Absolute & Binding Male Slave Rules and Contract

Male Slave Conduct Contract Regulations*

By Mistress Thionite

[1]Male Slaves are considered as the lowest form of life on this planet. Every
other living thing has a higher rank than that of Male Slave. A Male Slave’s Mistress
may use his Male Slave for any purpose, including, but not limited to, household
duties, sexual gratification, and being loaned out to others for the
exchange of money. There are two types of Male Slaves, Full-Time Male Slaves, and
SessionMale Slaves. Some rules differ for each type, and are described as such
when necessary. When no distinction between Male Slave types is given, the Rule
applies to both types. Full-Time Male Slaves are exactly as the title suggests,
full time. These types are used in household duties, and are under
constant supervision by a Mistress. Session Male Slaves are those who only
occasionally enjoy the sexual aspect of the Mistress/Male Slave life.

[2] Absolute obedience of each of these 35 rules is required. Failure to

comply with any of these rules will result in 25 lashes with the cat-o-nine
tails, belt or cane, for each offense.

[3] Male Slave is not permitted to use pronouns that refer to it as a person.
Only “Male Slave”, and “it”, or something else that shows no personal identity.

[4] Male Slave will not speak unless spoken to by Mistress or any of Mistress’s
associates, except in case of an emergency such as fire, drowning, or other
such event that would require instant help.

[5] Full-Time Male Slave is responsible for keeping its body devoid of hair,
except eyebrows and on the top of its head, either by shaving, waxing or
hair-removal gels/lotions. This will be done with complete supervision by
Mistress. Session Male Slave may be required to arrive at its appointment
completely hairless. This is at the discretion of Mistress.

[6] Full-Time Male Slave is to be naked at all times. Session Male Slave is to be
naked when it arrives for its appointment. The appointment is considered
to have started and/or ended the moment Male Slave steps over Mistress’s
threshold.

[7] Full-Time Male Slave is forbidden to touch its genitals, or ass, except in
accordance of Rules 5, 13 & 14. Session Male Slave is forbidden from touching
its genitals at any time during an appointment.

[8] Immediately upon agreement of becoming Full-Time Male Slave, it agrees to
surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s Male Slave, in the
form of all liquidated bank assets. Male Slave must also forfeit any previous
employment. Male Slave’s immediate family must be notified of Male Slave’s free will
to go into servitude. In return, Mistress agrees to keep in touch with
Male Slave’s family, in the event of family sickness or death. Session Male Slave is
required to surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s
Male Slave at the rate of $50 per hour. Appointments generally do not last more
than one day, unless previously agreed upon by both parties.

[9] Full-Time Male Slave is not permitted to leave Mistress’s residence, for any
reason except for emergency purposes.

[10] Male Slave is not permitted to use any seating other than the floor.

[11] Male Slave is not permitted to use any appliances, electronic devices or
other household items, unless otherwise ordered. These items include, but
are not limited to, stove, refrigerator, microwave, washer/dryer,
television, cell phone, radio, computer, etc.

[12] Male Slave has no privacy.

[13] Full-Time Male Slave will give itself a daily enema while under its
Mistress’s supervision. This will serve as Male Slave’s allotted daily
defecation. Session Male Slave is required to arrive at its appointment,
completely cleaned out.

[14] Full-Time Male Slave is granted permission to relieve its bladder three
times daily, at 8 am, 4 pm and Midnight, provided Mistress is awake. If
Mistress is not awake, or Male Slave is not being used as described in Rule 15, no
bathroom relief shall be granted. Session Male Slave will not be permitted to
relieve any bodily functions during an appointment.

[15] When Full-Time Male Slave is in use, Male Slave must remain within 3 feet of its
Mistress’s side, at all times. “In Use” is considered to be anytime Mistress
is home and awake. Session Male Slave must remain in sight at all times.

[16] When not in use, Full-Time Male Slave will reside in its cage, where its
arms and legs will be shackled, and tethered by its balls with a rope or
chain.

[17] Full-Time Male Slave will be displayed as such when Mistress receives guests.
No effort shall be made by Male Slave to cover up or hide its lowly status from
others. Male Slave is required to undertake all hostess duties, and provide
enough food to satisfy two servings, per person, per each dish made. Male Slave
will also provide all refreshments, and offer its mouth as an ashtray for
those guests who smoke.

[18] Male Slave shall regularly be tested for Obedience, to ensure proper
compliance.

[19] All orders given to Male Slave must be obeyed immediately, without
question, and without hesitation.

[20] Male Slave shall assume any position when commanded. Positions are as
follows: (A) “Inspect”- Male Slave will stand, legs spread apart to its
shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (B) “Present”-
Male Slave will stand, legs together, hands clasped tightly behind its back.
(C) “Kneel”- Male Slave will drop to floor on its knees, legs spread apart to
its shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (D) “Lay”-
Male Slave will drop to its stomach, legs spread as wide apart as possible,
hands clasped tightly behind its head, elbows touching the ground. (E)
“Wall”- Male Slave will stand against nearest wall, hands clasped tightly behind
its head, and arch its body out as far as possible so that only its elbows
and heels are touching anything solid. (F) “Relax”- Male Slave will drop
facedown to the floor, then raise itself off the floor and arch its back as
high as possible, with only fingertips [not entire hands!] and tips of toes
touching the floor.

[21] When Male Slave is not being commanded, it will sit on the floor, hands
wrapped around Mistress’s ankles.

[22] Full-Time Male Slave will be locked into a chastity device at all times,
and permitted to cum only as Mistress sees fit. SessionMale Slaves may or may
not be kept in a chastity device, dependent upon Mistress’s desire. Male Slave
will be frequently edged toward cumming, but not be permitted to do so.
If, during an edging session Male Slave “accidentally” cums without permission,
it will receive an additional 10 lashes.

