her own business and she will select who will be allowed to fulfill them. (Note: Mistress Infinity does not require sexual intercourse with her male slaves.)
15. In all cases, the submissive male must remember that his orgasm does not belong to him -- his orgasm belongs to his Mistress. It is Hers to use, however she sees fit.
16. The submissive male should be as clean-shaven as the Mistress requires: from the top of his head to his toes, body hair should be present only if the Mistress allows it.
17. The submissive male may wear long hair, styled to imitate the superior styles of Womyn, only if the Mistress permits.
18. The submissive male may never touch his own genitals without the permission of his Mistress. When washing, he must use a washcloth or brush, never his hands.
19. The submissive male will allow himself to be pierced or tattooed as required by his Mistress, if safely and professionally done. These are considered rewards and only awarded to slaves in good standing. They are permanent marks of Ownership and as such will be ritualistically accomplished.
20. PERSONAL PROPERTY. The submissive male is the personal property of the Mistress. His possessions are Her possessions.
21. The submissive should always be saving to purchase "big ticket" items that his Mistress wants to buy. This means the submissive male is always on a strict allowance, kept by his Mistress.
22. CLOTHING. Feminization is training in submission. Wearing items of Feminine attire separates the submissive from and puts him outside of the world of the macho male. Wearing feminine attire doesn't make the male like a Womyn; this is impossible.
23. Standard attire is pink or white panties, an extra-absorbent pad (normally used by those suffering from incontinence), and panty hose worn under male clothing. Other uniforms will be expected as the slave progresses.
24. Whether a womyn knows what the submissive is wearing or not, feminization pushes the submissive closer to the company of womyn and away from the company of men. This is good for the submissive male, because it creates greater opportunities for him to be of help to Womyn, to serve them, and to model his behavior on their own superior behavior.
25. Feminine items can also be used as punishment -- corsets, girdles and foundations. These should be selected by the Mistress for maximum discomfort. Feminine items, such as old castoff clothing, can also be used for humiliation.
26. If the submissive male is a sissy or TV, very feminine clothing should be reserved for rewards; drudge clothing -- plain white panties, plain lingerie, housecoats, aprons, etc. -- should be required as normal attire. Punishment clothing is used when the slave has misbehaved.
27. The submissive male should never buy his own clothing without the guidance of his Mistress. He should buy what pleases her, not what he likes. This is an excellent Opportunity for the Mistress and slave to spend some quality shopping time together.
28. HEALTH & HYGIENE. The submissive will use only Feminine hygiene products: soaps, shampoos, lotions, deodorants, etc. and will be clean and properly groomed at all times. This may mean taking multiple baths/showers though out the day.
29. The submissive male will submit to enemas, or self-administered enemas, on demand by the Mistress. This condition is excused if health concerns are present. Enemas Are often used as punishment when a slave abuses his diet.
30. When urinating, the submissive male will always sit on the toilet; no exceptions. The Mistress does not appreciate the male custom of leaving the toilet seat up.
31. For good health, the submissive will enroll in a dance aerobics class. As an alternative, the submissive male will prepare his own dance aerobics routine and perform it for his Mistress for Her amusement. She may enjoy seeing him learn ballet and dress appropriately.
32. The submissive male must diet as required to maintain a correct weight for his height and should drink at least six 12-ounce glasses of water each day. Bathroom privileges are on permission only.
33. The submissive male must submit to eating only "submissive male food" selected by his Mistress whenever she requires it. A periodic "slave food day" will teach the slave his Proper place at the foot of the Mistress.
34. HOUSEHOLD SERVICE. When a meal is over the submissive male must be quick to clear the table and wash the dishes. The kitchen and dining room is then subject to a good cleaning.
35. The submissive male must always give his Mistress the first choice of everything -- She picks the section of the paper to read first, the channel on TV to watch, the restaurant to go to, the movie to see, the friends to entertain, etc.
36. The submissive must always keep his own quarters spotless, as directed by the Mistress. All furnishings and interior decoration will follow Her taste. While on "floor" status, the slave is to roll his bedding and put it away as early in the day as possible.

The submissive male will perform all household chores for the Mistress, in cooperation with any submissive females in residence, to include:

• sweep and vacuum all floors and carpets
• mop and was all floors
• dust and polish all furniture
• make the beds every day
• wash and fold all clothing and linens
• iron
• hand wash all lingerie
• scrub bathrooms
• clean kitchen
• cook simple meals; assist in all cooking
• wash dishes and put them away
• set the table
• shop for groceries and put them away
• take out trash and sort recycled items
• run all errands as directed
• perform yard work; plant flowers as directed
• get along with, and follow directions of female slave

KNOWING his PROPER PLACE. The slave will never sit on the furniture, but will take his customary place on the floor so that he is physically lower than the Mistress. Likewise, he will sleep on the floor.

