Ten Rules for a Successful Mistress

• Control the orgasm, and you control the male.
• To make any fantasy work, you must build suspense in your submissive.
• Stimulation plus frustration equals service and submission.
• Every submissive will try to test the limits of your Rule. Never let him get away with anything. He needs you to be both firm and consistent.
• Physical pain alone cannot satisfy a submissive (a masochist, yes).
• The more aroused your submissive is, the more pain he can take.
• The more effective your psychological Dominance, the less pain you will need to inflict to control and satisfy your submissive.
• All punishment is a balance between intensity and duration. More intense pain should last less time. If you want to prolong the punishment, the less intense the stimulation.
• Submission increases with time. As long as you maintain firm control, the longer a session lasts, the more thoroughly submissive your male will become.
• Your control and pleasure are inextricably intertwined with the submission and pleasure.