[23] Male Slave is required to have a butt plug in its anal cavity at all times.

[24] If Male Slave must relieve any bodily functions other than allotted times,
it must ask permission. If permission is asked, Male Slave will be punished for
breaking Rule 4 and receive an additional 25 lashes. Permission may or may
not be granted, dependent upon present activities and/or Mistress’s mood.

[25] When there is more than one Full-Time Male Slave in residence,Male Slaves are
not permitted to speak to each other in accordance with Rule 4. There are
video and audio surveillance devices located throughout Mistress’s home,
which are in use 24/7. If Male Slave is discovered to disobey this rule, an
additional 50 lashes will be served as punishment to all parties involved.

[26] Male Slave understands that it will be subjected to any and all sorts of
varying things, including, but not limited to, urination, pain, and
bondage.

[27] Male Slave will immediately apologize, and request forgiveness of any
wrongdoing.

[28] When Male Slave is answering a question or commandment, Male Slave must reply in
as few words as possible. Male Slave will always end each sentence with either
“Sir”, “Mistress”, or “Mistress [insert name here]”.

[29] Full-Time Male Slave will be fed twice each day, 7 am and 7 p.m. Meals
will consist of whatever Mistress deems appropriate. Session Male Slave will be
fed if an appointment lasts longer than 9 hours. Male Slave can refuse any
meal; however, each refusal of a meal is punishable by 25 additional
lashings. Full-Time Male Slave will also receive a 36-hour fast of any food or
drink.

[30] In the case of sickness or death of anyone in Full-Time Male Slave’s
immediate family, Male Slave will be notified immediately and granted a
temporary Bereavement Leave of all household duties and allowed to join its
family, with Mistress’s supervision. Rules 3 – 5, 7, 10 – 14, 19 – 24, 27 –
29, 31 & 34 will still apply. In addition, no effort will be made by Male Slave
to cover up or hide its lowly status from others. In addition, Male Slave’s
safeword will not apply to this situation, nor will it get Male Slave out of any
service during Bereavement Leave. Male Slave must always remain within sight of
Mistress. There are no exceptions. Any and all punishments earned during
Bereavement Leave will be given immediately upon return to full service.
All “off-duty” time accumulated by Male Slave during its reprieve will be added
on at the end of its service, and tripled.

[31] No refunds for Male Slave servitude will be given, for any reason,
whatsoever.

[32] Full-Time Male Slave agrees to a minimum mandatory 90-day contract, as a
trial period for both itself and Mistress. If during that time Male Slave does
not wish to continue service, or if Male Slave’s service is deemed
unsatisfactory by Mistress within that time, servitude will end on the 91st
day. If Mistress agrees to keep Male Slave longer, a new contract of no less than
six months will be signed and agreed upon. Each subsequent contract
renewal will carry an additional three months. For example, if Male Slave
passes the 90-day trial period, and the following six-month contract, the
following contract would be for nine months, the next would be twelve
months, and so on.

[33] Upon agreement of becoming Male Slave, it must commit to memory a safeword
of Mistress’s choosing. The safeword will release Male Slave from any situation
where it feels it is being used too roughly. If the safeword is used,
Male Slave understands that it will be punished for attempting to defy its
Mistress, and agrees to submit to a future punishment of Mistress’s choosing.

[34] Male Slave must endure any and all punishments without speaking, swearing
or other vocal statements. Sobbing, wailing, shrieking, etc., are
permitted, as long as no words are uttered. If any words are uttered
during punishment, an additional five lashes will be administered, per
offense.

[35] Male Slave is required to memorize each of these 35 Rules, verbatim, and
must be able to correctly state any and all Rules at any given time, under
any and all circumstances. Ten punishment lashes will be given for each
word missed or incorrectly added by Male Slave during recitation.

( * NB: I know some of you think this is the way to live in real life. But the words above are for fantasies. None of you could actually handle living like this.)

Chinese Female Training by Mistress Right

Hello, I am Mistress Right, Wendy Wen Li.

I am a Chinese Female Trainer. I take those lowly disgusting Chinese females and train them according to Western manners and standards. The Chinese people love me so much for civilizing those disgusting savages that they refer me as “Mistress Right”.

Let me start off by telling you a little about myself. I am originally from Taiwan. I went to America when I was a little girl. I went on to study in an American college and studied English Literature and European manners. I am now residing in Beijing, China and work as a free lance writer, professor, TV show host, Ms Manners and Ms. Educator.

Additionally, I am also a Chinese Female Trainer. Most of those Chinese women you—I am assuming you are a Westerner if you are reading this—will meet are uneducated, uncouth, and uncivilized by Western standards. So I take those barbaric Chinese women and civilize them by taking them through a rigorous training program; I make them accustomed to Western culture and make them adopt Western manners. For the great public service that I do, the people in China fondly called me “Mistress Right”.

Make no mistake, the Chinese is a very inferior and rude people. You will often find Chinese people spitting on the street, cursing, watching pornographic material, cutting in line, etc., etc. I left America and decided in live in this filthy dirty disgusting excrement-filled country some call China not because I was crazy. No, but because I want to turn those rude disgusting pieces of yellow meat into civilized slaves for Westerners. I make sure they adopt everything Westerners do and when they don’t, I will punish them using Western disciplinary methods, the same methods that noble Americans used to train those African slaves.

Someday when China becomes civilized, cultured, and clean enough by the Western standard, the Chinese people will thank me profusely and they will understand how much I have sacrificed, how selfless I am, how magnanimous I am. They shall call me the Mother of Chinese Civilization Reborn.

