There is something about orgasm denial which, for many men, strikes right at the heart of their need to be dominated, enslaved and ultimately “owned”.
And just to be clear about this, it does not necessarily follow that a man who wants his orgasms to be controlled and denied by his wife also wants to be her slave. This is a common misunderstanding in the male chastity community.
But what about those men who do want to be enslaved or, conversely those women who wish to enslave their husbands?
How can they go about this?
Well the most commonly described route is for the wife simply to withhold orgasm and other sexual favors until the man does as he’s told. That’s very simplistic, but that’s it in a nutshell.
The problem with this is it means the woman is then using sex and orgasms as a currency in the marriage. This is a bad idea for most people, because no matter how innocently and good-naturedly it starts out, it’s easy for resentment to creep in.
And before you know it, the whole topic of sex becomes the “elephant in the room” and it can take all the fun out of the whole thing.
A better way to enslave your husband is by “stealth”.
You see your husband can very easily be made a slave to his desire – long periods of orgasm denial with regular tease and denial, or edging, with the sure knowledge he cannot do anything to hasten the arrival of his next orgasm can put a man in a very suggestible emotional state.
He will become more and more attentive to your desires and needs as a natural consequence of his feeling permanently horny - have YOU ever known a man whom you had half-way to orgasm refuse you anything?
And just to be clear about this, it does not necessarily follow that a man who wants his orgasms to be controlled and denied by his wife also wants to be her slave. This is a common misunderstanding in the male chastity community.
But what about those men who do want to be enslaved or, conversely those women who wish to enslave their husbands?
How can they go about this?
Well the most commonly described route is for the wife simply to withhold orgasm and other sexual favors until the man does as he’s told. That’s very simplistic, but that’s it in a nutshell.
The problem with this is it means the woman is then using sex and orgasms as a currency in the marriage. This is a bad idea for most people, because no matter how innocently and good-naturedly it starts out, it’s easy for resentment to creep in.
And before you know it, the whole topic of sex becomes the “elephant in the room” and it can take all the fun out of the whole thing.
A better way to enslave your husband is by “stealth”.
You see your husband can very easily be made a slave to his desire – long periods of orgasm denial with regular tease and denial, or edging, with the sure knowledge he cannot do anything to hasten the arrival of his next orgasm can put a man in a very suggestible emotional state.
He will become more and more attentive to your desires and needs as a natural consequence of his feeling permanently horny - have YOU ever known a man whom you had half-way to orgasm refuse you anything?
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