Step By Step Training Of A Human Toilet – By Goddess Tempest

There are no specific rules when it comes to training a human toilet. I suppose each mistress has her own way that works for her. Over the past 15 years I have trained several and made my fair share of mistakes in the beginning as I had little experience. A lot of people disagree with my methods but this works for me as it quickly shows me the difference between someone whom REALLY want training and the ones whom are merely looking to fulfill their fantasy.

By now I have two very different types of training programs. One is for a slave whom want to serve me and the other is for a slave / dom for video productions. I will compare these two programs step by step. You’ll see a lot of similarities as well as differences between the two. I’ll also point out the difference between the training of a male and female slave. Even though it’s very much the same there are a few differences as I have pointed out in a previous writing of mine here Male Or Female Toilets

First I’d like to explain that I used to train human toilets merely for the fun of it. These days unfortunately my time is a lot more limited. Therefor I only train human toilets for the two reasons mentioned above. Either the slave wants to be my human toilet 24/7 (like my current live in slave Devoted Sub) or the slave wants to be used as a toilet by me in my video productions (very different training)

Since I have a 24/7 live in human toilet my training these days is more focused on a female human toilet to be used by me in my videos or as a female dominant to use my slave along with me as a toilet for video productions.

Let’s start with the tougher training program of the two, the training for a 24/7 human toilet to serve me. This program I have used over the years and trained Devoted Sub (my current live in human toilet for the past 15 years) Michelle (my very first female toilet), Nandie (my second female toilet) as well as my 3rdfemale toilet (name and details withheld for the time being)

The training program is 6 months (minimum of 2 – 3 times a week) It starts with a full application form (including copy of identity document of the person in question) I ask very specific questions in this application form as this can already give me the indication if the person is really willing to be serving me)

Should the person pass this then it is time for three face to face interviews which include me, my husband and my current slave Devoted Sub. Should the person pass these interviews THEN a date will be set for training to start. Even if you are an experienced toilet the training program is still 6 months (with very good reason) I take the training of a human toilet VERY SERIOUSLY and therefor I have very strict and non-negotiable guidelines.

If you miss a SINGLE training session you are OUT THE DOOR. I only make exceptions for death in the family and serious injures from preventing you to attend your training session. If for instance you miss 2 months of training because of injuries (like a car accident) the clock stops and those two months will be added to your training.

So how exactly does the training work?

These step by step guides that I’m explaining is for a newbie (someone with no experience as a toilet at all) Besides the obvious (slaves are ALWAYS completely naked in their knees in front of me at ALL times) it is important to get your slaves used to their role. Physically (smells, tastes etc.) as well as mentally. As you will see the mental aspect is where the training of a female slave is different than from a male due to women struggling much more with this aspect than men.

The very first part of training is bottom worship and rimming:


This part of the training is the same for both male and female slaves for both training programs. It’s important for your slave to get used to the smell of my ass. I leave it unwashed and ripe for two days up to a week on purpose. The slave spend long periods with their face buried between my buttocks and his / her nose pushed onto my asshole to inhale the smell. This teaches the slave his / her place, humiliate them a bit and put them into submission. I love the feeling of the air movement on my asshole as he / she inhale. Here is one aspect where I like female slaves in training more. Women tend to show more facial expressions than men so her discomfort and pleasure is more obvious to me. I also use the method of face sitting to add to the slave’s discomfort if I can see he / she is enjoying it too much.


When the slave gets more used to my ass smell it’s time to move on to ass kissing. As you can see by the picture above I like to use this position. This gives the slave a clear view of my vagina and my asshole. I keep reminding him / her that they will NEVER be good enough to touch my vagina, only to worship and honor my smelly ass. This gives the slave a perfect view of their humiliating role as they push their face between my parted ass cheeks and press their soft puckered lips onto my asshole. This is where the bigger difference comes in between the two types of training. If I’m training a slave as a live in I add more of a humiliating factor. Make eye contact with him / her as I smile at them over my shoulder constantly reminding them verbally about the disgusting part of my body their lips are making contact with. Explaining to him / her I was born into this world to be served like this and he or she was born into this role to please me. No one’s fault, it’s just the natural order of things. With the training of a slave for video production I also make eye contact the same way but concentrate more on asking her if she is okay, telling her how proud I am of her and how good her lips on my ass makes me feel. During all this I also assist her verbally about her breathing, not to make direct eye contact with the camera, how to pucker her lips more as she kisses my ass (important as this teaches her on camera angles) But the sadistic affect of arousal on me is the same nonetheless.