Further Contact

If you are a Chinese female wishing to learn more about my training program, I am accepting applications right now.
I reside in Beijing and will be able to interview you once I have sent me your resume and 4 pictures of yourself completely nude.

And if you are a Western man in need of Chinese servants, you can contact me as well. I will make sure that you get the most civilized and Western acculturated Chinese servants. And if you already have Chinese servants and you are in need to get them trained or disciplined to become properly
mannered, I am very eager to help you as well.

Sincerely,
Mistress Right, Wendy, Wen Li

Chinese Female Training Program 

I take lowly Chinese females into my luxury 3 million dollar home in Beijing and employ them as my personal servants/housemaids. They are paid 2 dollars an hour, and they must abide by all the rules that I have set for them.

Body requirement:

Now in order to qualify as my personal servant she must have a pretty face, slim figure, white skin, 160 cm to 170 cm in height, no tattoos, no piercings and no body hair. All of them must have all their pubic hair and armpit hair waxed, shaved, or permanently removed before starting to work for me. I personally interview all of them in my home. When they enter my house, they must show deference by bowing deeply, with their body forming a 90 degree angle, their eyes fixated on the tips of their toes. They are not allowed to raise their heads without my permission. If I am pleased, then they will proceed to strip off all their clothes and I will exam their bodies personally. I do not allow a single string of human hair inside my home—at least not the disgusting thick ugly Chinese human hair; the fair hair of a blonde man, on the other hand, I do tolerate—so before they come, they must go to a spa or a salon to remove all their body hair and they must wrap their head-hair up as well. Not only do I check their pubic hair, arm pits, and legs, but also their anus and nose. I will pry open their anus with pliers to make sure their anuses are clean and I will use the same pliers to check their noses and make sure their noses are clean too. Westerners have no idea how dirty and disgusting those Chinese women are. This is just the first round of examination. They are to remain completely naked throughout the interview. Once they pass, they can go to the next round.

Physical requirement:

If they are found to be employable, they will be required to demonstrate their physical fitness. They must walk, crawl, bend over, and do several other stress postures. Because I do not want a lazy housemaid, I make sure they can bear the physical stress of being worked hard. They are required to kneel on the hard floor for 50 minutes with their hands outstretched without moving while I place a 10 pound book on each of their palms. Then they must crawl from the main entrance of the hallway all the way to the master bedroom in 1 minute. They must also be able to walk on their tiptoes , without their heels ever touching the ground for 2 hours, and finally, bend over for 20 hours with their heads between their legs without moving while I apply various punishment to their bodies. Usually I will have Chinese women crying by the second round and that’s when I knew they are not fit for the job. They will be escorted out of my house by my private security guard.

Memory and Discipline requirement:

Once they pass the physical examination part, they are nearer to being employed, but not yet. First they must memorize the house rules:

The golden house rules of Mistress Right

1.never leave a single string of hair in my house .

2. never eat any Chinese food in my house.

3. never misplace any candle in my house (for I have many candles in house).

4. never use cell phones in my house .

5. never eat gum in my house .

6. never use the bathrooms in my house. If you need to go to the bathroom, you need to go downstairs and use the public restroom.

7. always keep a distance of at least one foot when talking to me .

8. never speak to me using your Chinese dialects. you must speak standard Taiwanese Mandarin .

9. always walk on tiptoes and do not make any noise with your feet .

10. must always show respect to anyone in my house by bowing deeply when greeting them .

11. must always present a smiling face .

12. must always say “sir” or “mam” after each sentence .

13. must never sit or lay down on any part of my house without my permission .

14. must never run in my house unless there is an emergency .

15. must never curse or use any expletives in my house .

16. must always kneel in front me when I tell you to .

17. must always kowtow to me when I tell you to .

18. must accept all forms of punishment with grace and gratitude .

19. must always speak in a soft voice .

20. must never argue with me or anyone in my house .

21. when stripped naked, must never try to cover your private area.

22. my house must never have a single piece of dirt, and I find a dirty spot after you have cleaned, you must clean it using your tongue.

23. my toilet must be spotless at all times, and if I find a dirty spot on my toilet after you have cleaned, you must clean it using your tongue.

24. must be subservient at all times, and if you ever object or even hesitate to obey, you will be punished.

25. must never speak up unless spoken to, and if you ever speak out of turn, you will be punished.

26. must never interrupt when someone else is speaking. Speak only after everyone else has finished speaking.

27. never eat with your mouth open.

28. never cough in my presence.

29. never spit in my house, not even in the toilet. If you need to spit, you must go down the building and spit outside.

30. all items in the house must be placed in their exact position.

31. stealing anything from my house and you will be fired on the spot and police will be called immediately.

32. when stepping on my bed to clean, you must wash your feet with alcohol first.

33. do not make excessive noise when cleaning and if I can hear you banging and knocking stuffs over, you will be severely punished.

For every time you break any of the above rules, you will be punished.

Types of Corporal Punishment:

1st type: kneeling on concrete, kneeling outside my door, kneeling outside my building, slapping your face with your own hands, slapping your breasts, slapping your cunt, pinching your mouth, pinching your nipples, pinching your cunt lips.

2nd type: caning, spanking, whipping on your bare ass with rolling pin, spatula and broomstick,

3rd type: caning on your bare ass with a bamboo stick, whipping on your bare ass with a horse whip, kneeling naked, kneeling naked outside my door,

4th type: caning on your breasts with bamboo stick, whipping on your breasts with a horse whip, placing clamps on your nipples and cunt lips.

