Spoiler alert, this is somewhat of a dark post.
My wife recently added an element of control for a short period of time to cuckolding me, as she controlled when I could cum. An obvious component of this element is that she also controlled when I could be inside of her. I wrote an earlier post about the benefits to a wife when she controls her husband’s orgasms. He pampers her and showers her with attention, both things that any wife wants her husband to do. I want to talk about the potential effects on the husband in this post.
For some couples, the frequency of sex is 2-3 times a week. It is much less for some couples, and it is much more for other couples. My wife and I have been having sex more frequently than 2-3 times a week since she began cuckolding me. I am now accustomed to penetrating my wife and cumming inside of her 4-5 times a week. My doctor recently said “Well, now I just hate you” when I shared that with him recently, so I understand how extremely fortunate that I have been.
I wrote an earlier post about how a man naturally becomes submissive to his wife when she cuckolds him, and this is due to the control that he gives her. With her control of his orgasms, this takes the level of submissiveness to another level. Sometimes to a level that is very difficult for him to accept. Let me explain further.
A man who wants to be cuckolded may not think about the submissive aspect in the beginning and only focus on the benefits of arousal from the thought or the sight of his wife having sex with another man. In fact, he may not be a submissive man at all. However, he will most likely become submissive to his wife as he hands control of her sex life over to her. The submissiveness may grow if his wife takes more control of his sex life, including his ability to cum. Notice that I didn’t say that he gave her control, she took control. This shows how a fundamental change is occurring at this point between husband and wife, more accurately, cuckold and hotwife.
The cuckold in this predicament must now deal with the reality that his wife controls his orgasms, as well as the frequency of sex with her. This can be a harsh reality to accept. Combined with the knowledge that she is continuing to have a high frequency of sex, now with other men, he could become frustrated by the quickly diminishing frequency of penetrating his wife and cumming.
If he wants any hope of peace in his life, the only choice for the cuckold is further submission at this point. Many cuckolds succumb to the fact that their wives have not only taken control of their sex life, but also the cuckold’s sex life. By changing his thinking, the cuckold can find inner peace within his current situation.
From the perspective of the cuckold, his wife is having sex with other men while simultaneously denying him sexual pleasure. The only way out is for the cuckold to accept that he does not deserve sexual pleasure. Remove all other aspects from the picture, his wife, the other man, etc. Focus only on the cuckold. He is a man who does not deserve sexual pleasure. He has no value as a sexual human being. Let that sink in for a moment.
Now that a cuckold has accepted the fact that he no value as a sexual human being, his current dilemma becomes easier to accept. The world around him involves his wife flaunting her sexual pleasure in front of him, and another man perhaps blatantly flaunting the sexual pleasure he gives the cuckold’s wife. Having a genuine feeling that he is not worthy of sexual pleasure allows the cuckold to function in this environment where he has no expectations of penetrating his wife or cumming.
Over months and years, a cuckold with this thinking is conditioned and the thought pattern becomes very natural. He is equipped to handle watching his wife leave the house week after week on dates with other men, perhaps not returning until the morning. Equipped to handle sitting alone downstairs in his house while listening his wife’s moans of sexual pleasure from a bedroom upstairs. Equipped to sleep in another room while another man has sex all night and sleeps in his marital bed with his wife. Equipped to perform acts of humiliation that he does not want to do, like clean another man’s cock after it has been inside of his wife.
As mentally unhealthy as it sounds, it actually makes the reality of cuckolding tolerable for a cuckold who is denied sex and an orgasm.
At this point, you may be thinking that there is a potential for a horrible life as a cuckold, as a wife my take it to the extreme. Your are correct.
How does a hopeful cuckold prevent this from happening? In short, marry a kind, loving, caring, and nurturing woman. A woman who will still remember that she is a wife first and an hotwife second and that you are a husband first and a cuckold second. She will not deny you sex or the ability to cum, and will use cuckolding to enhance and improve the quality of the sex between the 2 of you.
Thankfully, I married kind of woman.
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