Now it’s time for him / her to learn how to lick my asshole (rimming, salad tossing) Again I use the same position to give the slave a clear view about what he / she is about to do. I leave my asshole unwashed again for a minimum of 3 to 4 days. Getting their mindset right about bad tastes as soon as possible is vital if I’m ever going to take a shit into their mouth whether it’s for a live in slave or for a video production. With both types of training I follow the same route with small differences regarding training as a toilet for video productions. In both cases and genders I take the same position offering the slave a good look of what they are about to lick. I let the slave smell my ass for a minute or two first so they can get used to the smell and get their mindset of submission right. Now it’s time to put that tongue to work. I let him / her lick around my asshole first informing them how good this feels for ME. I then tell them it’s time to get their tongue in there. The first 5 minutes I’m mostly don’t say much. I just close my eyes and enjoy the pure pleasure and arousal this brings me. Two main differences here between male and female slaves in training. Males tend to start out better and lick nice and hard in the beginning where females tend to start slower and gradually build momentum as they go on. End result? Women have better endurance, sorry guys but it’s true. Most men start to really suffer after 20 minutes because their tongue gets tired. I’ve had female slaves whom NEVER licked ass before licking my ass quite sensually the very first time for 20 minutes without even breaking a sweat only really struggling with a very tired tongue after 40 minutes. With male slaves I usually use this position for 30 minutes and then change to the position where I can sit down on their open mouth for the next 20 minutes or so for the deep rimming. With women I do pretty much the same except I sit the other way around on her open mouth so that her nose is touching my vagina. This way I can look into her eyes as she get started again. I usually instruct her to put her hands on my hips and I like holding her hands during this. For the next 10 minutes I instruct the slave to concentrate and lick hard right in the center of my asshole as I push down. This way the slave’s tongue gets to the more sensitive nerves of my asshole as well as the more intense anal taste for them. After 10 minutes I push very hard and the slave must push his / her tongue very hard upwards in order to push his / her tongue into my rectum. By this time male slaves are pretty much done, they simply can’t do it (my asshole is pretty small and tight) Female slaves despite their tongue also being exhausted by this time simply puts in so much more effort. This exercise is done for three reasons. First it help the slave to develop a stronger tongue over the next few months. Second reason is there are always traces of feces in the rectum and this helps the slave getting used to the taste and finally, it feels soooooo damn good! Female slaves also tend to go into a steady rhythm here, slowly and sensually fucking my rectum and ass with her tongue. The end game guys? Don’t dive in so eagerly at the beginning, that’s the reason why women can lick ass longer than you lol Again the different mindset between men and women is why I communicate differently during this with male and female slaves. With male slaves I use verbal humiliation only “Your worthless tongue enjoy the taste of my shithole doesn’t it?” With a female slave I also remind her where her tongue is and what she’s tasting in my rectum BUT I concentrate a lot more on talking down to her gently and telling her how proud I am of her making this filthy act so beautiful and I’m more open to let her see the pleasure it gives me on my face. Basically I’m re-wiring her thought pattern to help her past those guilty feelings and mental block she needs to get out of her head.


Now it’s time to take things one step further. Being rimmed with a full rectum. Now is where the real fun start to begin for me as you can see on this picture. Yes, I do masturbate sometimes during this part of the slave’s training when it feels very good. The times I reach orgasm the slave can actually feel the contractions of my rectum and asshole against or around his / her tongue. Here is where the bigger difference comes in between training a slave as a live in and when training a slave for video productions. In both training methods I do the same. Let him / her lick my asshole first for a bit. I then stop them and tell them to keep an eye on my asshole as I push. He / she must tell me when they can see the tip of the turd appear. As soon as he / she informs me they can see it I tell them to lick. Strangely enough I noticed here male slaves cope better than female. I suppose the awkwardness of being the same gender might be a contributing factor but it’s more likely again a mindset problem. Reason I’m saying this is females gag more during this in the beginning until I make her concentrate how beautiful the act of her licking my shit is. This along with proper breathing usually does the trick and her gagging fit gets under control. The training for video productions is the same but when she starts to gag I’m more prone to pinch so the turd goes back into my rectum and let her keep licking my asshole for a while before she has to lick the tip of my turd again. Reason being that for video productions swallowing is optional. However if she’s receiving training as a live in toilet slave and not for video productions then swallowing is compulsory so the training is more intense. With female slaves I prefer to rather use this position for this part of training:


There are reasons why I prefer this position for female slave training. Eye contact woman to woman is much more important here. While she is slowly tongue fucking my rectum and tasting my shit as her tongue keeps making contact with the tip of my turd I can verbally keep insuring her and encouraging her while keeping direct eye contact. Again, I keep her concentrating on how beautiful the act of one woman submitting to another and tasting her shit is while holding her hands and looking into her eyes. I allow myself to show her my arousal of what she’s doing. By making myself vulnerable like that while she’s doing this it helps her feel less vulnerable and insecure. As they get more and more used to this we move on to human toilet paper. I let the slave sit on his / her knees next to me while I take a shit in the regular bathroom toilet. Afterwards I get up without wiping and go to the bedroom with the slave where he / she will lie on their back on the bed so I can sit down on their open mouth. I first let them see my dirty unwiped asshole as I sit down on his / her open mouth. For the next 30 to 60 minutes the slave now licks my dirty unwiped asshole clean, this includes working his / her tongue into my rectum. Again with female slaves I prefer to sit in the opposite direction to make eye contact with her and talk her through everything as she gags. For video production training I don’t sit on the slave’s mouth but rather let her spread my buttocks as she licks my asshole clean. Getting her to understand the importance of camera angles is better than her getting and keeping her gagging under control.