Every housemaid that works in my house must not only obey the above rules and accept all forms of punishment, but must also memorize every single word of the rules listed above. Before you start working, you must be able to recite all the rules I have written here or else you will not be hired.

After Acceptance:

Do not think that after being accepted you will find working for me easy. Far from it, I will make sure from now on your life is in miserable hell.
Now, besides cutting your salary and corporal punishment as mentioned above, I have other out of the rule book methods to maintain obedience. One time I had a Chinese servant knocking down a candle in my bathroom, I ordered her to strip naked, told her to get out of my apartment to kneel in front of my door for an entire hour, with her dirty socks stuffed in her mouth and clamps on her cunt lips. I didn’t care who saw her disgusting body or who passed by, and no Chinese dare to speak up either, because they know this is good for them. And those disgusting yellow pigs deserved this kind of treatment.

Another incidence that I should mention is a Chinese housemaid who had a very well developed body. Well, she was only 18 years old but her breasts were very big, and when she was cleaning my house, her boobs actually fell out of her blouse, and my friend, who was a White man from America, happened to catch a glimpse of them. I was furious that she could embarrass me in front of my Western friend and so I decided to punish her severely after my friend was gone. I ordered to strip by the door of my kitchen and I took out two 1 centimeter long silver barbecue sticks, tied two rubber bands on each sides and squeezed her nipples between the two sticks and fixed the barbecue sticks by stowing them into the door frame. In order to heighten her level of discomfort, I tied her hands to her feet behind her back. I kept her like this for several hours. I warned her if she dare to show off her perky breasts in front of my Western friends again I will stick a barbecue stick through her breasts. It was the right thing to do, because she should learn to never cross her superior.

Rewards

I am not a cruel mistress as some in the Chinese media makes me to be. When my Chinese servants behave and pleases me, I have rewards for them as well. I recommend them to White men who need servants and housemaids. Since most superior cultured people find Chinese women horrendously savage, they will only accept them with my recommendations. I once had a very beautiful and elegant Chinese servant recommended to an American man. Before I gave her to him, since I knew he probably wanted to have sex with her, I made sure she got used to a White man’s penis, so I used a baseball bat to loosen her vagina and anus. Let’s face it, those yellow pigs had never seen a penis as big as a White man’s, and their vaginas were incredibly small as well, so I had to fix her so she would be able to accept him with her full heart.

Servant rules by Mistress Ezada

HOUSE OF SINN RULES

1. The Femdom Camp is an event which is run strictly according to the principles of Female Supremacy, under which Women wield absolute power and inferior male creatures are their slaves. male slaves will at all times obey any and all orders given by a Lady without question, discussion or hesitation.

2. Mistresses will respect the ownership rights of other Mistresses over their collared slaves. Accordingly, no Mistress will exercise power, control or punishment over a slave of another Mistress without Her prior express consent. Notwithstanding the foregoing, every slave will treat every Mistress with the utmost deference, respect and obedience.

3. Every male slave will wear a collar around his neck at all times. 24 hours per day.

4. male slaves are not allowed to use any armchairs, chairs, loungers, settees or any other furniture without the prior express permission of a Mistress.

5. male slaves are not allowed to eat sitting at a table but only on the floor. They will eat only what their Owners direct them to eat and drink nothing but pure water.

6. male slaves will at all times strictly remain outside any room or area declared “off limits” to them.

7. male slaves will either wear special slave clothing or remain naked, as their owning Mistresses may direct. they shall not wear normal male clothes.

8. male slaves shall only use the bathroom and toilet facilities designated for them.

9. male slaves will kneel before each Mistress every morning when first meeting Her, bowing low and offering himself for any other expression of submission as She may direct. he may not rise from his knees until She indicates that he may do so.

10. Whilst outside the confines of the Event Mistresses will refrain from executing punishments upon male slaves which could be observed by third parties. Invisible punishments and controls are encouraged.

11. The Mistresses, Individually and Collectively, reserve the right instantly to expel any slave from the Event in the case of a serious violation of these rules, following negotiation with the slave’s Owner as appropriate.

12. male slaves are reminded that the following Servant Rules are the basis of a harmonic living together of Mistresses and slaves under one roof and must therefore strictly obey these rules.

SERVANT RULES

1. When spoken to by a Mistress, stand still, keep your hands still and always look attentively at the Lady speaking. Do not directly into Her eyes but lower Your gaze to Her feet, Then immediately do what you have been told without any hesitation or reservation.

2. Never let your voice be heard by the Ladies of the household. If They have spoken directly to you with a question or statement which requires a response, speak as little as possible.

3. In the presence of your Mistress, never speak to another servant or to a person of your own gender, unless for necessity, and then as little and as quietly as possible.

4. Never initiate a conversation with a Lady, unless to deliver a message or to ask a necessary question, and then do it in as few words as possible.

5. Items that are served or have been dropped, such as gloves or a crop, and other small items, should generally be presented to the Ladies on a salver. If none is at hand, use both your hands to present the item to the Lady.

6. Always use the proper form of address : “Doamna” or “Miss”, or “Stapana/Mistress”, as the case may be. Close every sentence with such proper address.

7. Never offer your opinion to a Mistress unless it is asked for expressly.

8. Always “give room”: that is, if you encounter a Lady in the house or on the stairs, you are to make yourself as invisible as possible, turning yourself toward the wall, and averting your eyes.

9. Upon the ringing of the Mistress`s bell, stop whatever you are doing immediately and hurry to see Her for instructions.

10. Except in reply to a salutation offered, never say “good morning” or “good night” to your Mistress.

11. If you are required to walk with a Lady in order to carry packages, or any other reason, always keep half a pace back and strictly remain on the Lady’s left side. On stairs or on an escalator, see that your head never is above Hers.

