If you’re not currently committed to one Goddess who specifically requests otherwise, you must commit yourself to be of use to all women.
This means tipping female waitresses extra.
This means remembering the store clerks name so you can email her boss about how she made you feel honored to be there.
This means if a group of beautiful girls come into a restaurant and you notice yourself hoping they’re laughing at you, imagining them humiliating you - offering the waiter to take their bill.
Commitment to femdom isn’t necessarily commitment to one domme. It’s a commitment to serve women. To be useful to women.
By Mistress
Well, being of service and being submissive to someone isn’t necessarily the same thing as being in servitude to that person.
As in, if I meet a boy who is courteous to me, yet rude to the waitress or the old lady in front of us, that is going to be an extreme turn off.
He does not need to be serving them, as in being their submissive, but I will and I do have higher expectations of him than I would of men in general - if he is to get my attention, that is.
It is not that he isn’t an equal to me or to women, it specifically IS to be equal to women, to balance the threat you as a man pose to a woman. I want my sub to be aware of how society expects women to do more, and I expect him to try doing that himself.
This is also for you to know that we see you. We notice the men who show courtesy. We notice the men who intentionally grant us space whether in the workplace or on the subway. We notice what you are doing, and while I may believe that’s a mans natural duty, it still sets him apart from the crowd, and every single one of those actions are noticed.
This means tipping female waitresses extra.
This means remembering the store clerks name so you can email her boss about how she made you feel honored to be there.
This means if a group of beautiful girls come into a restaurant and you notice yourself hoping they’re laughing at you, imagining them humiliating you - offering the waiter to take their bill.
Commitment to femdom isn’t necessarily commitment to one domme. It’s a commitment to serve women. To be useful to women.
By Mistress
Well, being of service and being submissive to someone isn’t necessarily the same thing as being in servitude to that person.
As in, if I meet a boy who is courteous to me, yet rude to the waitress or the old lady in front of us, that is going to be an extreme turn off.
He does not need to be serving them, as in being their submissive, but I will and I do have higher expectations of him than I would of men in general - if he is to get my attention, that is.
It is not that he isn’t an equal to me or to women, it specifically IS to be equal to women, to balance the threat you as a man pose to a woman. I want my sub to be aware of how society expects women to do more, and I expect him to try doing that himself.
This is also for you to know that we see you. We notice the men who show courtesy. We notice the men who intentionally grant us space whether in the workplace or on the subway. We notice what you are doing, and while I may believe that’s a mans natural duty, it still sets him apart from the crowd, and every single one of those actions are noticed.
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