We’ve come a long way and the day of being my toilet has finally arrived. The first few times I prefer to use this toilet chair as it gives the slave the opportunity to turn his / her head sideways to spit my shit out if they feel overwhelmed. As you can see by this picture I look at the slave between my legs and talk to him / her a little bit first. Asking him / her if they are nervous (the usually are scared shitless) I communicate a few minutes with them first until their nerves are calmed a bit. With a female I’ll usually discuss the beauty of this whole process between women to her, the intimate moments we are about to share and how proud I am to be the first woman to shit into her mouth. With women it’s all about getting the mindset in the right place and the rest will follow. The conversation ends with me asking him / her if they are ready and them informing me they are and asking me to shit into his / her mouth.


Moment of truth, Communication stops and for a minute or so it’s the ultimate silence as my slave only stares at my vagina and asshole taking in what he / she is about to experience. From here on his / her way of thinking will forever be changed for the better. I then start to push (with a female slave I will hold one of her hands or both for emotional support) As my slave see my asshole stretching open and the turd start to slide out slowly as I moan in relieve softly as they open their mouth and doing what now comes almost naturally for him / her, that they have been training for months now.


The moment of truth for the slave as I fill his / her mouth. The first few times most slaves can hold my shit in his / her mouth a few seconds at least before becoming overwhelmed. I allow both male and female slaves to stimulate themselves during this if they feel aroused. For me this type of usage feel like the natural order of things now. Me on top grunting in pure relieve and pleasure, slave at the bottom taking my shit directly into his / her mouth like it should be.


As time goes by the slave can hold my shit in his / her mouth much longer at a time giving me time to finish and wipe my ass in front of his / her eyes. As I turn around I like to smile down at the slave with a tender smile on my face. Seeing them wipe my own ass with his / her mouth full of my shit re-inforce the reality on them. They understand that they have just been used as a toilet by me.


Putting the toilet paper I just used on their face while telling him / her how wonderful it was. How light and good it feels to have pushed that shit out. This helps them put my face to the whole act and help them understand that my face is not what they got from me but rather the most gross part of my body and the waste that came out of it. This is where the training for the slave for video production ends but for the live in slave there is one more part of training that lies ahead.

Learning how to swallow my shit during the last month of training in order to prepare him / her for the final exam. During the last month of this exam I use a modified toilet box and the slave is restrained completely. This includes restraining the head rendering the slave helpless. The slave’s head height is adjusted accordingly so that when I sit down with my asshole on the slave’s open mouth 50% of my body weight comes down onto the slave’s open mouth. Not only is the slave unable to close his / her mouth, it’s also a high level of discomfort for the slave. I slowly shit until the slave’s mouth is full and then I hold back ordering the slave to swallow. In the beginning I only let the slave swallow one mouthful at a time and I check how long he / she can hold it down. After some practice the next few times it’s two mouthful loads the slave needs to swallow and keep down. The slave NEVER knows when the second part of the exam will happen. With these two parts of the final exam you can be really glad if you are male. I’ll be 100% truthful here, I’m a lot harder on the female slaves when it comes to the final exam guys. It’s very erotic for me knowing it’s a woman under me and the whole idea of a slave the same gender as me turns me on just that bit more. So I tend to make their agony longer and more intense.

I do these two parts of the exam on two separate days of the last month. The first exam is the endurance rimming. You might think it’s fun rimming someone with full bowels for more than an hour but trust me, after an hour it’s pure agony for the slave and my sadistic side LOVE that!