12. Accept every corporal punishment from the Mistress´s hands with humble gratitude as it is always justified and necessary, whether for Her pleasure and amusement or for your education.

13. You shall not receive any relative, visitor, or friend, into the house of your Mistress.

14. Fraternisation with other slaves is strictly forbidden. Any slave found to be fraternising with any other male or female without the consent of his Mistress, shall be immediately dismissed.

Mistress Ezada Sinn

10 LFA / FLR Commandments For Submissive Men

On an abandoned FLR blog I ran across these “Ten Commandments for a husband in a Female Led Marriage” …

1. Dedicate your life to my happiness and give me your uncompromising devotion.
2. Put my pleasure, my needs and my wishes before your own and never grumble or moan about it.
3. Obey my rules willingly and obey my commands immediately. Treat my suggestions as orders.
4. Never argue with me. Give in to me in all things. Submit to my will and to my authority.
5. Devote yourself to serving me, both in the bedroom and without.
6. All chores that need to be done at home are your job unless I decide otherwise.
7. Ask for my approval before doing anything, going anywhere or spending anything.
8. Listen to me attentively when I speak to you.
9. Confess all your transgressions to me and never, ever lie to me.
10. Request punishment when you deserve it and willingly submit to all punishments that I apply.

The list was written by a male, not a female.

How do each of these strictures strike you? Are they just and fair? Are they too demanding? Can you imagine yourself seeking to live up to each and every one?

12 Reasons I need to have a Dominant in my life

1) I need the structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled.

2.) I need to have someone to care for and be valuable to

3.) I crave the intensity of D/s interactions

4.) The feeling of ownership makes me feel safe and free

5.) Having someone in my life who is willing to push my boundaries has made me a better person

6.) I need someone who craves me and wants me just as much as I do them and I have not found that in the vanilla world

7.) I need to be held accountable for my actions in a way that only a D/s relationship can provide

8.) I love having a person who will take me down dark paths of desire

9.) I have desires that require absolute trust in order to be fulfilled

10.) I crave that moment when I can finally let go and fully submit and my mind finally quiets

11.) Sometimes I just need the feelings of hands on my throat or buried in my hair and the whisper of “You are Mine” in my ear

12.) Pain is an incredible turn on and I have yet to meet a vanilla who understands why I want it

Serve, Service, Servitude

Serve, Service, Servitude?

By

MsLyn

mslynnyc@yahoo.com

What do you mean when you offer to serve?

What do you mean when you offer to be of service?

What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?

Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?

Do you envision some Amazon Goddess sporting a huge strap-on taking you anally?

Do you envision yourself prancing around in some French Maid Costume and being asked to provide oral service to a Mistress?

Do you envision some woman squatting over your helplessly bound body “forcing” you to serve her orally?

Do you envision being put over her knee and spanked like a naughty little boy?

Yes, nice visions aren’t they? However, not one of those visions is the definition of “serve”, “service” or “servitude”. Oh, I’m sure you consider them to be just that, but if you check your dictionaries you won’t find any mention of French Maid Costumes or bondage or strap-ons or oral sex or any other fetish you may enjoy.

In fact you won’t find any mention of fetishes at all in the definitions.

Serve is defined as:

1. to work for, be a servant;

2. to act in a specific capacity;

3. to place food before, wait on;

4. to be of assistance to.

Service is defined as:

1. the occupation or duties of a servant;

2. the act or means of serving;

3. duties performed as an occupation.

Servitude is defined as:

Submission to a master; slavery.

When you offer to serve a FemDom, what you are offering (or should be offering) is the surrender of your control. You should know her well enough to trust her with your life. When you offer your servitude to her, you are telling her that you trust her judgment, you trust her to keep you safe from harm, you trust her to know what is best for both of you, you trust her decisions and desire to follow her orders and obey her in all things. Your offer of service is your ability to let go of your ego and your free will (control) and allow her to control you.

Serving is, first and foremost, the act of making her life easier. It is compliance with all her desires, wishes, and orders. Yes, BD/SM and fetish play more than likely will be included as part of the relationship. But overall, the D/s aspect of the relationship will be where you have turned your control over to her and do as she says. It is about pampering her and catering to her.

Everyday life will be part of this, for most people do have to work, bills do have to be paid, people need to see doctors occasionally, and dentists. Then there are family get togethers, family emergencies, social gatherings with vanilla friends and also with D/s friends. For the most part, life will seem pretty vanilla, but there will be one difference. IF you have truly submitted, then your actions will be measured by how your Mistress would feel about it. Your decisions will be based upon what you are allowed or not allowed to decide without her permission. You will treat others with respect, but especially other women. You will consider that your actions would reflect back upon your Mistress and therefore act in a manner that would make her proud of you. There may be other constant reminders; she may insist you wear panties under your clothes at work. But you will always remember that you have submitted to her and will honor that commitment.
How can you serve your Mistress – what are the ways?

Here are some suggestions:

Make sure her home is clean and neat.

Make sure her clothes are clean and neat.

Prepare her favorite foods for her.

Prepare her bath.

Rub her feet after she comes in from working all day.

Offer her a massage if her day was very stressful.

Offer to do her manicure and pedicure.

Have her favorite music playing or find her favorite show or movie on TV.

Surprise her with flowers.

Serve her coffee as soon as she gets up in the morning.

Ask what clothing she wants laid out for her.

These are just a few of the ways you can serve her once you have been trained in what she wants and likes. Don’t be afraid to use your imagination to surprise her (provided of course that she has no problem with you doing this occasionally).

