I hear from a lot of guys that fantasize about being cuckolded. Most of the time they’re just interested in the fantasy, which is great. Some are genuinely interested in pursuing a cuckold relationship with their wife or girlfriend. I’d like to help those guys.
In my experience, the biggest mistake a man makes when attempting to bring cuckolding into his relationship is placing his feelings and desires over those of his would-be hotwife. The fog of desire makes him forget that she might not want the same things he does, or that she might not even understand the notion of cuckolding.
While that can be a complicated problem to solve, the simplest approach is to explain what cuckolding is and that it arouses you. While she might want to understand it, that’s damn near impossible to do. Most people can’t explain why something arouses them; they only know that it does.
It will likely take lots of time for her to get used to the notion of cuckolding you. You must be patient. There’s something you can do to show your dedication to her pleasure though: Worship your wife.
Her orgasms should already be your priority, but if they aren’t, it’s time to change that. She almost certainly enjoys oral sex (most women do) so you need to make sure you’re down on your knees and between her legs worshiping her pussy as often as possible. You also need to make sure there’s no expectation of reciprocation.
In a way, you’re training her to be selfish. A lot of women struggle with the idea of sleeping with another man because it feels mean or unfair to their husband. You need to show her that there’s no such thing for you. For you, there’s great pleasure to be had in making her orgasm (and in the future, in watching her have an orgasm with another man).
Orgasms have a powerfully positive effect on the body and brain. All kinds of good hormones are released when a woman climaxes and you want them coursing through your wife’s body. The more you make her cum, the more she’ll want to make you feel good. When she understands that making you feel good means sleeping with another man, she’ll be more likely to cuckold you.
Get used to worshiping her as often as you can. If that means dropping to your knees the moment you get home from work, so be it. Put your tongue to her pussy whenever she’ll let you, even if you’re doing it half a dozen times a day (you should be so lucky). As a side note, if you can hold off from cumming as often as you normally would, you’ll find it far more arousing and pleasurable to make her cum. A denied man is a loyal, worshipful man.
It’s important to remember that you need to be patient. I can’t possibly know what’s happening inside everyone’s marriage/relationship, but sometimes a sex life has stagnated. Sometimes she won’t understand why you want to go down on her so often. Sometimes she’ll be wary of your motivations. Orgasms conquer all though, so be patient.
If you find her resistant to the pleasures of your tongue, start with foreplay. Have her lie down in bed and offer a slow, sensual massage to work her up. Rub the backs of her legs and feet. Relax her from head to toe before you move between her legs and deliver a happy ending. If things go well she should come around to the notion of you going down on her and making her cum all the time.
Ultimately, what you’re trying to do is convince your wife that her pleasure is your priority. You place her orgasms above yours. You want her to know that seeing her cum thrills you beyond words. Once she believes that, her confidence will go through the roof. Plus, she’ll likely be a whole lot hornier.
Those are two ingredients that help in creating a cuckold marriage. Remember, this isn’t a perfect science and it takes time and patience, but you can’t go wrong giving your wife an endless stream of orgasms. At the very least you get to have tons of fun between her legs.
In my experience, the biggest mistake a man makes when attempting to bring cuckolding into his relationship is placing his feelings and desires over those of his would-be hotwife. The fog of desire makes him forget that she might not want the same things he does, or that she might not even understand the notion of cuckolding.
While that can be a complicated problem to solve, the simplest approach is to explain what cuckolding is and that it arouses you. While she might want to understand it, that’s damn near impossible to do. Most people can’t explain why something arouses them; they only know that it does.
It will likely take lots of time for her to get used to the notion of cuckolding you. You must be patient. There’s something you can do to show your dedication to her pleasure though: Worship your wife.
Her orgasms should already be your priority, but if they aren’t, it’s time to change that. She almost certainly enjoys oral sex (most women do) so you need to make sure you’re down on your knees and between her legs worshiping her pussy as often as possible. You also need to make sure there’s no expectation of reciprocation.
In a way, you’re training her to be selfish. A lot of women struggle with the idea of sleeping with another man because it feels mean or unfair to their husband. You need to show her that there’s no such thing for you. For you, there’s great pleasure to be had in making her orgasm (and in the future, in watching her have an orgasm with another man).
Orgasms have a powerfully positive effect on the body and brain. All kinds of good hormones are released when a woman climaxes and you want them coursing through your wife’s body. The more you make her cum, the more she’ll want to make you feel good. When she understands that making you feel good means sleeping with another man, she’ll be more likely to cuckold you.
Get used to worshiping her as often as you can. If that means dropping to your knees the moment you get home from work, so be it. Put your tongue to her pussy whenever she’ll let you, even if you’re doing it half a dozen times a day (you should be so lucky). As a side note, if you can hold off from cumming as often as you normally would, you’ll find it far more arousing and pleasurable to make her cum. A denied man is a loyal, worshipful man.
It’s important to remember that you need to be patient. I can’t possibly know what’s happening inside everyone’s marriage/relationship, but sometimes a sex life has stagnated. Sometimes she won’t understand why you want to go down on her so often. Sometimes she’ll be wary of your motivations. Orgasms conquer all though, so be patient.
If you find her resistant to the pleasures of your tongue, start with foreplay. Have her lie down in bed and offer a slow, sensual massage to work her up. Rub the backs of her legs and feet. Relax her from head to toe before you move between her legs and deliver a happy ending. If things go well she should come around to the notion of you going down on her and making her cum all the time.
Ultimately, what you’re trying to do is convince your wife that her pleasure is your priority. You place her orgasms above yours. You want her to know that seeing her cum thrills you beyond words. Once she believes that, her confidence will go through the roof. Plus, she’ll likely be a whole lot hornier.
Those are two ingredients that help in creating a cuckold marriage. Remember, this isn’t a perfect science and it takes time and patience, but you can’t go wrong giving your wife an endless stream of orgasms. At the very least you get to have tons of fun between her legs.
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