The slave is restrained exactly the same way for the endurance rimming leaving him /her completely helpless and at my mercy. With these two parts there is LITERALLY only one way it stops. When I decide to show mercy and get up. I let the rimming start the usual way. He / she licks my unwashed and ripe asshole first for around 30 minutes and then they have to work their tongue into my full rectum. By this time the slave’s tongue is already tired and this is where my payoff for all my time and effort finally comes. Usually after 20 minutes of their tongue massaging the inner walls of my rectum from tongue fucking my ass they simply can’t anymore. The tongue is simply too cramped up and tired to push into my rectum again. I masturbate while they try to get their tongue into my rectum again, the feeling of their tongue trying to push my shit back deeper into my rectum usually brings me to a powerful orgasm right on his / her face. Want to see how to get that tongue into working order again? Take something as basic as the need to breathe away and see how well this works. I simply reach into the back of the box and pinch his / her nose shut. It only takes the couple of seconds for the squirming and pleading noises for air begins to start. Doesn’t take much more than 40 seconds of desperate screams and struggling against the binds before that slave does manage to get his / her tongue back into my full rectum. It is EXTREMELY erotic and can easily bring me another 2 to 3 orgasms in the next 20 minutes. You do get a point that no matter how long you make your slave struggle for air he / she simply can’t get their tongue back in there again and you have to stop. In order to pass this first part of the exam you need to be able to tongue fuck my full rectum for a minimum of 30 minutes (1 hour in total with the first 30 minutes included) With male slaves I stop once they reached the required limit. With females I keep going (sorry ladies, but we have more endurance than men so I like pushing you further) Other reason is watching the female slave’s body struggling against the binding just gives me that fraction more arousal and pleasure.

To this day Nandie still holds the record tongue fucking my full rectum for 1 hour, 28 minutes (1 hour 58 minutes with the first 30 minutes included) Out of the 12 times I pinched her nose shut to encourage her to try harder the last 5 times I had her nose pinched for just over a minute. To this day I am still the most proud of this girl. In the beginning I thought she’ll never make it since she struggled the most to control her gag reflex. I was the hardest on her of all and she surprised me with her amazing endurance. She was also the only female slave whom passed my final exam and she was also my only 24/7 female toilet for another year.

Think that’s tough? Well the second part of the final exam makes that look like a picnic. The slaves never knows when this part will be coming. During the last month I hold my shit 3 days every time in order to produce MASSIVE bowel movements. Every time the slave only have to swallow 2 mouths full of my shit. During the 3 to 4 days I hold my shit for the slave’s final exam I stick to foods that make your feces taste HORRIBLE, rare red meat steaks, biltong, lots of unions, hamburgers etc.

As I sit did and order the slave to lick my ass like I always do I inform them today is the day for the final exam and I’m going to make them swallow my entire bowel movement. I go on by explaining to the slave what I ate the past couple of days. It’s amazing how you can sense their fear just by the way they lick your ass differently once you break this news to them lol

I enforce this fear further by telling them I can feel this load is going to be massive (around 10 to 12 mouths full) Remember, the poor slave never managed to get past swallowing two mouths full up until now. I also remind them it’s only over once I’m empty. I will show no mercy. This is the best part for me as during this final exam I let myself go completely and give attention to my own pleasure.

I push out the first mouthful and count back from 20 to 0. The slave has 20 seconds to swallow. Once I get to 0 I push out the second mouthful whether the slave finished or not. All of them usually get the first mouthful down just in time. Problem comes at the second mouthful. I give the slave only 10 seconds to get that down. It’s is sooooo arousing when the slave start to struggle and make pleading noises into your ass to stop once you get to:

“3……..2………1………here comes the next one sweetie”

That push is amazing as you feel the pressure build up and simply push harder, feeling the gagging vibrations as the new load force into his / her mouth and force the previous one down their throat. After the 3rd mouthful I usually stop for 20 to 30 minutes to masturbate while remaining seated. The slave still has that last mouthful and if he / she simply can’t get it down I’ll help them soon enough. During this I torture him / her mentally by asking how the grilled chicken is tasting now etc. For the next 30 minutes I keep myself in a very high state of arousal and finish of with a powerful orgasm right on the slave’s face. I then feed the slave the next 2 to 3 mouths full enjoying the amazing sadistic pleasure of feeling, seeing and hearing him / her suffer, knowing I’m the only one whom can show mercy. Then I hold back again for 30 minutes or so while masturbating and reaching orgasm as I inform the slave I’m about halfway done. ANY real human toilet out there whom swallow will tell you the last half of a bowel movement is much harder to get down despite sometimes being softer due to the taste getting much stronger.

The last half of my bowel movement (5 or more mouths full of shit depending on how big the load is) is the grand finale of the exam as well as my high state of arousal. I inform the slave to use his / her tongue as a butt plug. If they can stop my shit from coming out then we are done. If they can’t I’m going to keep shitting down their throat until I’m completely empty without giving them a break in between.

What I love most about this part is the mental torture of giving him / her false hope. For a minute or so with my softer shit in my rectum pushing against their tongue in there they think they can stop this from happening. As I push harder and feel my shit forcing their tongue out of my rectum and their desperate struggle as my flow keeps going for 15 to 20 seconds (I push it out slowly) I am in heaven! Knowing I can show mercy at any time by stopping but I simply keep going ignoring their suffering, struggling and pleading is out of this world. There is simply NOTHING he / she can do about it. All they can do is endure their suffering as my shit slowly goes down their throat.