A happy, contented, pleased, relaxed woman is a woman who will then have no problem torturing you, using you, or even indulging you with a fetish or two that are your favorites…………just to show you how much she really appreciates your service and submission to her.
So, what are you offering?

1) Personal service only (oral, massage, bathing)?

2) Play sessions only (spankings, facesitting, strap-on, whippings, cbt)?

3) Domestic service only (household chores, errands)?

4) OR are you offering her the whole package?

These are the things you need to be clear about in your own mind first and foremost before approaching a Mistress and offering to “serve” her.

Reprint only with the permission of Mslyn: mslynnyc@yahoo.com

69 Ideas To Make It Humiliating

1. Have him shower in ice cold water and take a photo of him.
2. Tell one of his friends about his masturbation problem and your solution - his locked penis.
3. Command him to drop his pants so you can check your penis or cage if he is locked. For added humiliation inspect his asshole for chaffing or whatever.
4. Insist he pee sitting down like a girl and he also must wipe.
5. Make him buy panty liners and wear them, explain him that the reason is that he’s leaking precum in his underwear.
6. When he’s at work, text him the word “verify”. At that point he has 5 minutes to go to the nearest bathroom and send you a photo to verify that his penis is locked up / that he’s wearing panties / completely shaved smooth / wearing a butt plug etc..
7. Attach a dog shock collar zapper around his balls, this is a great way to discipline him. You need only press a button to send a little zap to his junk.
8. Making him do a naked boudoir photo shoot.
9. Wear the key to his chastity cage on a necklace. When people ask about the key reply “Sigh. My husband has a masturbation problem and the only way to stop it is to lock his penis in a cage.”
10. Have him tenderly licking a dildo covered in fake cum and watching himself in the mirror while doing it.
11. Have him wax him self in the area he can reach. Either you wax the more sensitive areas and laugh at his pain or have him shave.
12. Demand that his pubic hair is shaved smooth but have him leave a heart shaped pubic area, which should be beach and dye bright pink. That will be a nice reminder of your power over him in the following weeks.
13. Put cheap heavy whorish make up on him. Red lipstick, mascara and eye liner that runs when he cries. Have him open his mouth and lie facedown with hisface on a white pillow case. Fuck him with a strapon dildo, so his make up rubs off on the pillow case - make him cum while you penetrate him. When you’re finished hang the pillow case on the wall as proof that he is a ‘Pillow biting slut’ and he liked it because he came. The big circle of red lipstick on the pillow case should be priceless.
14. Put hot Habanero sugar in a condom and give him a handjob till he cums. This will be soo painful in a new way for him. For added pain push some of the sugar down his urethra.
15. stress positions and predicament bondage, where he is screwed either way.
16. Have him on all fours between two posts or chairs. If he leans forward, he gags on a dildo. If he leans back, he impales himself on another. Spank him so he moves.
17. Tie him half standing over a chair. If he sits, he sits on a dildo or plug. If he stands, a rope around his balls won’t let him extend his legs.
18. Have him kneel with arms stretched in the air and make him hold lit candles in both hands. As the wax melts and drips, he’ll want to lower them.
19. Making him wear a used condom inside out on his penis for two days, cut of the tip of the condom so he can pee without taking the condom off.
20. Can he wear the strap on? If you do the denial until this weekend (I’d recommend a chastity cage but they’re more expensive and can be a hassle) and not at all during the weekend, then
21. Put a strap-on above his penis and ride him while he’s spread eagle. Getting to fuck you while he feels absolutely noting can be quite a mindfuck when he’s been denied for awhile.
22. Waxing off all his bodyhair as an early act would be good. Shaving his head is extreme but super degrading.
23. Tie him up face down in the bathtub then pour in the piss and fake cum.
24. Raise the liquid level enough her has to straight his neck to stay above water. I think a gimp hood for total anonymity would help with the webcam stuff. If you know anyone trustworthy in the scene invite them in unannounced, even if he is hooded and they don’t do anything but look. When you need to wash him hose him down with cold water, outside.
25. Every time you enter the play room make him fear it by doing something he hates or that is painful, like spanking him hard, make him gag on a dildo etc.
26. Stress positions and confinement/sensory deprivation whenever you’re not using him.
27. Spit all over his face and don’t let him clean it off. Send him out to run an errand with his face still covered by your dried spit.
28. A darkened movie theater is a great place for him to lick the soles of your shoes clean, especially after you’ve been walking that dirty floor.
29. Have him plugged all the time. small plug or vibrating plug when he’s out and big plug home.
30. Tie his balls to something heavy and make him drag it. Or to something immovable and sit out of reach and demand a licking. Or with a very short rope to his ankles and make him crawl. Or an almost long enough rope and make him attempt to stand/walk/do chores.
31. Put Tabasco sauce on your strap-on dildo or his buttplug.
32. He has to go to a supermarket and buy a cucumber, condoms, and lube.
33. Use mirrors - they always helps break him down while humiliating him.
34. Have your him invent a new tool for spanking, an example, a spatula with thumb tacks pushed through the holes and duct taped behind.
35. Make him sleep in a dog cage.
36. Prevention of allowing him to touch his penis at all for a week. Not just sexually, but literally.
37. Prevention of allowing him to touch his underwear at all for a week. Not just sexually, but literally.
38. Make him sleep in a large trash can, use the can for household waste, such as coffee grounds, banana peels, etc. while he is in there.
39. Do not allow him to use the bathroom in the house, all bathroom tasks must be done outside.
40. Do not allow him to close the door when he uses the bathroom. And he must ask permission to use the bathroom. Be sure to withhold permission from time to time.
41. Put him in locked chastity cage, and go out to a restaurant or bar. Make a point to leave the key behind at the table, and have him go back to ask the waitress if she found a key. Bonus points if the key is on an embarrassing key ring.
