We’ve been playing a lot lately. She’s really been enjoying being in charge and she’s been appreciating all the added attention and help she’s been getting. It’s been a win-win. I’m locked, happy and horny - she’s satisfied and feeling supported and appreciated.
But our play session has been interrupted. We had a bit of a medical emergency and she’s been looking at new jobs lately, which has increased her stress levels significantly. As a result, her sex drive has plummeted, and she just doesn’t have the bandwidth to play.
So what to do?
Last night she apologized to me for not paying more attention to me. As Queen, she feels like she’s neglecting her subject. She offered to end the game, saying it would be easier and that way I wouldn’t be disappointed. I think she feels guilty somehow that she can’t give me her full attention.
From my perspective, this is the time you want an attentive and super-supportive husband - and in fact I don’t expect anything in return as I really want to support her. Not because of the game we’re playing, but because - well, she’s my wife, she’s amazing and I love her to death. I want to be here for her. I want her to offload things onto me so she can focus on what’s important.
Chastity is a quick reminder for me. Working in a high stress job of my own, I tend to get hyper-focused on things I need to do - and often forget to balance work with personal life. That cage between my legs reminds me of her all through the day. It makes me feel more engaged and connected.
So this got me thinking about Chastity and how it relates to life’s bumps in the road. I think many couples might be tempted to just stop chastity play when life gets complicated - but I wonder whether people shouldn’t double-down.
“Don’t worry about me” I replied to her. “I’ll be fine. I’m not expecting anything from you right now because I know how stressed / busy you are.”
Part of the deal of chastity play and surrendering yourself is that you’re at the mercy of the other person. If life intervenes, so be it. If weeks go by without attention or play, that’s part of the deal.
In fact, knowing how stressed and busy she is, I find myself going out of my way to relieve some of her stress. I’m picking up her with tasks, doubling down on making sure the house is in order - handling the kids, etc. All normal things any loving husband would do when it’s crunch time. From a play perspective, I don’t expect anything in return - and I think that’s OK.
At the end of the day, all I want is her to be happy and feel supported. My needs come second to hers - isn’t that what this is all about - whether there’s a cage or no cage, it’s part of being a loving, devoted husband.
Having said this, I did walk into her office this morning, swivel her chair towards me, kneel before her and go down on her. She seemed to appreciate the break after her second orgasm.
But our play session has been interrupted. We had a bit of a medical emergency and she’s been looking at new jobs lately, which has increased her stress levels significantly. As a result, her sex drive has plummeted, and she just doesn’t have the bandwidth to play.
So what to do?
Last night she apologized to me for not paying more attention to me. As Queen, she feels like she’s neglecting her subject. She offered to end the game, saying it would be easier and that way I wouldn’t be disappointed. I think she feels guilty somehow that she can’t give me her full attention.
From my perspective, this is the time you want an attentive and super-supportive husband - and in fact I don’t expect anything in return as I really want to support her. Not because of the game we’re playing, but because - well, she’s my wife, she’s amazing and I love her to death. I want to be here for her. I want her to offload things onto me so she can focus on what’s important.
Chastity is a quick reminder for me. Working in a high stress job of my own, I tend to get hyper-focused on things I need to do - and often forget to balance work with personal life. That cage between my legs reminds me of her all through the day. It makes me feel more engaged and connected.
So this got me thinking about Chastity and how it relates to life’s bumps in the road. I think many couples might be tempted to just stop chastity play when life gets complicated - but I wonder whether people shouldn’t double-down.
“Don’t worry about me” I replied to her. “I’ll be fine. I’m not expecting anything from you right now because I know how stressed / busy you are.”
Part of the deal of chastity play and surrendering yourself is that you’re at the mercy of the other person. If life intervenes, so be it. If weeks go by without attention or play, that’s part of the deal.
In fact, knowing how stressed and busy she is, I find myself going out of my way to relieve some of her stress. I’m picking up her with tasks, doubling down on making sure the house is in order - handling the kids, etc. All normal things any loving husband would do when it’s crunch time. From a play perspective, I don’t expect anything in return - and I think that’s OK.
At the end of the day, all I want is her to be happy and feel supported. My needs come second to hers - isn’t that what this is all about - whether there’s a cage or no cage, it’s part of being a loving, devoted husband.
Having said this, I did walk into her office this morning, swivel her chair towards me, kneel before her and go down on her. She seemed to appreciate the break after her second orgasm.
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