When I’m empty I remain seated for another hour, giving the slave time to get that last mouthful down on his / her own and then get his / her tongue back into my rectum to clean it out. During this hour I will bring myself to between 3 and 5 orgasms OR build it up and bring myself to one earth shattering orgasm lasting around 40 seconds or so.

So what if the slave can’t get that last mouthful down on his / her own and lick my asshole and clean out my rectum? EXAM FAILED! As tough as this might sound, the slave failed the exam and will never be my 24/7 toilet. There is a reason why I’m being so harsh. It’s because I know exactly what they slave goes through. Unlike many I was a toilet myself. I wanted to know what my slave is experiencing when he is my toilet so I asked my husband to use me as a human toilet a few times. Hubby shit into my mouth a total of 15 times and the last 5 times was the EXACT force feeding I use on slaves for their final exam. Devoted Sub did the filming while hubby used me for these. Before anyone asks, no videos of this is available as it was still filmed on VHS back then and because I wasn’t wearing a mask. For that reason I’ll never make these videos public nor the ones of Nandie’s final exam and training as her privacy also have to be respected.

In short. Training for live in slaves are a LOT harder and more intense than training for slaves for video productions. Slaves for video productions I train on camera and the training is much shorter and less intense. Slaves wanting to be my 24/7 toilet gets more harsh training as this will become their life.

That being said I have to point out that these days I only train females for video productions. Either as a top to use Devoted Sub as a toilet with me, as a sub to be used as a toilet by me for lesbian video productions or both if she is up for it. Before anyone accuse me of being sexist, I’m not. Reason why I don’t train male slaves anymore is because I have one. There is no use for me having 3 male toilets on a set and only one feeder (myself)

What’s important or dangers of these force feedings for live in slave’s exams?

Important is breathing, that’s why I do breathing exercises with the slave in training LONG before the final exam comes up.

On the safety front the slave’s body must be lifted so his / her feet is higher than their head like with waterboarding. This minimize the risk of your shit (especially if it’s soft) to get into the windpipe and cause choking.

FEMDOM PARTY GAMES

The following are FEMDOM and their slaves are having a good time. The male slaves will serve and be subjected to harsh discipline by these beautiful ladies. Who will enjoy inflicting heavy pain and cruel torture to their slaves, making them suffer without mercy. The slaves will be either dogs, furniture, sluts, ponies, maids, cuckolds and complete toilets. The slaves will be expected and forced to perform homosexual sex acts among each other to amuse and entertain the ladies.

GAME #1
Blind slave’s buff with Mistress’ feet
This game consisted of each Mistress putting one of her heels in the middle of the room. With all the slaves blindfolded, each slave is allowed to service one of any of the Mistress’ feet. Afterwards each slave must crawl to the shoes and pick them the one that belongs to the Lady he just serviced, bringing it back in his mouth, all the while being whipped by the one of the Dommes. If the slave got it right, he was allowed to replace the shoe, kiss her foot and then maybe she might fondle his cock or at least prod of her crop. If the slave failed then after replacing her shoe and kissing her feet, he was usually whipped or had his balls cropped depending on the individual lady’s mood.

GAME #2
Blind slave’s buff with Mistress’ fragrance
The Ladies ride their slaves like ponies around the room, blindfolded. The slaves had to identify the Lady they were serving by her particular feminine fragrance. All the Dommes whipped losers of the game and winner were given the privilege of serving as the Mistress’ toilet. (The human party toliet)

GAME #3
Fetch Mistress’ panties
Worship a Mistress’ ass or is electric shock tortured.
The slaves are blindfolded with their hands cuffed behind their backs. The Dommes had drawing to decide which one of them was going slip off her panties and throw them up in the air for all the slaves to fetch. The slaves compete against each other for the panties and the one that ends up with the panties in his mouth would get the honor of servicing the asshole of the owner of the panties. While all other slaves would be tortured by an electric cattle prod used on their balls. With a one-minute time limit,with the slaves falling all over each other. To make things difficult, the Dommes will lash the slaves with their crops and whips as they crawled around. A couple of times they even moved the panties, when a slave get close to them.

GAME # 4
Shoe derby
All the slaves are placed on their bellies, with their ankles cuffed together and hands tightly bound behind their backs. The Ladies are asked to remove her shoe and place in front of her hand-picked slave’s head. The rules were simple. The object for the slaves to race with each other across the room, slithering on their bare bellies to get both shoes to the other side of the room. The Dommes are thoroughly delight in seeing these asshole slaves naked and bound and slithering like worms, as they are pushing high heels down the length of the room with their noses. The owners of these shoes chided and exhorted the slaves. kicking them with their stocking or bare feet and whipping their asses the entire length of the room.