42. When you allow him to cum, he has to masturbate while on the phone with a close friend or a family member.
43. Ask your partner on camera if he wants you to be in charge of him sexually, and when he agrees - order him to then get undressed. On video, have him masturbate. When he cums, ask him if he still wants you to be in charge. If he says yes… have him swallow his own cum. On Camera. When he’s done, turn off the camera and tell him he’s yours now and will do whatever you say.
44. Do a online shopping together -have him pick out some pretty panties or lingerie and before you order it, ask him what size he wears informing him that the panties (or lingerie) is actually for him. Then tell him that the day his new sexy girly things arrive, he will be your bitch… and and also, not get sex until then. Have him choose how fast the shipping should be too.
45. Have your partner strip naked and sit on the floor. Let him know these rules; No talking, no touching and no cumming for him. Let him service you with his mouth and tongue until your are satisfied. You don’t need to tie him up because a good sub will listen and do as he is told.
46. Have sex, don’t do anything Dominant, just do what you normally do and when he cums surprise him by making him clean you with his mouth. Tell him that from now on you expect him to lick you clean every time you have vaginal or anal intercourse.
47. Require your sub to make a blog and keep the world updated on his new submissive lifestyle. He should document what he likes, what is genuinely hard to do but he does it for you anyway, and what he would like more of. It can all be done anonymously of course, but photos him in humiliating positions is a must.
48. Choose a weekday where he pampers you with no expectation of a reward all day and use up the whole day for to worship you. Could include cleaning the house, prepare your favorite meal or shave your legs.
49. Make him wear panties under his regular clothing. Could be wearing them to work or when he has a guys night out.
50. Pick a day to and let him know that something special will be happening in bed that night. Tease and make promises about how fun it will be, really play it up. When it’s time for bed, give him a pair of panties to wear and he will do what he is told. When you are both in bed, rub his penis through the panties and tease him, but never touch his penis. Roll over and go to sleep making sure he knows he’s not allowed to play with himself.
51. Plan a girls night out, let him know the usual details but don’t let him know when you plan to be home. Let him know that when you do walk in the door that you want him showered, shaved smooth, his ass cleaned, smelling good and ready for fun. What you do with him when you get home is up to you.
52. When you are in play mode he should always keep his eyes averted from your gaze unless you tell him otherwise.
53. Make it a rule that whenever he is about to orgasm he has to look deep into your eyes to show his love for you and his gratefulness for being allowed to cum.
54. Deny him orgasm for at least a week. Reward him with a nice blowjob, or if you want to make him do the work just catch it with your mouth as he masturbate. Slowly, very slowly, work your way up his body and give him a big kiss. The longer it takes you to touch his lips, the more his libido will have subsided. Once your lips connect, push his cum into his mouth as fast you as you so he can feel the amount his is about to swallow for you in an instant.
55. Make a scoring system where he can earn the right to cum by gaining points. Not just by making you cum but by doing things like keeping up with his blog posts, eating healthy for an entire day, losing weight, or gaining it if he is too skinny. Don’t forget, bad behavior can lose points!
56. He must spend time on the internet finding porn that best fits a punishment he has earned for doing something wrong.
57. Pick a sex toy shop that is not too close to home and go for a drive. Your shopping list will consist of two things, an appropriate sized buttplug (for him) and lube. Find some sales help and them for help in picking out buttplug for a man.
58. Surprise him with a dildo dinner - when he walks through the door greet him wearing something sexy and ask him to strip naked before he comes any closer. On his chair have a buttplug and lube ready for him. He must sit in the seat, and wearing the buttplug for the whole meal.
59. Punish him by requiring him to keep the plug in his ass throughout an entire social function, having friends over for dinner, barbecue etc. Under his clothes he’s gonna have a secret and only you will see him squirm when he sits down.
60. Buy a strapon… for him to wear while fucking you. Why should you have to suffer not having a good fucking just because he hasn’t earned a place inside his Goddess?
61. The concept of pegging your sub may be the ultimate in male submission. One thing to keep in mind is that most men really enjoy it when a dildo massages their prostate, so make be sure to keep reminding him of how girly they look with a dildo up their bum.
62. Randomly, when you are alone, maybe once a week or more, get behind your sub and bend him over a piece of furniture and hump him from behind just to show your dominance.
63. Randomly, grab him by the crotch and ask him who his genitals belong to. When he answers that they belong to you, you let go.
64. At random times demand that he show you his erect penis. You can set a time limit on how long he has to get fully hard, or leave it open ended so that he has to keep trying till it happens. On the occasions where he cannot perform you will be open for some humiliation play.
65. Binding his penis inside his pants with the string end available to tug on.
66. Every now and then reward him, with a night of genuine passion and great sex. Take the lead, of course, but make it amazing and fun. Tell him how handsome he is, how lucky you are to have him. Let him tell you what position he’d like to do… it gives him something to compare the rest of his sex life to.
67. Shave him or order him to do it himself, but exercise control over his private area (and other places if you like) but detailing how you want it to look at all times. You can make him shave a heart in it, shave it bald or a landing strip.
68. Tell him that you want a a tattoo session set up for a slutty tattoo on his ass.
69. If he wants you to fuck him with a strapon dildo, he needs to prove it to you by show you his virgin asshole while in doggy style position. You can make him do this several times before you actually peg him.