GAME # 5
Tug of War between the slaves
With two slaves kneeling back to back to each other with their cock and balls tied up with leather twine. This was to connect each slave’s balls to each other. A two foot rope is placed between each slave’s balls,each slave, facing a chair in which a Lady is sitting with her legs spread apart, having the slave service her, making him stretch. This causes both slaves to play a painful tug of war, between their balls. The first slave slave that reaches his Mistress’ pussy will win. The rest of the Dommes take sides and urged the slaves on with their crops as the slaves struggled to reach the ladies and to service them properly. Their balls were stretch so tightly that they were definitely presented a very erotic sight for Dommes, seeing them in lots of pain and the slaves felt like their balls were going to exploded. It wasn’t their whips that urged them into position as much as it was their desire to serve and please their Mistress.

GAME #6
Race to the Mistress ‘Pussy
All the slaves on their hands and knees side by side, each one had a twenty-pound weight tied to his balls, which they have to drag behind them on the floor, while being urged on by the Dommes crops. The slave’s goal was to reach his Mistress seat in front of him on the other side of the room with her legs spread wide apart. The first slave to reach a pussy would be allowed to bring his face between this Mistress’ legs and service her, while the other slaves will have their asses’ blistered ass by two Dommes. Not until that Mistress pushes the slave away with her foot indicating she had an organism, did the Dommes issue their last swing of the whip. The slaves will be mess but that was okay. There was something about the sight of slave covered with his Mistress’ whip mark that turns these women on. Twenty pounds doesn’t sound much like much, but it must have put a terrible strain on a slave’s balls. With the constant assault of crops and their desire to please the Dommes in every way, this kept us going. This was a direct result of slave training and their dedication to Female superiority

.GAME # 7
Whipping Contest #1
Two slaves matched against in bondage. While the Dommes have whipping contests, a competition among the slaves. The slaves are severely flogged by the Dommes using various types of whips, crops, straps, and canes. The slave that flinches, squirms, screams or cries the most, is the loser slave. He is severely humiliated, as he must suck his opponent’s cock for about five to ten minutes. The slaves didn’t cum and they were also prohibited from doing it.

GAME #8
Cum Race Cum Race I
All slaves on lined up kneeling up with their heads bowed in the center of the room. The Mistress of Ceremony (MC) take time to give each slave one a taste of her strap and warned them not disobeys any of the ladies. Saucers were place in front of each slave. But before each race, cock rings, cock harnesses, cages were removed from the slaves. MC announced, “Let the cum-races begin. There was many varieties of the cum racing games. They stress performance on the part of the male slave and the punishments and humiliations, but almost certainly the punishments involve the failing slave or slaves eating a lot have their own or other slave’s cum.
.Cum Race II
The second heat was different in that pits each slave against a clock. The slave with the slowest time is the loser. Each slave in turn was ushered to the center of the darken living room, and spot light was shined on him as he was to race against the clock with all the Dommes cheering and laughing and offering numerous humiliating chides of kind or another. Each slave was to shoot his load in a single tin cup on “center stage.” And the slave with the slowest time - you guess it, downed the tin cup of cum.

Cum Race III
The third heat of the cum-races, was pairing us slaves and to compete against each other. This provided the Dommes for as many of losers as winners and an opportunity for the Dommes to dish out considerably more punishment. These were following slave matches.

GAME # 9
Spitting Contest:
Slaves are used and abused as sluts, are put into a kneeling position with his hands cuffed behind his back. The Dommes are invited, two at a time, to gang rape these slut/slaves with their big strap-on dildos. This game is to decide who gets to fuck him in the ass and who gets to fuck him in the mouth. Both Dommes wager a spitting contest decide which orifice to fuck, by using the slave’s face as their target. The point system will be as followed;

20 points for spitting in his opened mouth.
30 points for spitting onto his nose.
40 points for spiting in his the eyes.
50 points bulls-eye hit, spit between the eyes.

The winner of the game gets this slave/slut’s ass, while the loser, who there is no real loser, gets her dick suck off by the slut. After each game, each slave had to lick the floor clean of all Dommes’ saliva on the floor, before being rape by these cruel ladies. When being raped, the slaves were either all fours or bounded to saw horse while these Dommes have their way with them.

Game#10
Card torture
A slave with his ankles hanged this slave in suspended bondage and blindfold covering his eyes. The Dommes then begin going through a deck of cards, one at a time. As each card is selected, the slave must guess whether it’s red or black. Each time they guess incorrectly, a clothespin is applied to a body part of the Mistress’ choosing. Each correct card is placed in one pile, and each incorrect one is placed in another. Once the entire deck has been gone through, the cards in the "incorrect” pile are shuffled, and the game begins anew with them. The penalty is doubled, since it’s now the second round. The game continues until all of the cards have been placed in the “correct” pile. The Dommes used other variations in penalties. Hot wax was used, in set number of seconds to be increased with successive rounds. Play piercing needles were used, and ice cubes placed in a sensitive orifice, and weights hung from a clamp or stretcher.