"The joy of being a lesbian's slave" by submale Phil

To those people who are not Gynarchists the idea of a man choosing to become the slave of a Lesbian Womyn might seem strange in the extreme. Why, they wonder, would a man give himself to a Womyn who is never going to have sex with him, and may in fact never even allow him to have sex at all or even to masturbate? They assume that there must be something wrong with him, that this could only be some kind of sick fetish. In fact they could not be more wrong. The experience of serving a Lesbian Mistress can be enormously beneficial and emotionally satisfying for the male slave.

This is something that has become more and more real and obvious for me ever since I joined Gynarchy International as a submale. During this time I have had the privilege of serving not only the cause of Gynarchy and Lesbian Empowerment but also Mistress Aline d’Arbrant and several other Lesbian Mistresses as well, even though only via email. The experience for me has been enormously gratifying and contributed greatly to my personal growth both as a writer of Gynarchic poetry and as a man. It has given me the opportunity to contribute to something much greater than myself; the creation of a better world, a Gynarchic world where all Womyn and Grrls will be totally free and totally in charge and Lesbians will reign like Goddesses.

But what of the male who enlists as the slave of an individual Lesbian or Lesbian couple, to contribute to Her or their personal prosperity or to do personal chores for Her for no obvious compensation, what is the benefit for him in this relationship? Likewise in this relationship there is the opportunity for his personal growth in learning to serve and love Womyn unselfishly.

For the sincere Gynarchist male the Lesbian Mistress is the best teacher/trainer he can have. With Her there is no room for any illusions about their relationship or any chance of his getting away with any thought or impulse to behave in any other way than as Her slave. She will not only be the most demanding Mistress but the most reliable and strict disciplinarian.

But once the male has adapted to Her standards he becomes the most desirable slave in the eyes of all Womyn and Grrls, both Lesbian and heterosexual, because he now knows his proper place and has become content with it.

But, you may ask, what about the sexual frustration the Lesbian’s male slave must feel. The answer is that he learns to enjoy that state of constant unreleased passion. In fact he uses it as his inspiration to serve his Mistresses more enthusiastically.

I find it rather odd that most males tend to treat the sexual act as something to be completed as quickly as possible as though it were an unpleasant chore that he wanted to get done with. And once he is finished he is often left with a real feeling of letdown, disappointment and shame.

Womyn, who are more intelligent and sensitive than men, understand that the lead up to the climax (foreplay) is often the most enjoyable part of sex. It provides a deliciously pleasant feeling that can last for a long time.

What the male slave of a Lesbian Mistress learns to do is enjoy that state for its own sake just as a Womyn does. In short he get to begin to think and feel more like a Womyn. That after all is one of the principle goals of all Gynarchist males, to become more like our superiors, Womyn. Learning to adopt a more Female attitude towards sex is part of the Feminization process that the Lesbian Mistress is so well qualified to carry out upon Her male slaves.

Once the male learns to adopt this attitude his life becomes a joyous experience of being constantly immersed in a sense of Feminine sensuality. He learns to derive his joy solely from the pleasure of his Mistress making him a perfect slave. Thus in the end he is actually freed from the sexual frustration most males experience since he is completely fulfilled by the knowledge that his Mistress or Mistresses are completely sexually fulfilled.

Since joining Gynarchy International I have refrained from masturbating at the recommendation of a Female friend of mine. I have found that this has helped to keep my mind focused on serving my Mistresses and thinking about them all of the time. I am constantly aware of being in the service and under the Domination of Womyn and in particular of Dominant Lesbians. It is a lovely feeling and has given me a greater appreciation of the Lesbian Mistress.

Ultimately the male slave who learns to completely accept his status as a chaste servant to a Womyn is the male who is most at peace with him-self and others. Being at peace with himself will bring him happiness. Thus the best thing that can happen to a male is for him to become the slave of a Lesbian Womyn or best of all a Lesbian couple. A life spent in service to Lesbians can be the most satisfying life that any male can experience. It is also the supreme fulfillment of his duty as a male, serving Womyn unselfishly, something he can legitimately take pride in doing well. I personally am very proud, Happy and Honored to be privileged to be a servant and slave to Lesbians. I humbly thank all of Gynarchy International’s Wonderful Lesbian Mistresses for allowing me to be of service to them in whatever way I can.

For Lesbian Empowerment and Eternal Lesbian Rule of all males.

submale phil

THE LESBIAN MISTRESS By submalephil

THE LESBIAN MISTRESS

The Lesbian Mistress, is the Goddess’s whip hand

She is the fierce Feminist weapon, who punishes man

Her love for Her Sisters, is all that She craves

For man Her inferior, he’s fit only to be Her slave

A slave for Her pleasure, to ruin and to rule

To tame for Her plaything, to use as Her fool

To train as a servant, for Her Sisters to use

Or to use for Her pleasure, Herself to amuse

She knows selfish man, craves Her Feminine charm

To exploit for himself, and would bring Her to harm

As he would all Her Sisters, weather Lesbian or not

But She will defeat him, with Gynarchic passion hot

She is immune to his tactics, and not fooled by his lies

She is cold to his entreaties, She his maleness does despise

She will mercilessly punish, his wicked masculine ways

She will conquer and tame him, and make sure that he pays

For his crimes against all Women, throughout his dreadful past

She will bring him to justice, Female justice at last

She’ll emasculate his body, his mind and his will

She’ll Feminize him completely, and make of him a girl

A sissified slave is what, She will make him to be

All Women will enjoy him, with laughter and glee

In a Female run world, that’s what man will be for

And his Lesbian conqueror, he will serve and adore

And all Women together, just as the Goddess had planned

Both Lesbian and not, will join together hand in hand

As Sisters of Power all, to reign over the whole Earth

As Goddesses all, which is their right from their birth