Trampling Zone
This consisting of two couches facing each other, with just enough room in between for a slave to prostrate himself, completely covered by the Domme’s feet and slither his way up and down on his back or stomach while they trample him at will under their sharp heels. The Dommes also enjoy playing some foot games here while they lounge on the couches and amuse themselves as the slave frantically attempt to guess whose feet I am serving.

Party Toilet slave
This slave serves as the party’s toilet. He is to lie on his back with a portable toilet encasing his head. His arms are secured around this box and funnel is inserted into his mouth, strapped around his head. The portable toilet is placed in front of the standard toilet which has a sign posted to it “OUT OF ORDER!” Which mean that any Domme, who needs to use the toilet, must use the human toilet instead of the real one.

The whipping boy
This slave was bounded spread eagle with his face the wooden X-frame. There, any Domme could use her favorite whip and severely punish this slave unmercifully. Some Dommes can use the African blowgun, to play darts. Using the slave’ ass as their dartboard.

Does anyone else get that?

I know that in a lot of femdom porn it’s “You’re a worthless worm, you don’t deserve me, you’re not a man, lock up your cock, you’re acting like girl and that’s shameful, wear panties because haha it’s humiliating” etc and I’m repulsed by that. For one, worm is such a sad comparison, I’d never feel aroused by anyone who I could compare to one, and secondly traditionally feminine things are not tools of humiliation – not for me. Panties are nice, but only because panties are pretty and look nice. Not because they’re a tool for degradation.

But that doesn’t mean I’m not into Humiliation. For me, humiliation is making a boy blush, making him squirm. I just don’t want to use panties or worm comparisons to get him there.

Is it more about shame? Telling a boy he’s a slut, and using his body for your own pleasure. And making him acknowledge it and wallow a little in the shame of it.

Or is it embarrassment? Telling a boy that he needs to open his mouth for you because he’s a good little boy, because he’s willing to do anything for you, because he’s easy and so very lovely to push and smack.

Or is it objectification? Making a boy present himself, a visceral lustfulness taking over you as you watch him, touch him and tell him that he’s your pretty boy, your handsome sub.

Sometimes it’s humiliation, too. That he’s just there to serve you, he can be your footstool, because that’s what he’s good for. A place to rest an ashtray on, maybe. A hot thrill of humiliation would probably run through him, then. But through it he’s still a man, a boy, still worth /something/ even if it’s just what you’ve decided he’ll be for now.

I think it’s a little bit like love, like a the sharp sting of a cane and the dull thud of a paddle. Different but so lovely.

When your locked in chastity, you beg for more humiliation.

Your wife gives your key to her bull, you get the rush but eventually that fades, and you beg for another layer of humiliation.

You are denied access to your wife’s pussy, you will only see her naked when she requires you to clean cum from her body.

Again that boundary breached you need more humiliation. A post that you reblogged on tumblr gives her an idea, she gets rid of all your jocks and replaces them all with pink panties, all frilly and small, some even with g strings. Occasionally as a treat she will wipe her cum stained pussy with them and the send you to work in them.

Soon your cage is riveted on and you will never feel the touch of a woman’s pussy again. And you love it, your wife has a weekly ritual of watching you trying to get off by anal stimulation alone. She giggles and eventually allows you to put a vibe on the cage. And after 5 weeks of trying your cock spews cum as your ass is filled by a huge dildo. Your wife giggles and proclaims you as her little bitch, and now that your cock is not needed any more how long would it take till it shrunk to a nub. But you will still crave more.

You will beg her to take it further what’s the next level the game of finding new boundaries to push, your wife’s confidence in her dominating you, her understanding that your little games your humilations are coming from a place of love that is relished. You have talked about buying a lockable toilet slave device but she has other ideas.

The night of a naughty weekend away you find yourself on your knees as she puts a collar on your neck. ½ an hour later she is telling you to kneel again only this time there is a circular hole in front of your face. A big cock appears and you are told to suck it, the thrill of it, sucking cock, but you don’t like guys, doing it in front of your wife, another mans cock in your mouth being a forced fag. Finally he cums you start to pull away but your wife pulls at the collar pulling you back to the cock, “no I want to see you take the full load”

Finally checkmate the ultimate taboo, humiliation blindfolded, still locked in chastity you are commanded to bend over, you feel the thrill of the boundary being pushed as you feel your ass being pressured, you tell yourself that it’s a strap on but them you realize as you hear movement in front of your face and you head is guided to your wife’s pussy that it’s not her, who is it. As your feel the full invasion of your ass and you savor the thrill as your prostate is stroked it dawns on you that sensation is a living pulsing cock.

Your humiliation is complete as your wife starts to thrust into your face and mouth. “Take it like a good fag” she say I love seeing guys being fucked in the ass.